Again, that's not splitting the difference. He had to get the counterfeit bill which cost him $100 in real money. Now you want him to chip in an additional $50. That's just upping his donation $50. Not a part of the original bargain. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005
And giving her bad money isn't part of HER original bargain. And frankly, she has a lot more at stake than he does. Just as a fucking KINDNESS, you'd think he'd have taken care of it.
If I went to a massage parlor (which I do regularly) and gave my girl a counterfeit bill, I would rush over there to give her the missing money. The reason is that she needs it more than I do and taking care of those that take care of us is a luxury that many do not have.
If you had a client that shorted you 30%, do you really think you'd take this position? Of course not. You'd expect to be paid for services rendered.
I tried to say it gently before. Let me be more clear: I would have informed him of what happened, but as a woman with pride, I wouldn't expect a man to do anything. But I promise you, a man with any amount of integrity at all (I believe that was almost every client I was lucky enough to know) would be quick to take care of this and not whine while doing it.
I guess I got out while the gettin' was good. The men I spent time with - almost to the last, were kind and good and wouldn't think twice about this issue. There were many times that I have been paid cancellation fees of $700 (50%) for (his) missed flights or change of plans. Maybe it was the good old days (last year), but such a different attitude....
Why not do the right thing? Take care of another person because you CAN? And if you can afford to fuck for 300 bucks, you CAN afford to make it right. Hell, the guy has probably blown a 100 bucks on Lattes since this thread started....