NBA Policy - How do you respond?

Originally Posted by Luxury Daphne

#5 - Outing or threats of outing are taken seriously. Membership here is anonymous and for the privacy of our members it will remain that way. That means any effort or attempt to connect a person's real world information to their username on this board will be dealt with swiftly and harshly. This includes real names, employment, medical info, addresses past or present, images, criminal or driving record, etc. We expect everyone who participates here to respect and go to great lengths to protect the anonymity and privacy of one another. Reckless disregard or accidental outing will also be taken very seriously.

Originally Posted by Russ38

You'll be hearing from my lawyers.

It honestly DOESN'T surprise me that you don't have one black friend you could ask this to instead of starting a thread to get an answer.

I black guy agree and found this funny as hell

#5 - Outing or threats of outing are taken seriously. Membership here is anonymous and for the privacy of our members it will remain that way. That means any effort or attempt to connect a person's real world information to their username on this board will be dealt with swiftly and harshly. This includes real names, employment, medical info, addresses past or present, images, criminal or driving record, etc. We expect everyone who participates here to respect and go to great lengths to protect the anonymity and privacy of one another. Reckless disregard or accidental outing will also be taken very seriously.

You'll be hearing from my lawyers. Originally Posted by Dorian Gray

Damnit you outed yourself after he outed you before I could do it.. aww fickut...nevermind lol

Damnit you outed yourself after he outed you before I could do it.. aww fickut...nevermind lol Originally Posted by poppy71

And damn poppy, I thought I was doing him a favor by posting one of his more gangsta poses.....

And damn poppy, I thought I was doing him a favor by posting one of his more gangsta poses..... Originally Posted by Russ38

Lmao DG and the G stands for gangsta

Message her and ask about it. The reason I started not seeing black men was because there were too many thugs and pimps hitting me up. I also knew a lot of girls who would tell me about horror stories from AA clients. If you're distinguished and professional and you have plenty of references/okays/reviews you might just get to see the girl of your choice. Pics confirming you are a nerdy/geeky type don't hurt either.

I say roll the dice. A lot of the time an exception will be made for you if you can prove you are a true gentleman. Originally Posted by honeydavis

....And open mouth insert foot. I take that all back. Girls, if you have an NBA policy and you get hit up by a black man wanting an exception to be made for him, you are being targeted for an attack. I was about to make an exception for someone (on this thread) and then got NCNS and missed another appointment because of him. That made me realize that if you have an NBA rule, you will probably hear from AA men looking to screw you over royally because of your preference. That reminds me of the last 2 I made exceptions for: the first one booked with me knowing I don't see black guys just hoping I would make an exception for him so he could write a scathing review of my body (despite the fact he popped in 5 minutes) and the 2nd, ripped me off for $250.

So yeah, from now on NBA in full effect with me. 3 strikes and I'm out.
Peace.

Heh...awesome...

I get a kick out of it when I see a black provider with an NBA policy. Shit! I keep forgetting they're "mixed". Them damned Puerto Rican and Dominican girls with with some German thrown in always confuse me, especially when they don't speak no Spanish!

Honey Davis, so you're saying there's NO CHANCE that you're ever going to let me glaze those tits? No chance? Ever? Come on! Don't be that way.

While you personally may have had misfortunes with black guys (sorry to hear that, fwiw), it does not happen to everyone, and all black guys don't do shit like that. I've talked lots of NBA'ers into letting me pull the panties down. Well, not a lot. A few. A handful, if you will. Even better, we've parted ways with smiles on our faces, them and me. I've even had repeats with some of them.

I can't believe we (you all) still use a broad brush to judge people. While this may disappoint you, my attack count currently stands at 0. Black girl, white girl, or otherwise.

Why don't you call out the guys who did you wrong. Meanwhile, you need to think about putting me on your good side.

Honey Davis, so you're saying there's NO CHANCE that you're ever going to let me glaze those tits? No chance? Ever? Come on! Don't be that way.

While you personally may have had misfortunes with black guys (sorry to hear that, fwiw), it does not happen to everyone, and all black guys don't do shit like that. I've talked lots of NBA'ers into letting me pull the panties down. Well, not a lot. A few. A handful, if you will. Even better, we've parted ways with smiles on our faces, them and me. I've even had repeats with some of them.

I can't believe we (you all) still use a broad brush to judge people. While this may disappoint you, my attack count currently stands at 0. Black girl, white girl, or otherwise.

Why don't you call out the guys who did you wrong. Meanwhile, you need to think about putting me on your good side. Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

Chances are, no. I'm at the point now where I'm afraid any black man trying to schedule with me is out to sabotage my business. I can deal with the NCNS or being ripped off, but the thought of an angry black man seeing me just to write a horrible review of me is more than I can bear. Sorry.

Uhhh, who's angry?

Not I.

I don't know what kind of black men you previously dealt with, but none are like me.

Sorry.

I've never said ANY of the above but I have heard #7, from a few providers



"Please don't write a review of our time, that way my white clients who prefer seeing only providers with NBA policies won't stop seeing me". Originally Posted by DickEmDown

Shit! Are you fucking kidding me?
The dude (myself) who takes the occasional walk on the wild side and has never been turned down (yet) gets more options than you brothers?
This reason never occurred to me as why a woman has an nba policy.
This is 2014 for fucks sake!

Chances are, no. I'm at the point now where I'm afraid any black man trying to schedule with me is out to sabotage my business. I can deal with the NCNS or being ripped off, but the thought of an angry black man seeing me just to write a horrible review of me is more than I can bear. Sorry. Originally Posted by honeydavis

^ LOL. I will be nice. Therefore no comment.

Don't be "nice" on my account.

I have just had my fill with bad experiences with black men. I'm already afraid of them to start with, so why should I not exercise my right to refuse service to anyone I chose?

Its such a double standard. Hobbyists can refuse to see black girls or blondes, bbw's or spinners, red heads or brown eyed babes. No one ever questions it when a man makes a rude comment on a BBW's reviews.... but God forbid a provider make the same sort of choice for herself.

There was a time in my life when I only dated Asian men and yes, my white male or mexican guy friends were jealous, but they never gave me shit for it.


No one ever says anything when a civilian white woman doesn't date black men... why should the hobby be any different?

^ LOL. I will be nice. Therefore no comment. Originally Posted by Zanzibar789