ecCie .... this bullshit is getting really old ... really fast Directed at Moderators

But but but .... it's Taco Tuesday.

People usually get shit for a reason. Either give it back or brush it off, really. Test the limits and stay between them for maximum entertainment. Working well so far. Originally Posted by FunInDFW

I can see how there's the impression of favoritism here. Whether it's a Monthly Flavor with a case of Special Snowflake Syndrome™ or the regular episodes of The Baggage Express™ that crops up, it's not like there's any real pretense of objectivity going on. Most of the ladies seem a bit more detached from the emotional lollercoaster that goes on here, but even the ones who get all het up and jump on board are just part of what seems to be the norm here.

They should rename the Coed Discussions section "Geico"...

As Von pointed out, the mods moderate and the actions they take, if any, are not going to be seen or known, but, it is very obvious the way they moderate is definitely not equal across the board to all members for the exact same violations. There is no such thing as a non bias anything in this world, especially on an internet hooker board. I agree with pmdelites on what you need to do about it. Even if there were actual rules on this site that were mandated to be adhered to, the ass kissers/buddies and/or providers who spread their legs for free for amnesty from those rules would still abound. So depending upon who you are, the blatantly not following of guidelines, pissing matches and along with members regularly being able to voice their personal vendettas and agendas with no repercussions from the mods lead to the drama this board is known for.

If you wish to stay, the best way to handle it is to ignore the posts of the ones who are constantly condescending and taking personal shots in most of their comments, their opinions are fact and if you do not share it, you are wrong and will usually post whore you to death trying to get the last word. Then especially the ones trying to bait you into a reaction or have agendas, which is the perfect definition of a troll simply by not responding, and in all cases, it will do one of two things: piss them off even more or they eventually go away, but depending on their perceived personal grudge and gross psychological disorder, will return to their same ways and the cycle starts all over.

Why do you think that roughly 85% of all providers do not post much if at all, and when they do, only post ads? I have no clue how many guys there are, but surely it is around the same percentage that may post a comment once in a great while, but they are mostly lurkers who probably do much of the conversing through PM. Originally Posted by davidfree986

prbly the best advice i have seen via you, no comment.
I think we both know why. yeah?

I can see how there's the impression of favoritism here. Whether it's a Monthly Flavor with a case of Special Snowflake Syndrome™ or the regular episodes of The Baggage Express™ that crops up, it's not like there's any real pretense of objectivity going on. Most of the ladies seem a bit more detached from the emotional lollercoaster that goes on here, but even the ones who get all het up and jump on board are just part of what seems to be the norm here.

They should rename the Coed Discussions section "Geico"... Originally Posted by jdkees

once again, you!!
this guy here!! wow!! lol!!

once again, you!!
this guy here!! wow!! lol!!

Originally Posted by SexyStephTx

Hmm,, I am lost on wtz going on and wtz been going on... I guess I am rookie... I refused to chat in since 90's and this is first time really chatting... and it has been fun (even attacks)...look at posts on weight thing... Some attack me, I fight back (or defend)... make peace,,, and just ENJOYed wtever that is out there...

I wonder what will happen, if you put all these haters, lovers, posse, solo, providers, and clients in one room?
Or
Put everyone in one room and give them computer and have them type,, like talking to them on the face... Would they able to?

I learn one thing, some ppl here say things they cannot say to other ppl's face...I think it gives them feel of more power, since they cannot do it in real world....

My 5c

If rules are going to be enforced ... enforce them on everyone... period, people here know i have a irish tounge and will use it. I just get tired of getting bitched at for retialiating to obvious bullying the NO ONE MODERATES! Originally Posted by !VI!

the issue i don't know everything, and on that note neither does anyone else, most of it is assumption, and it's easy to see why i would assume nothing is happening, mainly due to the fact that it keeps happening... does that make any since to you? Originally Posted by !VI!

I'll be straight up with you. Here's your problem, because we don't air out what we do as far as actions go you choose to assume that nothing is happening and find yourself more concerned with that rather than the actual subject being discussed. No one but the mod's and the person on the receiving end know what exactly is happening. The last few pm's I've received from you have been asking us to publicly display our actions and sorry that aint happening that's not how we roll here.

When a discussion thread's posted guess what it becomes the communities thread for all to partake in. Once that happens those who know how to play with the gray area's of the guidelines will play but are still subject to the same actions from the staff. Not giving a shit about receiving points is totally different than the mods actually giving any away.

WTF!...Mojojo is the Moderator??
shit.. did I insult him in other thread? fuck me....
Mojojo sir, please don't banned me... I will go study the eccie rule book...

DUDE what disciplinary, just let people enjoy forum... if they cannot handle little insult or attack, they cannot enjoy chatting.... People don't get too serious here... just let it fly and enjoy...

Of course if terms some one uses is serious threat or exposing private info. take an action (banned or legal) but anything less,,,Just let it fly,,,,people just enjoy (attack or receiving attack ) ~~~ be careless.

Like I said earlier, ppl who have to attack are ppl who cannot say real thing to other person's face.

LET IT GO,,, JUST ENJOY,,, ... this is just break from sex...
by the way fuk copierguy and Lavie for insulting me...I guess they are to each other...

eng, you're a cool MF.. your personality has transformed since you started your own long-ass thread!

you're getting a tad ballsy though, one more reckless sentence and I'm issuing points (never mind I have no authority to do so)!

eng, you're a cool MF.. your personality has transformed since you started your own long-ass thread!

you're getting a tad ballsy though, one more reckless sentence and I'm issuing points (never mind I have no authority to do so)! Originally Posted by Chung Tran

Thanks,,, I think..
I am who I am,,if I get banned, oh well.. I start to enjoy this chatting/forum thing...

I'll be straight up with you. Here's your problem, because we don't air out what we do as far as actions go you choose to assume that nothing is happening and find yourself more concerned with that rather than the actual subject being discussed. No one but the mod's and the person on the receiving end know what exactly is happening. The last few pm's I've received from you have been asking us to publicly display our actions and sorry that aint happening that's not how we roll here.

When a discussion thread's posted guess what it becomes the communities thread for all to partake in. Once that happens those who know how to play with the gray area's of the guidelines will play but are still subject to the same actions from the staff. Not giving a shit about receiving points is totally different than the mods actually giving any away. Originally Posted by Mojojo

I love how you set these mfs straight

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When a discussion thread's posted guess what it becomes the communities thread for all to partake in. Once that happens those who know how to play with the gray area's of the guidelines will play but are still subject to the same actions from the staff. Not giving a shit about receiving points is totally different than the mods actually giving any away. Originally Posted by Mojojo

The key words in the second sentence above are subject to. You can call it gray areas if you want, but I still stand by my statement in post #10 about how for the exact same and clear violation of the guidelines, mods will give points to some members and none to others. IMO, while it is true that it is none of anyone's business what if any warnings/points are dealt out for those violations of the site guidelines, however, it is helpful for one to know if his/her RTMing of posts are not done in vain and they wasting time, especially in say very obvious and glaring cyberstalking case(s).

I understand the OP's frustration in pointing out violations of said guidelines to mods and the supposed lack of response by them since the same members are doing the same things over and over. Call it a member not giving a shit about receiving points, but if they were actually receiving those points they do not give a shit about, then certain members would have been banned on points accumulated, even if you gave 1 or 2 points for each real and obvious violation of the guidelines.

What I do fault the OP on is that she does keep taking the bait of a few members who seem to get under her skin, which in turn, those members more than likely RTM her reactive posts and she gets points, hence the possible reason why the number of vacations she has had since becoming a member.

The key words in the second sentence above are subject to. You can call it gray areas if you want, but I still stand by my statement in post #10 about how for the exact same and clear violation of the guidelines, mods will give points to some members and none to others. Originally Posted by davidfree986

How do you know if they got points or not? Just because someone doesn't get banned doesn't mean they don't get pointed and just know how to manage their points to keep right on the edge of going to banned-camp.

How do you know if they got points or not? Just because someone doesn't get banned doesn't mean they don't get pointed and just know how to manage their points to keep right on the edge of going to banned-camp. Originally Posted by Hercules

read the second paragraph of the same post you quoted. They have to manage their points? That tells you what you need to know about some of those people right there.

BTW, within a few minutes, at least one of the members who Mojojo is talking about with the so called gray areas of guideline violations, which are black and white with most members, shall be quoting my post and posting below, and doing so with their gray area infraction of the forum guidelines.

The key words in the second sentence above are subject to. You can call it gray areas if you want, but I still stand by my statement in post #10 about how for the exact same and clear violation of the guidelines, mods will give points to some members and none to others. IMO, while it is true that it is none of anyone's business what if any warnings/points are dealt out for those violations of the site guidelines, however, it is helpful for one to know if his/her RTMing of posts are not done in vain and they wasting time, especially in say very obvious and glaring cyberstalking case(s).

I understand the OP's frustration in pointing out violations of said guidelines to mods and the supposed lack of response by them since the same members are doing the same things over and over. Call it a member not giving a shit about receiving points, but if they were actually receiving those points they do not give a shit about, then certain members would have been banned on points accumulated, even if you gave 1 or 2 points for each real and obvious violation of the guidelines.

What I do fault the OP on is that she does keep taking the bait of a few members who seem to get under her skin, which in turn, those members more than likely RTM her reactive posts and she gets points, hence the possible reason why the number of vacations she has had since becoming a member. Originally Posted by davidfree986

I've come to find your posts more humorous than anything since its obvious you're really talking about yourself.

Imho, RTMing is for blatant infractions, not because someone can't help themselves from being a childish fuckstick. No pity for those who create their own problems then go crying to the teacher when faced with the natural consequences of their actions.

I rarely RTM posts and especially not for stupid backand forth bs. Why should I bother the staff with something I can handle on my own? If you've been on this board a while and still beat the RTM button like you beat your meat at 18 then you're a little bitch. Plain and simple.

So keep on pounding that RTM button (if you do, I don't personally know) and explaining your own shady, whiny ass behavior like it's someone else's (this is definitely true).

This crybaby stuff gets funnier everyday.

Hey mods, I'd like my points with a side of pineapple flavored jizz please? Thancks

Edit: actually you can just drizzle it over the top.