Are there any guys out there who actually keep their appointment?

I do not understand why guys NCNS. Common courtesy is a simple phone call/tect if necessary. I understand things can come up, I have had to cancel a couple of times but always contacted the lady.

I've never canceled or ncns. Up until last night I had never had a provider ncns. I was in KC on business. Had appt booked 2 weeks ahead. Confirmed on Wednesday. Then no word the day of. And this provider has a cancellation policy...

It's certainly easy to see who is self employed and who is not LOL. I mean let's face it, a provider is going to lose more from a ncns, especially if she has to procure an incall, get a baby sitter, get her nails done...yada, yada..etc..and she ends up in the red. I've been ncns a time or two. I'll send one message...Sorry I missed you, maybe another time. It's not a big deal IMHO. I've saved what the provider loses. The only thing I've lost is time and I just can't get too worked up over some lost time. She on the other hand has lost revenue. Originally Posted by malwoody

I am not self employed, but am OCD when it comes to being on time. To me it is a matter of respect and I take it seriously, in and out of the hobby. If you ncns, you are stealing. Period.