Things that piss you off (in the hobby)

Why the hell is a provider from Philly even posting on this thread anyway? We're all adults here (I hope) and we all can make choices for ourselves. If a provider hates their job...quit. If a hobbyist falls in love..quit...

If you spend your life blaming others (current relationships) for your situation u will never be free from your past. Originally Posted by CuteGuy040

Sir, I post my opinions based on TOPIC not location. My thoughts, ideas and opinions aren't limited to location, sorry, but they just aren't. My mind works universally based on the subject at hand. I can't help it.

Plus, I am doing things right now to get out of this biz. However, I have bills to pay and this is the quickest/easiest way to earn the monies needed to further myself. I wish things were different, but they aren't. I hate being an escort, but why does it matter? Do you think the entire world is made up of the same opinions and ideas? Reality check. It isn't. Some may like what they do, more power to them, some don't. Thats life. Accept it for what it is. Everyone has their own opinion. I would never tell someone to supress their opinions like some here always do.

Haha. Are you finally gonna put yourself on ignore? Originally Posted by Lily Blair

Now there is a freakin thought!!! lol

cops that say's enough.

Emails like THIS: http://www.lilyblair.com/blog.php?page=22

GingerDoll, contrary to what you think...I actually AM doing something to get out of this business. Things take time, but believe you me, I am doing things to get out! In the meantime, I can bitch ALL I want about my job. Why? Because I can. You seem so incredibly hell bent on people not being able to express themselves. I've seen it before. Some lady you don't like gets scammed and you tell her to get over it. How insensitive! Let people express themselves!! You wanna stay nuetral? Fine. But how dare you tell violated people to just "get over it." Talk about a threAD.

You are so repressed. Try being a little more progressive in your thinking. I understand this is your place of advertisement and you must advertise and agree with the men because they are your bread and butter. You are so transparent. If you love your job great! I tell my clients that also :-) If you love your job so much, then why not meet these men for free? No, you love money. There is nothing wrong with loving money we all need it. But don't sugar coat your true intentions. Again, you are so transparent. I know you will come back with some typical lame response about loving your job and not wanting drama blah blah blah. Bread and butter. Bread and butter. It's not good to photoshop pictures BTW.


As far as bitter purple nail polish lady, you can sugar coat your bitterness all you want under your excuse of intolerability to stupidity. If I was as bitter and angry as you, I'd be sayin gthe same thing. If I am so stupid, then why respond to me? My comments make you angry because they hit the nail on the head. They are truthful. If you truely thought I was stupid you would simply laugh at me. Your one bitter woman. But regardless, I hope you are happy and I am wrong. I mean you have 4 kids and a husband.

On topic: I'm sure the clients hate bitter ladies who sugar coat everything. Also, I was talking to a man the other day about how the older providers photo shop their pics and lie about their age. The providers think this is OK. But the clients know the provider is lying. Originally Posted by incognito isis

Isis...to answer some of your idiotic accusations... Yes, my photos are photoshopped. I would have to guess that the great majority of ladies photos here are photoshopped...especially when one has professional photos. It's part of the photography service. It's nothing to be ashamed of. What matters most is does the client feel that the person they meet is an accurate representation of the person in the pictures? I believe I have almost 60 reviews, all of them stellar "yes" recommendations, ALL of them stating that I look exactly like my pictures. And as far as the age thing, I am proud to say that I am 38 years old. I would never lie about it...I'm actually very proud that I look this good at this stage in my life. So why would I lie??? Where are you getting your inaccurate information?

And, an even better question...how do you feel comfortable criticizing MY pictures when you don't even have the balls to post any of your own? I suppose I could take the easy way out and post pictures of a girl who I say "kind of looks like me," but I'll let you keep the patent on that one. As a change of pace sometime, you may want to consider doing The Lone Ranger. Oh, the mystery! The intrigue! "Who was that masked hooker?"

As far as sugar-coating my love for my job--bullshit. Perhaps it's just unbelievable to you that someone could relish something that you so despise. The fact is that I love men & I love money. While my love of men might be enough to sustain me in a fantasy world, the fact is that we've all got bills to pay. So no...no matter how much I love what I do, I am not at liberty to do it for free. I still find it incredibly liberating that I'm doing something that I absolutely love doing, and getting paid very well to do it.

And I, probably more than most, appreciate the ability to speak my mind freely...I would never attempt to deny someone else the ability to do so themselves. That doesn't mean that I'm not going to open my mouth and call bullshit on you when I feel that it's justified...which, unfortunately, is almost always the case!

golden showers, piss me off!
brown shwowers, are shit!
red showers ,make my blood curl!
roman showers, make me puke!

Ding Ding ding..we have a winner.. its perhaps hard to imagine someone actually liking being a hooker, whore, prostitute, escort, call it what you will.. perhaps its hard to believe that one would love the thrill of meeting a basically perfect stranger and fucking his brains out.. it might be hard to find truth that there are girls that actually enjoy fucking some of the guys you find on these boards for the simple fact its just taboo what we are doing.. I know I know..all those things are hard to imagine.. and being PAID for it makes it even more taboo.. and there are plenty of guys and ladies that love what they do love beign a doctor, lawyer, garbage man, they love what they do..and they don't do it for free.. at the end of the day.. no matter what the whole compensating for time etc etc.. we are providing a service..and services come with a price.. and that price differs from girl to girl dependent on what she wants to earn for her WORK.. you can love fucking complete strangers. men some women woudl say are unattractive..guys that other women find annoying.. you can love fuckign those guys due to the KINK FACTOR..the fact you shouldn't be as a woman fucking just anyone willy nilly and at the drop of a hat can be very empowering of sorts..and being paid for it is the nature of the world.. everyone does have bills to pay..and that can add to the fun of the whole thing

very few hours per week for ALOT of money.. in actuality girls are working probably half the hours their clients work and are probably making double the money.. thats reality.. if you enjoy fucking strangers..getting guys off..and being the center of attention..this job can't be beat

I understand some won't ever get it and will leave here a miserable person.. some actually enjoy being a whore!!!

i guess I hate that too..small minded individuals who belong at mcdonalds instead of in the p4p world..u gotta come with the right mindset..or you will be miserable

Isis...to answer some of your idiotic accusations... Yes, my photos are photoshopped. I would have to guess that the great majority of ladies photos here are photoshopped...especially when one has professional photos. It's part of the photography service. It's nothing to be ashamed of. What matters most is does the client feel that the person they meet is an accurate representation of the person in the pictures? I believe I have almost 60 reviews, all of them stellar "yes" recommendations, ALL of them stating that I look exactly like my pictures. And as far as the age thing, I am proud to say that I am 38 years old. I would never lie about it...I'm actually very proud that I look this good at this stage in my life. So why would I lie??? Where are you getting your inaccurate information?

And, an even better question...how do you feel comfortable criticizing MY pictures when you don't even have the balls to post any of your own? I suppose I could take the easy way out and post pictures of a girl who I say "kind of looks like me," but I'll let you keep the patent on that one. As a change of pace sometime, you may want to consider doing The Lone Ranger. Oh, the mystery! The intrigue! "Who was that masked hooker?"

As far as sugar-coating my love for my job--bullshit. Perhaps it's just unbelievable to you that someone could relish something that you so despise. The fact is that I love men & I love money. While my love of men might be enough to sustain me in a fantasy world, the fact is that we've all got bills to pay. So no...no matter how much I love what I do, I am not at liberty to do it for free. I still find it incredibly liberating that I'm doing something that I absolutely love doing, and getting paid very well to do it.

And I, probably more than most, appreciate the ability to speak my mind freely...I would never attempt to deny someone else the ability to do so themselves. That doesn't mean that I'm not going to open my mouth and call bullshit on you when I feel that it's justified...which, unfortunately, is almost always the case! Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Right on, DeAnna!!! +1.

Dayum , Isis.... Is Ban Time really THAT !Boring?

Ginger "doll"
-I wasn't speaking about me. I've read your posts before and you have told a certain woman (a prettier/younger lady) that she should just move on and forget about it when she had been violated. You are repressed and fake. You are as fake as your photoshopped photos and that age listed in your profile. Guess what? Not everyone has to photoshop their pics! And you do.. You act like your better than everyone, puhleeze. Get off your high horse.

I don't care if you love what you do. Where are the lie detectors when you need 'em. So guess what? I don't like what I do. Don't tell me what I can and cannot like. Again, you are so repressed it is depressing. How dare you. You use purple nail polish lady because you can't stand on your own. Why don't you focus on your own business, getting truthful pics instead of telling people they shouldn't express themselves. Your the idiot telling peole they shouldn't be expressing themselves on a board! LOL. Isn't this what this board is for? Oh I forgot, your just in it for the threADs. Remember, stay nuetral, nuetral, nuetral.

I'm surprised others haven't griped about the ONE thing is this hobby that contributes to so much grief to men: PROVIDERS WHO SHAVE OFF 7 PLUS YEARS FROM THEIR AGE AND PHOTOSHOP THEIR PICS.

Isis, how can you be critical of others pics when you are incognito ? You claim to look like a famous model, but you could look like this for all we know

Isis, how can you be critical of others pics when you are incognito ? You claim to look like a famous model, but you could look like this for all we know Originally Posted by CarolinaGent

I never said she was ugly, just that her pics are photoshopped and she dont look 36!! Since this is a topic about what people find annoying in the hobby, I've read that not too many men like it when a chick lies about her age and puts doctored pics up. I'm incognito because I can be, thats my right. What I look like is irrelevant because I would never advertise here. And from all the clients who latch onto me, I hardly think I'm ugly. I'm here incognito, we ALL are here incognito. Unless your using your real names here? I don't think so, so don't be a hipocrite there.

nm. deleted cause it really was pointless

Ding Ding ding..we have a winner.. its perhaps hard to imagine someone actually liking being a hooker, whore, prostitute, escort, call it what you will.. perhaps its hard to believe that one would love the thrill of meeting a basically perfect stranger and fucking his brains out.. it might be hard to find truth that there are girls that actually enjoy fucking some of the guys you find on these boards for the simple fact its just taboo what we are doing.. I know I know..all those things are hard to imagine.. and being PAID for it makes it even more taboo.. and there are plenty of guys and ladies that love what they do love beign a doctor, lawyer, garbage man, they love what they do..and they don't do it for free.. at the end of the day.. no matter what the whole compensating for time etc etc.. we are providing a service..and services come with a price.. and that price differs from girl to girl dependent on what she wants to earn for her WORK.. you can love fucking complete strangers. men some women woudl say are unattractive..guys that other women find annoying.. you can love fuckign those guys due to the KINK FACTOR..the fact you shouldn't be as a woman fucking just anyone willy nilly and at the drop of a hat can be very empowering of sorts..and being paid for it is the nature of the world.. everyone does have bills to pay..and that can add to the fun of the whole thing

very few hours per week for ALOT of money.. in actuality girls are working probably half the hours their clients work and are probably making double the money.. thats reality.. if you enjoy fucking strangers..getting guys off..and being the center of attention..this job can't be beat

I understand some won't ever get it and will leave here a miserable person.. some actually enjoy being a whore!!!

i guess I hate that too..small minded individuals who belong at mcdonalds instead of in the p4p world..u gotta come with the right mindset..or you will be miserable Originally Posted by DeAnna Luv

That was well said. Except for your passive aggresive insult at the end, you just couldn't end it on a nice note could you? That would be just so hard for you to do, end it on a nice note. Join the Jaded Club, you certainly are but I give props to you for admitting this is a financially driven business. It makes me want to puke how some say they "do this because they love it." No, they do it for the money. Do you want passive aggresive?

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Ciao!

I HATE long winded, repetitive rants. They say the same thing over and over NEWSFLASH:

WE GET IT!!

GOD FORBID someone come up with a new idea to power drive over and over into our brains. At least then we won't know what is going to be said by so and so before it is even posted. Keep us guessing PULEEZE lol
I hate those who claim to hate drama, but are always the one stirring it up or even starting it. Then they point the finger elsewhere.

AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST

People who can't decide who they are, what they want to say, the person they want to portray themselves as. SO, they just yes ma'am and no sir every comment they don't have the nuts to say themselves.

Okay now back to happier thoughts, Glad I got that out.

Thanks