Providers who "hate" behind the scenes

Seems like the haters have a holier than thou arrogance to them as well! Very unattractive no matter what they look like! Just an observation!

Seems like the haters have a holier than thou arrogance to them as well! Very unattractive no matter what they look like! Just an observation! Originally Posted by Still Looking

The "hobby" can be a cutthroat world.

People like to dress it up and talk about "community", "sisterhood", "friendship", "proper etiquette", and all of that... Yeah, while those things may not be total fabrications they do rest on very shaky ground. Originally Posted by Jannisary

The thing to remember is real life, or hobby . . . You can probably count your real friends on one hand. Originally Posted by pyramider

Yes, the hobby is very cutthroat. Guess its because this is most ladies only income source and its not a steady income for a lot of ladies. So any client they see not calling them or brushing them off, they get resentful towards the client and mostly the provider for taking income away from them.

Unfortunately you can count your real friends on one hand and you really don't need all fingers to do that! The real question would be how many ladies would stay in touch with other ladies once they went UTR, became HDH or SB, or just retired from the business? If a lady says she will break off all contact from the hobby for one of the reasons mentioned above, then the lady is only your friend to benefit herself and is not a real friend!

Originally Posted by SkylarCruzWantsYou

Watch out for the red velvet cake in the bakery. lol Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Ok, that was just wrong...

Sometimes I enjoy being blissfully ignorant. Drama is a deal killer for me. Originally Posted by tonytiger4u

Agreed. Sometimes, what you don't know actually WON'T hurt you...

Seems like the haters have a holier than thou arrogance to them as well! Very unattractive no matter what they look like! Just an observation! Originally Posted by Still Looking

And a very observant fellow you are...

Yes, the hobby is very cutthroat. Guess its because this is most ladies only income source and its not a steady income for a lot of ladies. So any client they see not calling them or brushing them off, they get resentful towards the client and mostly the provider for taking income away from them. Originally Posted by shorty

Well, i assume the same you can say for any independent business. Psychotherapy, Attorneys...... I am not so sure if that is escort related. Anythng is cut throat really. the "real life" is not so much different, IMHO.

Unfortunately you can count your real friends on one hand and you really don't need all fingers to do that! The real question would be how many ladies would stay in touch with other ladies once they went UTR, became HDH or SB, or just retired from the business? If a lady says she will break off all contact from the hobby for one of the reasons mentioned above, then the lady is only your friend to benefit herself and is not a real friend! Originally Posted by shorty

that is true!

Yes, the hobby is very cutthroat. Guess its because this is most ladies only income source and its not a steady income for a lot of ladies. So any client they see not calling them or brushing them off, they get resentful towards the client and mostly the provider for taking income away from them.

Unfortunately you can count your real friends on one hand and you really don't need all fingers to do that! The real question would be how many ladies would stay in touch with other ladies once they went UTR, became HDH or SB, or just retired from the business? If a lady says she will break off all contact from the hobby for one of the reasons mentioned above, then the lady is only your friend to benefit herself and is not a real friend! Originally Posted by shorty

It isn't just the 'ladies' who make this business a cuthroat one or one that can be unsavory at times. Some of the clients seem to enjoy spreading gossip and cutting other people down. Anytime a client of mine starts to badmouth another girl ( and it happens), I tell him if you don't have anything nice to say about someone, then don't say it at all. And not all clients are the 'friends' they pretend to be to us ladies either. So it works both ways. And that being said, its best to keep personal information to yourself as well as a comfortable distance between your own personal world and the provider/hobbyist world.

Seems like the haters have a holier than thou arrogance to them as well! Very unattractive no matter what they look like! Just an observation! Originally Posted by Still Looking

And conversely, haters often come across as being the 'friendliest' ones in the book. That makes me sicker than anything else! You know how they say sometimes your best friend can be your worst enemy? I had to learn the hard way in this business long ago who to trust and who not to trust!

And conversely, haters often come across as being the 'friendliest' ones in the book. That makes me sicker than anything else! You know how they say sometimes your best friend can be your worst enemy? I had to learn the hard way in this business long ago who to trust and who not to trust! Originally Posted by alluringava

Keep your friends close, they are your friends! Keep your enemies closer so you can keep an eye on them!

Never mess with a snake when its looking right at you, wait till its not watching and then cut off its head! Why do I like that saying so much? Oh ya I like head! I almost forgot! LOL

Keep your friends close, they are your friends! Keep your enemies closer so you can keep an eye on them!

Never mess with a snake when its looking right at you, wait till its not watching and then cut off its head! Why do I like that saying so much? Oh ya I like head! I almost forgot! LOL Originally Posted by Still Looking

You mean I have to start cutting off men's one-eyed snakes??????!

You mean I have to start cutting off men's one-eyed snakes??????! Originally Posted by alluringava

No Lorena.... I mean Ava! LOL

OP, Always keep in mind that men are worse than women. They gossip more than we do and are the biggest backstabbers. Just saying...

Yah the problem with women is men.....

And a very observant fellow you are...

Originally Posted by Lovelyelle_01

I think KINDNESS on behalf of a provider is VERY SEXY!

OP, Always keep in mind that men are worse than women. They gossip more than we do and are the biggest backstabbers. Just saying... Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

Yet one more generalization and stereotype...