Anybody who is a member of this board absolutely has no right to judge anyone else on this board for anything that’s for fuck sure
Originally Posted by sjomonty
Well, this has nothing to do with this particular case- but that statement's a bridge too far, SJ. There is plenty of shit out there where I would judge anyone for; hell, some of it was just referred to as not-suitable for discussion on this board.
That being said - I'd agree we can't (shouldn't) really be judging other people for their sexual freakiness, buying pussy, whatever kinks, they have, etc., However, ...hell, this thread is judging people for scamming/theft, etc.,
That being said - for guys who are new to this - an easy way to fuck up a good thing is to lend a girl you get along with some money, so she 'makes it up next time', or some other arrangement. When I was younger and dumber, I did that a few times - and quite often, the result was that the girl would suddenly stop answering your calls/texts, be unable to schedule, or blow you off. It was kind of enlightening to me, but to each their own. I'm not saying 'always'; I'm saying 'often enough to see a pattern.'
I ruined a couple of good things b/c I helped out, then they dodged me, then I was pissed because I said we would meet and follow up on her deal. Of course - if I'd just said 'fuck it', and pretended she never borrowed the money, we'd have been all good and she'd have sucked and fucked, I expect.
So - nowadays, I have a different policy.