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I am the kind of customer that would like to take a girl out for dinner first.

I am the kind of customer that would like to take a girl out for dinner first. Originally Posted by RetiredSubmariner

maybe you need to get a girlfriend and not a hooker. you are essentially wasting time for something that is not going to be satisfying to you.

Ok Submariner, as they say “if u wanna quit having sex just get married”. And the other one, when u get married put a jar by the bed & every time u have sex with ur wife throw a bean in the jar for the first two yrs of marriage. After that every time you have sex with her
Take a bean out, that jar will still be pretty full by the time ur dead!
Semper Fi

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This was incredibly sad to read

I got busted cheating about 10 years ago. In my case my wife had just decided she didn’t want sex anymore and we were in a three year drought at that point. So an opportunity arose and I was like why not. Afterwards I tried to be open and honest with her about my feelings. Boy was that a mistake. All sharing feelings did for me was to provide her with more ammo to be used every chance she got. I realized it was because she was hurt but she used it to keep looking for things that weren’t there. Then I got to the point again after years of no more sex and began to hobby. Originally Posted by starway

I gotta say, if your wife cuts you off for 3 years for no acceptable reason (I can't really think of any, but maybe something medical would suffice), then she is crazy for not expecting you to have sex with someone else. I get sick of spouses of either sex bitching about their partner cheating if they aren't committed enough to the health of the relationship to at least attempt to ensure that intimacy needs of the other are being met. That's at least half on them.

I gotta say, if your wife cuts you off for 3 years for no acceptable reason (I can't really think of any, but maybe something medical would suffice), then she is crazy for not expecting you to have sex with someone else. I get sick of spouses of either sex bitching about their partner cheating if they aren't committed enough to the health of the relationship to at least attempt to ensure that intimacy needs of the other are being met. That's at least half on them. Originally Posted by Denali68

At 25, my wife injured her back, two slipped discs and some nerve damage. The nerve injury caused her body to stop producing estrogen, her cervix began atrophying, and she lost all interest in sex.

Her mother died of cervical cancer when she was 12. So she has a huge fear of cervical cancer. HRT [estrogen therapy] might help her, but she is convinced that it would kill her.

Her genitals at completely atrophied. Any touching is painful. Digital manipulation of labia will cause them to rash, the skin cracks easily and bleeds.

She is light-skinned and allergic to just about everything [most lubricants and some soaps].

She hid that her nature was to be 'asexual' during our courtship, and the first 3 years of marriage. She never liked sex, and she has never experienced an orgasm. But she was willing to be playful, for my sake when we were newlyweds.

After her spinal injury, she let herself embrace her natural dis-interest in sex.

She knows that I have a sexual need, but she does not want to know about it in any manner. She wants me to take care of my own needs in a manner where she would never be reminded that my needs exist.

I am the kind of customer that would like to take a girl out for dinner first. Originally Posted by RetiredSubmariner

Those are my favorite dates

maybe you need to get a girlfriend and not a hooker. you are essentially wasting time for something that is not going to be satisfying to you. Originally Posted by 1blackman1

That is your opinion..if he gets satisfaction from connecting with the person before playtime then that is worth it for him.

There are plenty of guys that like to go on dinner dates beforehand that's why girls offer them.

As cliche as it sounds everyone does not hobby just for sex.

I have people who I've never even have played with. some people actually want companionship and it's not for us to judge on why they hobby

Also keep in mind that some people physically not able to do certain things so it would be shaming them to say they should only hobby for intercourse

Guys don't see the side we see there's a plethora of reasons why guys do this besides the obvious

It's best to keep an open mind

Those are my favorite dates Originally Posted by Sienna91

A nice dinner can be a great place to stoke the fires.

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Drilling hit it on the head, maybe do something WITH her. Swing, discuss some fantasies, maybe even pick her up in bar like she is a pro. A lot of options to make both happy, if she is open to exploration.

If she is rigid on monogamy, then you have a choice. End it to play out your game without guilt. Continue to cheat but understand that she will be up your ass and will take jabs at you. Stop cheating altogether.[/QUOTE]
+1

Just keep goin bro, I wouldn’t stop. She leaves she leaves , next!

Just keep goin bro, I wouldn’t stop. She leaves she leaves , next! Originally Posted by Itsallfun69

I can sense that you've never experienced divorce!

hey giz... haven't seen you in a good while!

Ok as a "Hooker on a hooker review site" Im going to acknowledge the obvious lower level of trash that we "hookers" were just sent too when being compared to "the lil wifey". That kind of hypocrisy really disgusts me.
I mean, we are now looked down upon if this mans happiness lies in a "hookers" hands or his wife's? Obvious it hasn't been his wife's.
Im not even going to jump into that mans marital issues because there's 3 sides to every story. His, hers and the truth and i dont know any of them to give an opinion.
But, i can say that those of you who talk down about us are the ones hitting us up the most so you should probably take a look in the mirror before you start throwing stones in that pretty glass house you living in.

Good luck to you darlin with your marriage. This i do know to be truth. Sex is not love. You can love your wife and have sex with someone else. Doesnt mean you respect her, but it doesnt mean you don't love her either.