the wife calls

I read whatbhappen im sorry to hear that.. It didnt go that far. She left me alone.. But the fact was dont let your wifes get the phone hahah Originally Posted by Legacy69

better yet... .don't have a wife

I am able to discuss matters with no problem particularly with people like yourself. I know what you post is your beliefs for you and your situation and I respect that. I have not seen your posts turn into personal attacks or one up man ship. It is always OK to have different opinions and therefore sometimes disagree.
I would say you and are are not far from being on the same page. I know if I stopped paying my regular girl she would not be having sex with me. To be honest with you I am sometimes amazed she wants to see me even though I pay her. She is young and absolutely beautiful and I am old with a small.... Well whatever. And before someone says it doesn't matter they all will see you if you pay them enough I guarantee this girl would have no trouble replacing me tomorrow with someone younger and richer. And there is a girl on this board who won't see me so that argument doesn't hold water. So we both agree it is about the money.
And I agree to a point they are protecting themselves. But my point I was making is that my regular and girls like Trisha do take the precautions to be as discrete as possible. I told my regular girl she could text me anytime because it is not a problem. It took months for her to finally be comfortable enough to do that. And even then it is always first just a "hi" until I answer and she knows it's ok. Many girls only think about themselves and the next dollar and don't give a damn about us as a person. I had one girl who would call me any time and ask why I wasn't seeing her more often because she needed the money.
And although I believe I have a unique situation which you probably shake your head at and think I am delusional but I believe if the revenue stopped we would still be friends. Not with benefits. Just friends. And I know that because we were friends for months before we decided to take a chance on the provider route. And if I had to choose and could have it only one way I would choose friends. She is that amazing. But as I have said in the past hobby relationship isn't for everybody but for those that want that it can be had. The search for the right person is long and hard. I don't know her and have never seen her (although we tried to get together it just didn't work out) I believe from what I have heard Trisha can be one of those relationship regular girls. There are a few others I know of on and off this board also. Originally Posted by FlyboyNY

elg.......

better yet... .don't have a wife Originally Posted by vm1200

Best fuckin advice ever.....

Best fuckin advice ever..... Originally Posted by blthzr666

You ant lying..

better yet... .don't have a wife Originally Posted by vm1200

Unless the wife is like me!!!

Haha... Who am I kidding....

Unless the wife is like me!!!

Haha... Who am I kidding.... Originally Posted by TheBisexualPhilogynist

But TBP, you are in a totally different league Having you for a wife would probably be pretty damn interesting, and that may be an understatement. TM struck gold.

But TBP, you are in a totally different league Having you for a wife would probably be pretty damn interesting, and that may be an understatement. TM struck gold. Originally Posted by blthzr666

A provider (on OH2 I think, don't ask that board dead in NY) once posted

a man only has two modes hungry and horny
a good women can take care of both.

I be willing to bet TBP is good at one but not the other.

A provider (on OH2 I think, don't ask that board dead in NY) once posted



I be willing to bet TBP is good at one but not the other. Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

Well TBP, can you cook too?

better yet... .don't have a wife Originally Posted by vm1200

Best fuckin advice ever..... Originally Posted by blthzr666

Unless the wife is like me!!!

Haha... Who am I kidding.... Originally Posted by TheBisexualPhilogynist

But TBP, you are in a totally different league Having you for a wife would probably be pretty damn interesting, and that may be an understatement. TM struck gold. Originally Posted by blthzr666

A provider (on OH2 I think, don't ask that board dead in NY) once posted



I be willing to bet TBP is good at one but not the other. Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

Well TBP, can you cook too? Originally Posted by blthzr666

from what I know, TM hit pay dirt with TBP, and OSD, yes she can cook, been a while, but I have had some food prepared by TBP and she did good

But TBP, you are in a totally different league Having you for a wife would probably be pretty damn interesting, and that may be an understatement. TM struck gold. Originally Posted by blthzr666

In some ways, it's possible. Not having to hide, and being able to share sexual escapades is definitely like winning the Lottery.
On the other hand, I'm still a female... And truth is... Most bitches suck. I know where I stand. Lol

A provider (on OH2 I think, don't ask that board dead in NY) once posted



I be willing to bet TBP is good at one but not the other. Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

What do you wanna bet there, old fart?

Unless the wife is like me!!!

Haha... Who am I kidding.... Originally Posted by TheBisexualPhilogynist

Hey Marcie, you and Peppermint Patty got married? STFU!!

Here are some generalizations for the day:

Men are not meant to be monogamous. It has been scientifically proven that the genetic diversity wouldn't have been achieved through thousands of years of monogamy, as society tends to present as the right behavior for men.

Women, in general, are unable to decouple sex from love, with the exception of the providers.

Having been involved in a few affairs, where "the other woman" eventually wanted to become the only woman, I decided that it was much safer and better for my sanity and for my family to only see providers, who are in general are not emotionally attached to their clients.

One just has to be proactively smart about it. Always exercise caution. Always have an alibi. And never allow the hobby phone to be anywhere near where it can be found.

Very fucking true.. I like you..

Staying with my original that has served me well: No wife, no worries. Free willy.