MMF any interest?

All I can say is WOW!!! Super HOT!!!

LOL wow I never knew there was a difference ......thanks for pointing it out....

Just to be clear, I was not distinguishing between MFM and MMF when I said I am open for these type sessions with select Houston providers who can truly get into it like AlexandriaJuly or Alex of Houston and a few other very hottt providers I have been with. If you must distinguish, I am open to MFM type session with these providers. Other type activities would be very YMMV based on provider desires.

mfm mmf .... both sound like a goot time to me. . . . no3 i ned the austin kinksters to join me beacuse its no fun by yourself

I agree White C...Alex OF Houston is one HAWT lady.

FMF for me thou...love em...erotic, exotic sensual wonderful play

HMMMMMM If I could get a third for Jenna Synclare , im im

Jenna Synclare, huh.... Hmmmmmmmm......

I've done this out of the hobby and enjoyed it tremendously. Both guys were completely uninhibited and it was a lot of fun. Originally Posted by AlexOfHouston

Been there and done it outside the hobby, it's been several years though. If both men are comfortable with the idea of being very close to another naked man - then a lot of things are possible. Ultimately in the hobby, I want to try it at least once.

For a hobby perspective, it's possibly worrying about the other hobbyist. It obvious if the provider is someone who has a day job where I work, I look carefully at pics. What if it turns out the 3rd guest is someone who knows me, when I'm trying to fly UTR. I'd have to get around that, or travel to another city, like Austin or Houston and do it. I think at the end of the day, the horniness will win out though.

Fetishist...I've already spoken to you that this is a secret fantasy of mine I've never had the pleasure of experiencing....I do believe I am ready!

I'm curious about the risks of doing this in this hobby. I have participated in a couple of MFM with couples away from this hobby. I am confused how you would do a MFM in this hobby though. One guy pays? Both guys pay. No one pays as this is more fantasy than provider related? I guess every situation is somewhat different?

I remember reading about a gangbang being organized in Lubbock and El Paso. For me, I couldn't wrap my (big) head around a gangbang in this hobby. Every pays to participate? Doesn't make sense (to me) with my UTR concerns. Might just be me though.

Risks? The questions you put forth regarding MFM in the hobby don't pertain to *risks* at all. Rather it pertains to $ (who pays) as you keep indicating.

So allow me:

If you partake of MFM or gang bangs-(not my thing) in the hobby.
Then the male hobby participants pay the lady her noted donation.

If you partake of MFM/gang bangs in the RW. Then unless it's a door or party fee that's indicated on the invite. The male participants don't pay.

It all boils down to hobby & RW and how said *parties* are planned.

If your speaking of actual risks that don't pertain to who pays whom. Then please indicate and maybe someone can offer up some advice to you.

Frankly, to me. The risks in the hobby are minimal than the risks in the RW. As more (not all) men & women in the hobby have a great understanding of what this hobby life entails and that includes when partaking of MFM/gang bangs. etc. Where as more folks in the RW are bound to take more risks and do so carelessly. W/o a 2nd thought about safety & discretion.
Not to mention, in the hobby, the lady sets it up and she's the one who has a handle on pairing up the right hobbyists for said 3sum pleasure.


Just my take on MFM as I've enjoyed many (both hobby & RW).

I'm curious about the risks of doing this in this hobby. I have participated in a couple of MFM with couples away from this hobby. I am confused how you would do a MFM in this hobby though. One guy pays? Both guys pay. No one pays as this is more fantasy than provider related? I guess every situation is somewhat different?

I remember reading about a gangbang being organized in Lubbock and El Paso. For me, I couldn't wrap my (big) head around a gangbang in this hobby. Every pays to participate? Doesn't make sense (to me) with my UTR concerns. Might just be me though. Originally Posted by Three Piece Chicken Dinne

Risks? The questions you put forth regarding MFM in the hobby don't pertain to *risks* at all. Rather it pertains to $ (who pays) as you keep indicating. Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

As noted, the main risk I would be concerned about would be staying UTR. Especially with the provider organized gangbangs and what not. To me, that would be a risk.

It all boils down to hobby & RW and how said *parties* are planned. Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

Agreed. I pretty much said the same.

If your speaking of actual risks that don't pertain to who pays whom. Then please indicate and maybe someone can offer up some advice to you. Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

I guess, in my mind, the questions were more rhetorical. Food for thought if you will. Not necessarily looking for advice. I always enjoy good discussions.

Just to be clear, I was not distinguishing between MFM and MMF when I said I am open for these type sessions with select Houston providers who can truly get into it like AlexandriaJuly or Alex of Houston and a few other very hottt providers I have been with. If you must distinguish, I am open to MFM type session with these providers. Other type activities would be very YMMV based on provider desires. Originally Posted by whitechocolate

The more the better I always we definitely need to try and set something like this up.

I agree White C...Alex OF Houston is one HAWT lady.

FMF for me thou...love em...erotic, exotic sensual wonderful play Originally Posted by texasbrowning

Well thank you texasbrowning

Been there and done it outside the hobby, it's been several years though. If both men are comfortable with the idea of being very close to another naked man - then a lot of things are possible. Ultimately in the hobby, I want to try it at least once.

For a hobby perspective, it's possibly worrying about the other hobbyist. It obvious if the provider is someone who has a day job where I work, I look carefully at pics. What if it turns out the 3rd guest is someone who knows me, when I'm trying to fly UTR. I'd have to get around that, or travel to another city, like Austin or Houston and do it. I think at the end of the day, the horniness will win out though. Originally Posted by TexanAtPlay

Well if you're ever in Houston don't hesitate to PM me we'll have lots of kinky fun


I am always up for trying new things, the best way to explore one's sexuality is in my opinion not to set much limits. You gotta try everything at least once. I love MMF MFM MFT or any combination with the right crowd it is a lot of fun.

If your UTR and you see a lady who screens and knows your concerns. Then there shouldn't be an issue. Unless you show up and your boss or brother is part of the *party*. Then that's out of her or your control.
But frankly, there shouldn't be an issue with you remaining UTR IF your seeing the right lady who knows how to set up the pleasurable date properly for all parties. (not someone who allows *just* anyone who contacts her).

I see gents whom are UTR and have had MFM with them and had ZERO issues. They're still UTR and those MFM dates are still enjoyed.


Good luck.

As noted, the main risk I would be concerned about would be staying UTR. Especially with the provider organized gangbangs and what not. To me, that would be a risk.
. Originally Posted by Three Piece Chicken Dinne

If your UTR and you see a lady who screens and knows your concerns. Then there shouldn't be an issue. Unless you show up and your boss or brother is part of the *party*. Then that's out of her or your control. Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

That would be the issue.

But frankly, there shouldn't be an issue with you remaining UTR IF your seeing the right lady who knows how to set up the pleasurable date properly for all parties. (not someone who allows *just* anyone who contacts her). Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

That is putting a lot of faith in a provider. That is meant with no disrespect. A MFM is probably not something I would look for in the provider world so it really wouldn't be an issue for me. Again, I just like the conversation. I don't think this is a situation that would present itself to me in the provider world. I have participated a few times in the real world.

Good luck. Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

I wish you well in your future endeavors.