oh good gawd here we go.#1 - Only if asked for it during the conversation ON THE PHONE
#1. I do use P411. But that does me no good unless you are sending your request directly through there. But you said nothing about P411. Now I presume you give your P411 information during the conversation, but see #3 below.
#2. My phone number is easy to find. It's on my reviews and in my P411. What's the problem? If a lady doesn't have it listed somewhere, then I presume it's for a reason. Don't want to go the extra step in contacting her in an alternate method? I guess you didn't want to see her bad enough. And I guess it won't bother her that you didn't go that extra step-she would never know anyway.
#3. Anybody who has access to internet and this site can look up anybody's handle and say "hi, this is so and so." A lady doesn't know for sure whether or not you have P411. So when the fake "introuble" calls said lady and explains he doesn't have P411, all she will do is look at his posts. And folks can very easily find out your P411 handle, and email address. Just the same way folks get LR/PR information that they are not supposed to have.
#4. I'm glad you are coming back FROM an appointment with whoever ANSWERED their phone. They took the risk and saw somebody they had no idea for sure it was them. They were "assuming" it was you and all is well. One of these days, when Eddie Bryant (or some other fucktard) books a session under your name, I will ask THAT lady how it went. Watch for the alerts....tell me how that works out for her.
I have never been robbed, beaten, raped, and obviously not killed. *knock on wood* so I MUST be doing something that works. I have NEVER been a "book by phone" kind of gal, and I never will be. Different strokes for different folks. What works for one may not work for the next. And I'm okay with that too.
Meg Originally Posted by hotlips_houlihan
#1 - Only if asked for it during the conversation ON THE PHONE
Ok...you said this:
once I leave the house to go to Dallas, I don't have email capability......ONLY phone. Originally Posted by IntroubleSo if she asks you ON THE PHONE to PM her or send her your request through P411, how can you do it if once you leave the house, if you ONLY have phone?
#2 - I was not referring to providers that have a number listed somewhere. You were not my example nor was anyone in particular. My comment was directed toward providers in general that have NO number listed anywhere. If she does not list a number to call then she did not want to see me or a lot of other hobbyists bad enough either. I have NO problem with that as it is HER choice as it is also mine to see her.
I understand that. Again, if it's not listed, it's probably for a reason. And perhaps she feels "screening only via the phone" is not sufficient.
#3 - You obviously do not use P411 to screen if you think my handle is what I would give you. Explain to me how someone gets my P411 ID.....not my handle.....unless you are a provider. We all want to know that for security reasons as it is designed to not allow that to happen. As far as the providers who simply look at my "posts" it is real easy to ask me ON THE FUCKING PHONE to PM them from that account.
You don't know WTF I do. Nowhere in your original post, or one thereafter, did you mention diddly squat about P411. Again, how can you send them a PM upon their request ON THE FUCKING PHONE if all you have is FUCKING PHONE ONLY.
#4 - You are assuming something you obviously know nothing about. You are also speculating that the provider did not ask me my P411 ID, ask me to send a PM from my board account, or does not already know me or have met me.
If they already know you or have met you, phone away. Hell, it works for me too. I'm talking about INITIAL SCREENING CONTACT.
In general, its a stupid list of why I choose not to see a provider. You are making it into an issue by trying to create specifics to support YOUR decision to only use email. I accept that.
And now you are assuming something you obviously know nothing about. Originally Posted by Introuble
Good Lord, the thread is about generic reasons you won't see someone. He gave a generic reason of "After checking her website, I still don't know how much $ I need to bring."Some people have a hard time with reading comprehension.
Doesn't seem like he's talking about anyone in particular. Originally Posted by mansfield
I totally understand and support your decision not to see providers that screen thoroughly and don't advertise a phone number (like me). I am sure you are a perfectly nice, fine, upstanding gentleman who just prefers things done in different way. The only thing I object to, is you calling my way "wrong" or a "don't". I have many wonderful clients that appreciate the fact that I am very discreet and selective. I totally get that it is not the way YOU like to do things, and that's okay, but the way you're communicating seems like you want me and others to believe that my way is inconsiderate, irrational, and selfish. If my understanding of what you are saying is wrong, then I humbly suggest that you reevaluate the way you are presenting your preferences, which is exactly what they are. There is nothing wrong with the way I do things. And there's nothing wrong with the way you do things. Even if we disagree. Originally Posted by tracibrooks(Hitting head on wall repeatedly until bruising.....)