NBA policy

BigD I feel ya and I do not believe in stereotypes. However, look at the alerts, and I am guessing in this industry it is a big safety issue. Do I think black men are more capable of being violent, rob, or rape? NO, I do not. I know of more white redneck rapist pedophiles that just do not get caught or reported. Look at how many white upper class men have turned out to be serial killers. It is all in how a person screens, and of course who she wants to see. Her body, her choice.

For me it is a personal choice, just as the age of the client I desire. That tends to piss off older white men as well. I know some find it odd for a provider to have a preference as the consensus is that the ladies are supposed to bow down to whomever holds the green in hand. For some they are respectful and can handle it. Others not so much.

I do have to admit the short mexican guys who look at you like they are raping you with their eyes tend to bother me. I dont understand why, but it is only in the southern states that they do this. And in Florida most of the rapes you hear about are the mexicans. So hey, they are making the AA males look pretty damn good.

Dont even get me started on the freaky arabs, I can't for the life of me figure out why a guy wants to pay me 2k to take a dump on him. And those emails have only come from men of middle eastern descent. Go figure!

I will say this, the kinda black hot guy off of Criminal Minds, if you look like that fine ass then you are welcome to see me ANYTIME!! And Danzel, I love that man too! lol

doubt the guy off Criminal Minds or Denzel would look your way

You talking about Shemar Moore?

Pfft!!!! I'm finer than him!!



OK, maybe not...but a close second.

OK, not that either, but, hey I'm a cool guy.

Take away his money, buff body, fame, and good looks, and what do you have after that?!?

Why do women not put it on their profiles? Because of the backlash, I'd assume. It is amazing how angry a man will get when he finds out that he can't have you, even with money. But.. if they do have such a policy in place but unadvertised.. the onus should be on them to verify your race during the screening process-- if it is really that important to them.

Now.. having said that... I don't discriminate against anyone based on their color. I have screened out some assholes and some "thuggish" people of unknown color. But having said that, I've had a total of 2 bad hobby experiences in the past 5 years.. both of them white men. Every black man I've met in the hobby has been exceptionally polite and professional-- those who I've seen seem to take extra care to make a good impression because they know so often they're looked down on despite having done NOTHING wrong.

I love me some Shemar...but he probably can't fuck...he is too pretty.
Dez Bryant or Brandon Marshall...oh yeah!

The majority of my AA clientele have been awesome guys!

I have yet to meet the thugged out black man that so many ladies insist is the reason that they are NBA.

I agree that NBA chicks should put it in their ads, as it is a preference or what their pimp or white client who doesn't want to follow a black man, told them to do.

AA men having to announce that they are AA.. is ridiculous. Although, I do admit getting a little tingle in my panties (when I wear them) when they do.

I love me some Shemar...but he probably can't fuck...he is too pretty.
Dez Bryant or Brandon Marshall...oh yeah!

The majority of my AA clientele have been awesome guys!

I have yet to meet the thugged out black man that so many ladies insist is the reason that they are NBA.

I agree that NBA chicks should put it in their ads, as it is a preference or what their pimp or white client who doesn't want to follow a black man, told them to do.

AA men having to announce that they are AA.. is ridiculous. Although, I do admit getting a little tingle in my panties (when I wear them) when they do. Originally Posted by Reese Foster

LOL That was kind of sexy Ms. Reese, you said summed it up! What else need to be said, unless the NBA ladies want to express themselves, but it won't happen.

You talking about Shemar Moore?

Pfft!!!! I'm finer than him!!



OK, maybe not...but a close second.

OK, not that either, but, hey I'm a cool guy.

Take away his money, buff body, fame, and good looks, and what do you have after that?!? Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

This literally just put the biggest smile on my face!!

I feel like there should be a "NO JUDGING/DISCRIMINATING" Button on here...I'd be pressing that bad boy ALL the time.

I've moved 25 to 30 times in my lifetime, met so many different people, so I enjoy all races, feel like you can learn anything from anybody, if you just allow it to happen.

A great sense of humor goes a very long way!

And I hope people were able to pick up on my racist sarcasm in that post, I just had to be crude but in a 'haha"way.

And why would Shemar not look my way? Don't black men like women with meat on the bones?

You talking about Shemar Moore?

Pfft!!!! I'm finer than him!!



OK, maybe not...but a close second.

OK, not that either, but, hey I'm a cool guy.

Take away his money, buff body, fame, and good looks, and what do you have after that?!? Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

When I first started hobbying I didn't see black guys.

1. Because most of them have reputations of being pimps or they try to rip you off. (Thats what I've heard from others)

2. It's not my preference to date black men or women.

3. Black guys have some big ones! I mean BIG ONES! So therefore I don't want to get ripped a new one.

Now I actually do see black guys if they come at me with respect so I don't have a problem with black men at all. The ones I've met were actually pretty cool.

Since I am coming back to DFW in 2 weeks, there is this one black guy I hope to see again and he knows who he is. Dammit, I'm all wet just thinking about him. Now that was good!

No I'm not gonna say who he is but he knows who he is. I'm glad I got to meet him in person when I was there a few months back. We chat so much in the ECCIE Chat room. Well enough of that. See you soon DFW!

When I first started hobbying I didn't see black guys.

1. Because most of them have reputations of being pimps or they try to rip you off. (Thats what I've heard from others)

2. It's not my preference to date black men or women.

3. Black guys have some big ones! I mean BIG ONES! So therefore I don't want to get ripped a new one.

Now I actually do see black guys if they come at me with respect so I don't have a problem with black men at all. The ones I've met were actually pretty cool.

Since I am coming back to DFW in 2 weeks, there is this one black guy I hope to see again and he knows who he is. Dammit, I'm all wet just thinking about him. Now that was good!

No I'm not gonna say who he is but he knows who he is. I'm glad I got to meet him in person when I was there a few months back. We chat so much in the ECCIE Chat room. Well enough of that. See you soon DFW! Originally Posted by Majestycctx

Thanks for speaking out. It is your preference, and all men should come at your with respect, if not don't see them. We all don't have BIG ONES,.. well.. some don't, and not all are Pimps, but I can see your point in this business. Providers are always taking a chance if they only see white guys or others. Let's not just get hung up on the stereotype. Size is relative.

3. Black guys have some big ones! I mean BIG ONES! So therefore I don't want to get ripped a new one. Originally Posted by Majestycctx

That has to be one of the biggest myths about black men out there. I have slept with my fair share (yes lawd!) and just like any other race or ethnicity of men.. they come in all shapes and sizes...

Every black man I've met in the hobby has been exceptionally polite and professional-- those who I've seen seem to take extra care to make a good impression because they know so often they're looked down on despite having done NOTHING wrong. Originally Posted by GracePreston

Amen, Grace! Well said! And echoing what the lovely Reese Foster also said, the whole 100% BCC for AA men is ridiculous. Dicks come in all shapes and sizes - and colors.

Its both amusing and sad how archaic some people still are about melanin levels. Its fucking pigment people. Pigment. Might as well have a 'No Men With Dark Hair' policy.

Make your decision based on the individual, not the group. Especially in a city like Dallas, where there are so many successful people of all colors and cultures.

Hell, if some of you ladies don't want to see AA men then that is your choice. But by all means, please send 'em my way. I love treating a good man the way he deserves to be treated. Not like some chump who can't eat at my table. That's not how I was raised.

As far as not being "your type"? Lmao! So are you saying every guy you see is your type? Lucky you, homegirl! Can I get some of that player-aide?!?

I'd venture to say 90% of the guys I see aren't "my type". So what?! I'm not looking to get married or have a boyfriend so whatever my type is shouldn't even be a factor in who I see. As long as they are clean and respectful that is all the type I need.

Thanks for speaking out. It is your preference, and all men should come at your with respect, if not don't see them. We all don't have BIG ONES,.. well.. some don't, and not all are Pimps, but I can see your point in this business. Providers are always taking a chance if they only see white guys or others. Let's not just get hung up on the stereotype. Size is relative. Originally Posted by BigDBone

Well I'd like to see yours. I am pretty sure your a good sized one.

That has to be one of the biggest myths about black men out there. I have slept with my fair share (yes lawd!) and just like any other race or ethnicity of men.. they come in all shapes and sizes... Originally Posted by Reese Foster

I think I've had my fair share as well and most of the black guys I've seen had some fat good size cocks and yes it hurt but at the same time felt good in a way. I guess pain is pleasure and pleasure is pain. The last black guy I saw in DFW was actually average and I was surprised because he wasn't like other black guys I've met. So I guess I need to experience it more.

Pretty new to the hobby and been only lurking in the forums thus far, but I suppose this is as good a place to start sharing as any.

Lost in this whole topic is the group I am in: Asians. Do we count closer to the white or black side of the fence? My uncle was living and studying in Pittsburgh during the 50s and took a trip down south one summer, I think he went to Tennessee with a friend. At a restaurant he was the subject of much debate as to where he could sit. Two white men argued over whether he was more white or black to the point that he left and ate somewhere else. All that aside, yes, I have also endured a lifetime of tiny dick stereotypes about my race. None of the civvie women I've been with have ever complained, though. At least not to me about it.

Anyway, my point is that because I don't fit into typical categories, my standard procedure when initiating contact with a provider is to state up front in the PM that I am Asian, fairly fit, early 40s. If she has a problem with that, no problem. The last thing I'd want is to pay my hard earned cash to someone who really doesn't want to see me. So far it's not been an issue to anyone I've contacted, but if it is I'd just move on. We are lucky here to have such a large group of lovely and talented ladies in this area that I'd never get to see everyone I'd want to anyway. I simply conduct myself with courtesy and respect. So far, so good.

Pretty new to the hobby and been only lurking in the forums thus far, but I suppose this is as good a place to start sharing as any.

Lost in this whole topic is the group I am in: Asians. Do we count closer to the white or black side of the fence? My uncle was living and studying in Pittsburgh during the 50s and took a trip down south one summer, I think he went to Tennessee with a friend. At a restaurant he was the subject of much debate as to where he could sit. Two white men argued over whether he was more white or black to the point that he left and ate somewhere else. All that aside, yes, I have also endured a lifetime of tiny dick stereotypes about my race. None of the civvie women I've been with have ever complained, though. At least not to me about it.

Anyway, my point is that because I don't fit into typical categories, my standard procedure when initiating contact with a provider is to state up front in the PM that I am Asian, fairly fit, early 40s. If she has a problem with that, no problem. The last thing I'd want is to pay my hard earned cash to someone who really doesn't want to see me. So far it's not been an issue to anyone I've contacted, but if it is I'd just move on. We are lucky here to have such a large group of lovely and talented ladies in this area that I'd never get to see everyone I'd want to anyway. I simply conduct myself with courtesy and respect. So far, so good. Originally Posted by Ipthirteen1701

I love asian guys! They are lots of fun! I've never encountered a problem with asians.