GFE IN WTx

so here's the real question… why do we even need a fucking goddamn code for girlfriend experience? or porn star experience? or any of this shit for that matter?

is it because we're too lazy to type? does it somehow stem from the absurd belief that using code will keep us out of jail? Is it because we're just dudes and we do dorky shit like that? Originally Posted by john_deere

If we had a clear definition of what GFE included then it would be easier for providers to let hobbyists know what activities the ladies do. She can say she's GFE and we'd know bbbj, dfk, IOP etc are good to go versus her having to say "I suck dick without a condom".

The reason for this thread is people want to muddy the waters about the definition. Providers want to reel in guys by saying they're GFE when they aren't according to the criteria of the thread. Nothing wrong with non-gfe providers, they just shouldn't say they are GFE to try to get more business.

Acronyms and codewords can be a benefit if used correctly and their definitions and meaning are clear cut and not so ambiguous.

I have an idea. How about we just kindly ask the providers to clearly state in their showcase what their menu is and what's off limits? To hell with trying to define GFE, that is subjective and we can go on for years discussing it. Believe me, I totally agree that true GFE is at the very least kissing/DFK, BBBJ & DATY, but there's much more to it than that IMO.

Maybe eccie could add a REQUIRED FIELD in the providers showcase that they would have to fill out before their showcase would be allowed to be complete/submitted. This way they would have no choice but to fill in the blanks instead of just stating... "See My Reviews" or "GFE".

Just a thought...

nobody is trying to muddy the waters. the reality is the waters always have been and always will be muddy. no amount of insistence on using certain abbreviations is going to change that.

the bottom line is that if you want to be a smart consumer you won't rely on some nebulous and subjective definition when shopping for what you want. that's like walking into the automobile dealership and telling them you want to buy a "nice" car. because...well...that would just be dumb.

Sheesh. You guys get so spun up. It is pretty simple:
DFK, DATY & BBBJ = GFE = [G]irl[F]riend[E]xperience.

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you must not have axtually read the thread because you apparently missed the part where there is not actually a consensus.

Oh. I read it. The tally is in. There is consensus among right-thinking individuals.

Me thinks Wallance is a shit starter and knows what buttons to push lol

but dat confirmation bias, doe...

My world is a nice place to live. Just accept.

My world is a nice place to live. Just accept. Originally Posted by Wallance

Think GFE can't be just described by kissing DATY and other things. There are certain people (we all know how GFE I am) I don't want to kiss for whatever reason. It all goes back to YMWV, but I do wish non GFE providers would stop throwing the term around to get their phone ringing. GFE should be clearly stated and ladies who have menu items removed should list that on a "do not do list!"


I have no penis, but I would think as a man I would rather have a girl say she is GFE and then separate that from a do not do as opposed to a things I do list. For me as a true GFE/PSE provider that do list would be crazy long and obnoxious.

If my point was scrambled (long drive) my point is that there should be a section for providers to fill out that just has DOES NOT PROVIDE items on it.

Think GFE can't be just described by kissing DATY and other things. There are certain people (we all know how GFE I am) I don't want to kiss for whatever reason. It all goes back to YMWV, but I do wish non GFE providers would stop throwing the term around to get their phone ringing. GFE should be clearly stated and ladies who have menu items removed should list that on a "do not do list!"


I have no penis, but I would think as a man I would rather have a girl say she is GFE and then separate that from a do not do as opposed to a things I do list. For me as a true GFE/PSE provider that do list would be crazy long and obnoxious. Originally Posted by SpiceInTucson

Originally Posted by john_deere

I wouldn't want to sit at the computer all day writing my do's

That sounds like a looonnnnngggggg day.


I don't poop on people. That's a fact!!!!! Unless it's Chica Chaser, I'll poop on him. See there we go again. YMMV

I'd definitely poop on ChicaChaser.

No pooping allowed!