Hobbyists: What are some extra sweet things us girls can do for a incall/outcall?

1. Good directions to the incall, preferably given the day before.
2. Incall in a safe location, with ample parking.
3. Clean room with a real bed with clean sheets. Have the room at a pleasant temperature.
4. Clean bathroom with clean towels, etc. it's also a turnoff for me to see used condoms in the trash can.
5. Have different sized condoms available.
6. Have something refreshing to drink available. I prefer bottled water and usually bring my own, but it's nice to have it offered.
7. No hint of cigarette smoke on you or in the room.
8. Be pleasant and friendly! Act interested in things I bring up.
9. I love to have my back rubbed after the session, but don't like having to ask for it. So just do it or ask to do it.
10. I like having a clock I can see. I respect your time and don't want to run over.
11. I love it when the provider takes care of removing the condom and cleaning me up. I like for her to put it on as well.
12. I like a "cool down period" after the sex, where we cuddle, grope, kiss and converse. Sometimes this is the most enjoyable part of the session.

If the provider takes care of those things, I'm probably coming back for more...

I'm talking about some things that we providers can do to make your visit very memorable and pleasurable. This is mostly for the GFE party, but the PSE could take note too.

Other than having a washed, cleaned cooter, a rubber, and a bed of some sort, I find that it would be nice to....

-Have some light snacks like cheese n crackers and veggies.
-Have an assortment or lubes, toys, etc.
-Shower Together
-Play light romantic music
-Light a candle
-Play cards afterwards or whatever
-Give a massage or pedi
-Dress in cute cute cute lingerie!!!


What are some things that you would like to see during a session? Customer service pkays a great deal in thos industry. Lol Originally Posted by AlluringExotic

I for one just appreciate the fact that you are even asking! That tells me a lot of good things about you

Any of the above would be great. It seems to me you have the right mindset to be creative and spontaneous and that makes a world of difference! Thanks again!

Good question, and thanks for asking. One of my fave's is Lindsy Lacey, partly because of how she's organized her "presentation." After seeing her many times now, she knows what my drink is and always has a scotch and water mixed waiting for me when I show up. She is always dressed in an alluring, but not cheap, manner--lingerie, heels, etc., okay well kind of slutty I admit. But what gets me going is that she has soft, relaxing, massage kind of music going and makes me put my arms around her and dance with her and tell me about my day before we go past the living room of her incall. This always slows me down and puts me in the right mood to enjoy a long session. I'm speaking for myself, but I also think that guys in general get a little revved up thinking about a session that is getting ready to happen, and when I (we) get there, we're burning past the starting line in too high a gear. Makes for a short session sometimes.

Just having a drink available and some music on... never the TV. Also a clean bedroom. That just makes me feel alot more comfortable about the cleanliness of the whole experience.

A lot of guys have responded to this thread so you can tell that
it might have some good info ladies.

If a provider truly wants to provide a customized session tailored
for a specific clients needs.
She could provide a little questionnaire in her profile asking
if a guy would like a few certain things provided for him.
You don't want it to be very open ended though or you might
have a guy wanting trained circus animals or something.
Just simple things that would be easy to provide and make
the guy feel like he's getting a special customized session.

There are some things that would be common to every guy.
Wanting good hygiene, clean towels ect, but there are also
specific things that individual guys would want.
A certain kind of drink, music, back rub ect.

This could also be done through pm while the session
is being set up.

The motivation would be having the best service provided,
and having a guy wanting to see you again.

It's always the little things.

I offer a romantic incall, in Mt.Pleasant!! Originally Posted by MsNette198087

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I think your List is Great. Check out the song on my Sig. Line.
I think what I look for most is your Passion to be in my arms.
Your Sexy Aura, kiss, and body language. I have never went to a Session that your list was completed. If I wanted some kind of snack, i had to bring it, If i wanted a drink, i had to bring it. Only 2 times, i seen any candles lit, and since i like to watch a lady play with her toys, i ask if she has any. Her responce is always: I only have 1 toy and i don't have it with me. NEVER any music playing. (There was a TV on once, which i would have gladly preferred the Music) A Pedi? are you serious? NO Provider ever offered me 1 of those. I love to be PAMPERED but, it hasn't happened yet. I even have a detailed BIO on P411 of said list. It's nice to talk about these things but, if ya'll ladies are NOT serious about what we like, why bother? You can even do a SEARCH of all AD's and REVIEWS, and there are NONE that advertise these words: I HAVE A ROMANTIC INCALL. If you find any, let me know. Originally Posted by Copierguy0

I'm Watching Ladies, Speak-up.
CG

1. PLEASE, please, please: be on time, ready, with no "can we make it 30 minutes later?" messages a half hour before our appointment.

2. Please don't play phone tag with me. Let me know where you are, how to get there, and the apartment number in one message, not 5.

3. Be dressed for the occasion. Nice lingerie is fine, doesn't have to be fancy. Just not sweats and an old grubby t-shirt.

4. If I'm a regular client, don't start taking me for granted. I still want you to be on time, dress nice, be ready when I get there, etc.

What you can prepare for: be a professional and treat me like a client. Have a great attitude even if you're having a so-so day, and rovide all the "personal" services I'm known for--i.e., read my reviews; I praise what I like. What you can't prepare for: whether we click. You can speculate from my reviews and other writings, but you can't know. I can do the same. But we're either going to click or we're not. It's not necessary. I have had many enjoyable sessions where I liked the provider but just didn't click. But when we do, it's really special. I think too many hobbyists insist on the latter, and that's a shame.

1) make it clean
2) have it smell nice
3) clean sheets
4) give us the illusion like your ad says.. you are low-volume and you aren't having half a dozen guys there through the day.
5) clean it some more!

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I'm Watching Ladies, Speak-up.
CG Originally Posted by Copierguy0

My girlfriend's set up in Addison is very romantic...she decorates everything matching and has a bazillion pillows on the bed.

I'd have no idea how to do all that stuff on my own. I'm just good at cleaning it.

She has candles everywhere, always fresh linens, towels, table cloths, music, soft lights...it's wonderful.

A while back when I was dating, she hosted a valentines date for me there. It was amazing...rose petals and everything.

My girlfriend's set up in Addison is very romantic...she decorates everything matching and has a bazillion pillows on the bed.

I'd have no idea how to do all that stuff on my own. I'm just good at cleaning it.

She has candles everywhere, always fresh linens, towels, table cloths, music, soft lights...it's wonderful.

A while back when I was dating, she hosted a valentines date for me there. It was amazing...rose petals and everything. Originally Posted by tntangie

Since she is semi-UTR and only advertises once in awhile, I won't mention her name here. With her limited availabilty and only has 1 or 2 reviews per month, (ALL stellar reviews i might add) It's hard to see her. Everyone of her reviews state her GREAT incall. IMHO, a woman has a great gift that most men can't duplicate, it's called:
"A woman's Touch"
and I understand it's hard for a provider to do that in a hotel/motel. Thats why I prefer Apt's/houses for incalls.

Thank you tntangie,
CG

PS: tntangie, I hope you don't mind me using one of your quotes in my next new thread? It might shed some light on a better session.

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CG - I usually don't mind much of anything anyone does....until they make themselves look fucking ignorant.

hence my post on dfwraven's thread to TM.

so post away my dear!

(I guess stupidity/ignorance disguised as intelligence is a pet peeve of mine?)

Oh my you guys have a store just for CONDOMS!!... oooooh san antonio needs to step it up and I need to google the closest one while I'm there!!! Looks like ill be driving instead of flying..lol..

Great topic we just had someone write a similar discussion here.. I agree. HAVING THE LITTLE STUFF GOES A LONG WAY!! Everyone I see I treat well.. always offer shower,wash clothes, wipes, hand sanitizer, shampoo, body wash( mens dove) or for the few. that dont want anything scented a bar of soap.. gum, water and mints.. I travel with my toys its a plus for guys .. n whip!! Well. I think ur list shows that u are a great provider! ! So many ppl forget the essence of this hobby.. !!

Kisses Dallas,
Sweet lexxxi dds

thank-you White Tiger...!...
i do have a safe and sexy apartment incall...
music...candles...
fully stocked bar...
clean mens room/shower...
toys...lingerie...
and more...
along with a full menu..
i am a licensed massage therapist...
a massage is always a good idea...
thank-you......