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"Yawn"
Ignore list. Any one else???
What you should be seeing is green Period. Are you attracted to Asian men (China, Korea, Japanese, etc?) What about Indian or Arabic men? I could go on and on...You people are here to provide a service because why? You want money and lots of it...it's funny as hell how you people act as if your starting a relationship with clients. Turn off the lights and some minutes later your done. key word is MONEY...true business may be good...but its not Great because your losing out!! One last thing...How do you know white cock is bigger if you never fucked with black? Ditti Dee...lol. That itself is a myth...you people are so funny and you wonder why the rest of the world laughs at us...
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^^^ what do you mean YOU PEOPLE?! lol
What you should be seeing is green Period. Are you attracted to Asian men (China, Korea, Japanese, etc?) What about Indian or Arabic men? I could go on and on...You people are here to provide a service because why? You want money and lots of it...it's funny as hell how you people act as if your starting a relationship with clients. Turn off the lights and some minutes later your done. key word is MONEY...true business may be good...but its not Great because your losing out!! One last thing...How do you know white cock is bigger if you never fucked with black? Ditti Dee...lol. That itself is a myth...you people are so funny and you wonder why the rest of the world laughs at us... Originally Posted by curtymac
Wow, seriously? For real?
Personal, I love variety, it's the spice of life! But this country is obviously populated with lots of people with closed minds...it's just the way it is. However it's ironic, i think, for providers in particular to be so closed-minded. But it's a free country, and therefore their prerogative. And their loss, IMO.

Sure I've had experiences with AA clients who were cheap, overly demanding and aggressive. But I've also seen just as many or more who were completely opposite, fine gentlemen. And all these traits have held true for every race, in my experience.
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Wow, seriously? For real? Originally Posted by Tiffany Cums
Hmm I agree. Is that attitude not borderline FORCING someone to do what is against their will...nuff said.

I hate to bring reality into light here but this is not the effing union! We are not the Equal Oppurtunity Employer, and we will continue to do what we want to do. If you don't like it, I suggest finding another who will see anyone, any time, for any rate lol. Good luck with that.

FTR race is not the deciding factor as to whether I will see someone, but I don't dog out those who do. It's THEIR choice and THEIR BUSINESS!
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"Yawn" Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302
+1 The search button is your friend there are atleast 20 of these threads by Rambro Creed alone,lol
Hmm I agree. Is that attitude not borderline FORCING someone to do what is against their will...nuff said.

I hate to bring reality into light here but this is not the effing union! We are not the Equal Oppurtunity Employer, and we will continue to do what we want to do. If you don't like it, I suggest finding another who will see anyone, any time, for any rate lol. Good luck with that.

FTR race is not the deciding factor as to whether I will see someone, but I don't dog out those who do. It's THEIR choice and THEIR BUSINESS! Originally Posted by London Rayne
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Hmm I agree. Is that attitude not borderline FORCING someone to do what is against their will...nuff said.

I hate to bring reality into light here but this is not the effing union! We are not the Equal Oppurtunity Employer, and we will continue to do what we want to do. If you don't like it, I suggest finding another who will see anyone, any time, for any rate lol. Good luck with that. Originally Posted by London Rayne
Really??? To me, this thread sounds more like "trying to understand why" and/or "commenting negatively on the practice" rather than borderline trying to force someone to see AA clients. Certainly, just like certain employers who are small enough that they're not subject to the employment discrimination laws, escorts are free to establish whatever rules they choose. But freedom to choose how to run their business does not mean freedom from criticism for or disapproval of those choices.

We criticize businesses (not just P4P) for, and disapprove of, their policies all the time. Within P4P, some clients may criticize certain ladies, and some ladies may criticize certain clients, for various types of unprofessional behavior. For that matter, some clients may criticize certain ladies, and some ladies may criticize certain clients, for an unattractive personality or character. It's all fair game and it doesn't imply an effort to force someone to change their behavior.

If a lady doesn't want to see AA clients, I absolutely and positively think she should not, because it would be unfair to the client if she couldn't treat him the same way as other clients. There are a lot of possible reasons a lady would choose not to see AA clients, and her reason may not reflect negatively on her personality or character. A lady is certainly not required to explain her choice. But if she doesn't, she can hardly complain when bystanders draw the understandable inference that it might be due to "hatred or intolerance of another race" or applying unfounded stereotypes broadly to an entire group. There are probably more who think it than those who voice their opinion. Just as with, for example, small businesses that discriminate in employment decisions. If you're not concerned about their opinion, just ignore it, and threads like this will die a quick death.
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Well I said nothing about your statements did I? It might be because you did not say what we SHOULD do lol.

I suppose you are right..people are free to gripe and whine until the cows come home over things they will never be able to change lol. No one is going to do anything just because someone else suggests they should...at least not a strong person anyway. If that were the case I would have cut my rates in half and put an open sign up long ago lol.

It's simply no one's BUSINESS why anyone does what they do. You pay for time and then we leave....the basis behind our decisions are really none of your concern unless you are inviting us over to meet your parents afterwards.

As I said, I don't discriminate based soley on race but I do refuse to see many clients for a dozen other reasons, and no I really don't have to explain myself lol.
It is some truth to what you said and it stinks really bad.

I get really tired of being called a racist. A black man hater, a sell-out. The white man's money is better, you can't handle a black man, its endless. Its very tiresome.

I really try to stay out of these threads, the simple truth is these men are not being honest at all. They are picky, and that is their right to be picky, but they want to see a particular race. They should be honest and say, "Why won't White, Asian and Latina providers see me?". I can respect that so much more.

Its always the same, the first three sentences of these threads always starts with, Im an educated, professional, bi-racial African American man. They are hoping someone will see them biased off the bi-racial part. I think that is a bad way to plea a case.

It bothers me, when educated, professional, bi-racial African American men post these threads, and shun their African American woman, funny they never get called out for, in fact, they get pats on the back for it. African American women do not post threads wondering why, we don't post threads pleading our cases non-stop. We move on and be happy with the clients who enjoy our company. There are lots of men who would not see us and we don't scream and shout about it. Maybe I should scream and shout about it.

Have a good day folks.

Lisa




Really??? To me, this thread sounds more like "trying to understand why" and/or "commenting negatively on the practice" rather than borderline trying to force someone to see AA clients. Certainly, just like certain employers who are small enough that they're not subject to the employment discrimination laws, escorts are free to establish whatever rules they choose. But freedom to choose how to run their business does not mean freedom from criticism for or disapproval of those choices.

We criticize businesses (not just P4P) for, and disapprove of, their policies all the time. Within P4P, some clients may criticize certain ladies, and some ladies may criticize certain clients, for various types of unprofessional behavior. For that matter, some clients may criticize certain ladies, and some ladies may criticize certain clients, for an unattractive personality or character. It's all fair game and it doesn't imply an effort to force someone to change their behavior.

If a lady doesn't want to see AA clients, I absolutely and positively think she should not, because it would be unfair to the client if she couldn't treat him the same way as other clients. There are a lot of possible reasons a lady would choose not to see AA clients, and her reason may not reflect negatively on her personality or character. A lady is certainly not required to explain her choice. But if she doesn't, she can hardly complain when bystanders draw the understandable inference that it might be due to "hatred or intolerance of another race" or applying unfounded stereotypes broadly to an entire group. There are probably more who think it than those who voice their opinion. Just as with, for example, small businesses that discriminate in employment decisions. If you're not concerned about their opinion, just ignore it, and threads like this will die a quick death. Originally Posted by Chevalier
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Well said Lisa!
Everyone has thier opinions as to whom they want to see. I accept and respect their decisions. I am not for everybody and everybody is not for me...and that is OK. We are a bountiful nation and there is plenty to go around.

For some, the glass is half empty. For others, the glass is half full. For me, I am grateful to have a glass.
Man honestly... If AA guys werent sooo biggg and came with alot of games/attitudes/problems, Half the girls in this hobby would accept to see them. But since some AA men like to bring counterfeits along with them,Get mad when their time is up, Have an attitude about being told how slow or fast to go, or want to scream give me my money back at the first sight of problem(even after the sessions started or coming to an end). Either way. answer is, its just too much to try in deal with. Honestly half of the girls say no AA men because their PIMPS tell them to do so. Me, I don't state no AA in my ads. I will politely tell you over the phone. Now there are some exceptions i will make..(especially if you act grown) Now i see no one under 35 cause the same problems tend to happen if you are younger, weather you're White, Hispanic, or Indian. Anywho. Its all about the games and bs girls have had to encounter because of making a bad money decision. Have a great day Eccie.