NCNS - Appt with Baby Dallass

You might be a black guy, judging by your avatar and I don't see black guys...I didn't feel comfortable seeing you without talking on the phone. If you we're any kind of real man or had real common sense then you should see where that would turn someone away!! What do you guys think? Would you see a provider who would only email and text!? And not talk on the phone!?! Originally Posted by BabyDallass

No black guys? (Walks away with head down). I had my eye on you after reading some of the hot erotic ads you post, but I understand that we all have our preferences, hell im not into asian women these days lol. But it would really help us brothers out if you would post that in your ad or eccie page, small request just so we wont get all hot and bothered for nothing

Hotnurse produced the best safety explanation, ,, a woman wouldn't give her address through a email.
I am astonished how intelligent nurse is to come forth representing the CORRECT procedures.
A thoroughly experienced gentleman knows the routine.
Smart women rule the world, ,

Arkansas...so backward...

I've fucked hundreds of women and talked to a dozen of them on the phone...that's it...verbal means nothing...

I've scheduled with women who have no phone...or have no email...have no text...and all combinations thereof, and never had a problem...

I'd submit that if you encounter an opposite number who has a limitation on communication, you make an effort to communicate another way...because insisting on any one form of communication, and using that to make a decision on whether you see someone, says more about your lack of professionalism than it says anything about the other person not being able too communicate how you want...

Just sayin'...

Unless he is a clairvoyant and I mail him a pair of my panties, then I'm not sure how he would find my location other than verbally.

Some ladies have no problem giving out their location via text, email or pm. Hopefully they never have to experience the risk in doing that.

But hey, we all take risks here right? I guess it comes down to individual preference and communicating those preferences beforehand.

Unless he is a clairvoyant and I mail him a pair of my panties, then I'm not sure how he would find my location other than verbally.

Some ladies have no problem giving out their location via text, email or pm. Hopefully they never have to experience the risk in doing that.

But hey, we all take risks here right? I guess it comes down to individual preference and communicating those preferences beforehand. Originally Posted by thathottnurse

Eh, I'm careful for the sake of the clients and to make them comfortable. Outside of this lifestyle, I take way too many risks. I'm surprised I'm not dead yet or locked in some guy's basement (actually that 2nd part sounds kind of kinky)

After taking a look at all of hogmans 48 posts, Im glad to see Im not the only NCNS (as he states it) I dont really think he knows the defention of NCNS..but anways it seems he has had more of those then actually dates! He has had 3 NCNS this year by other providers. I have had only ONE person (hogman) who claims I stood him up! I have been an active member on the board since 2010 with not ONE NCNS! Seems like hogman has a pattern of this since he has joined EC, which was in November, only a few months ago! If yall go and read all of hogmans post, then you will understand...

Then that portion of the "screening" should have been done before the appt was even set up. Idk accidents happen. But just own up to it. Dont sit here and accuse the guy of everything but being white and refuse to acknowledge where the real fcuk ups were.

Apologize, offer a discount if he would like to book again. If he is indeed AA then get with a provider who does see AA that u know and trust, ask him if he would like to see her for the discounted rate and then make up the difference out of your own pocket. Just a suggestion. Point is, make it right.

Gotta run! Originally Posted by thathottnurse

I was totally wrong by the AA comment and take it back. I didnt mean to offend anyone or come off ugly like that. Sorry to anyone who took it wrong...

If he would have been upfront about the no phone situation beforehand, then I would have had no problem working something out with him in the future. He is the first and only guy I have ever dealt with like this so excuse me. Now I will know how to better handle the situation if it ever happens again in the future.

I was totally wrong by the AA comment and take it back. Now I will know how to better handle the situation if it ever happens again in the future.

Apology accepted. I'm glad to see you're learning how to handle you're business the right way!

After taking a look at all of hogmans 48 posts, Im glad to see Im not the only NCNS (as he states it) I dont really think he knows the defention of NCNS..but anways it seems he has had more of those then actually dates! He has had 3 NCNS this year by other providers. I have had only ONE person (hogman) who claims I stood him up! I have been an active member on the board since 2010 with not ONE NCNS! Seems like hogman has a pattern of this since he has joined EC, which was in November, only a few months ago! If yall go and read all of hogmans post, then you will understand... Originally Posted by BabyDallass

It's not you Baby Dallas, ,,,, he just added stock to your reputation. The reviews are proof.
3 NCNS on his part

Quite the endorsement there - LOL! But at least you're beginning to own your NCNS by identifying yourself as #3. I don't know what happened with #1(and didn't pursue, no NCNS review), and #2 has apologized for her actions and she and I have corresponded positively since. I've not scheduled other appointments with either.

And yes, I've only been on here since NOV. I just moved to Arkansas and in the places I lived before I had access to AMPs, so I've never had a need for this site. And thanks for the history of my time here (readily available to anyone), but the stats don't show multiple visits to the same providers (and I've never been denied return visits) or the providers I have not reviewed; again, for multiple reasons but none of which have turned down repeat visits.

I will readily admit that maybe my choice not to use a hobby phone (a choice shared by many it seems from that thread you started) may have contributed to the confusion with #1 and #2, and if there is anything I"ve gotten out of all this nasty drama it's an appreciation for that. I didn't foresee that, and chalk it up to my lack of ECCIE (and escorts in general) experience. At the AMPs, you simply show up.

Unfortunately, for #3 phones had nothing to do with it. 10 minutes AFTER the appointment the reason given was "shopping with a friend." Phones came into play at 1:55, nearly two hours later, when the realization hit. Damage control. Any suggestion that the cancellation came sooner or for any other reason is a flat out lie, and you know it. From the PMs I've received, others do too.

But one thing is true, you'll probably still do fine. You have great reviews, and four years running no NCNS that anyone can see (and frankly, I've not looked b/c I don't care if this is your first - it still happened). I'm not trying to hurt your business or interfere with your money making. I just don't take the disrespect and lies very well, and will call it out.

Unfortunately, as nasty as this has gotten and with the WK's dog piling with their unknowing nonsense, others may decide it isn't worth the crap to try to inform others of what happened. NONE of this helps me. I get NO benefit from this (because even if offered as hotnurse suggested, I would not accept a "make up" appointment). It's not like I'm trying to get something from anyone. I"m only doing it to help inform other hobbiests of what DID happen. And yep, this may be your first AND last, but at least people know and they can weigh all the info.

So if you and your WK's want to try to portray me as somehow creating this situation, just so I can get on here and write a review that gives me nothing but scrutiny, go ahead and try. As mentioned by another poster, you ought to just own it and move on. Just like after you apologized for the racist comments you made, once you apologized that was sufficient to the offended. Owning the mistake goes a long way.

Hogman, why dont you work on your 4th NCNS of the year. I beleive your past post on EC make my point very clear... This is a pattern with you. Im done with you and your make believe. Ladies, make sure you really research hog, If you cancel your pre bookeđ date with him then he will say your a NCNS..this is a crazy mess! Who makes it so hard to get sum!?!?

I am not sure this meets the definition of a NCNS. She did cancelled the appointment. Granted it was 10 min late, but I have frequently have providers run a little late. Sucks when they call and cancel late, but calling a little late and saying sorry, won't be ready for 30 min is quite common. It seems to me there is probably an expected 15-30 min or so window. I thought NCNS was no contact, no show, no explanation. This would, instead be a late cancellation. While not a good business practice, it does not have the same connotation to me.

I am not sure this meets the definition of a NCNS. She did cancelled the appointment. Granted it was 10 min late, but I have frequently have providers run a little late. Sucks when they call and cancel late, but calling a little late and saying sorry, won't be ready for 30 min is quite common. It seems to me there is probably an expected 15-30 min or so window. I thought NCNS was no contact, no show, no explanation. This would, instead be a late cancellation. While not a good business practice, it does not have the same connotation to me. Originally Posted by Rockydoc

I wouldnt have cancelled the date last minute IF his last email didnt say. (I have no hobby phone I can only email, hope that is not a dealbreaker, where is your location?) um, it caught me totally off gaurd, I was also busy with other clients who had hobby phones. So, I was busy putting their needs before his. To me, someone who waits to tell me last minute that they have no phone, they have no room to complain or sugguest that I should have told him a few minutes sooner. I contacted him as soon as I got time. Not hours later, but minutes..

Hours, after the fact, not minutes.

I didn't "wait until the last minute" to tell you anything because I didn't think it was a big deal. Neither do most of the people on that thread you started. Again, I'm fully willing to assume that's my own ignorance. I've only been doing ECCIE since NOV and no one has ever said "I want to speak to you first."

Of course, what any of this has to do with you shopping with your friend is beyond me. Was that a lie, too? When I asked you why did you try to reschedule at 2:00 you said (on here, after the fact, while in damage control mode), that you did offer that but you weren't going to meet me without a phone anyway. What sense does that make? None, as you're building all this phone stuff after the fact, because you know that your real reasons - the ones you stated - wouldn't fly with anyone.

And I was done with this until you pulled me back in. Own it or let it go. II'd rather not reiterate the same things over and again anymore.

And yes ladies, please continue to screen, and if you have any reservations about me please let me know and I will thank you for your time.

Give it up ... you are looking sillier than a child with cake all over its face.