You are probably right, and most parents have made this mistake, but we often jump on the one that is most often the one causing or constantly involved in the conflict. Whether or not "he started it" or "no, she did" is uttered, the iron fist lands on the one most often at fault. . Originally Posted by Nicolette BordeauxvaMaybe your son is more angelic than you give him credit for. Maybe manipulative sisters have something to do with your perception.
I sure as hell know that is how it works on these boards!