Ladies At What Point Are You Creeped Out

You know where I stand. I hold no ill will for any person. And I say let it be a fire hydrant.

You know where I stand. I hold no ill will for any person. And I say let it be a fire hydrant. Originally Posted by rockerrick

+1

Dang!

When Reya gets all mad it makes me want carnal knowledge of her!

Is that a bad thing?

Feisty little Southern Girl that can only be calmed by my manly charms!

You call me a tool, I'm not trying to fight with you. You keep missing the point that we are on the same side here, we both want a low volume person in bed with us. We both want to connect and not be on an assembly line with our partners. Why are you still trying to fight with me. I'm not arguing with you. I'm definitely not infatuated with you. Originally Posted by homer13

Maybe that's why she is so upset. <G>

Kinda funny , starts shit then stomps off when things dont't go the way she expected.

Hark I don't think you'll ever know, she's picky.


Reya.... has left the building folks !

I don't know Rock.
I would be saddened if Reya truly left the building.

It would be a much less interesting place to hang.

Yeah you're probably right, doubt she left the building. Just this room! And Reya the thread wasn't bad, I got lots of info. If it could have only stayed on topic.

Warning! I just got on Adderal for my ADD and I ended up typing a novella, if it bores you feel free to skip it.

I guess I will be the lonely little voice with a dissenting opinion(yeah, I'm sure everyone is shocked. LOL) but if I am going to get intimate with someone then I'd like to know in a general sense that I'm not just a *fake* name on the "to do list" of a guy who is probably also using a *fake name*. It's my genuine desire to meet clients that I can relax and be myself with and they with me, that tho the names may be fake the stuff that matters isn't. I LIVE for those moments where the stars align and we both walk away at the end of our date feeling like we met someone that "gets us". Those feelings tend to lead to much better BCD as well in my case which is why I've always checked the YMMV box P411.

On a related note- if people are confused about my definition of YMMV: I guarantee I will have available every service I have checked on my activities list on P411 at MINIMUM. Even if we don't hit it off you can ask for and get whatever I have listed under activities. When it comes to GFE/PSE since it's so subjective- the person should please note what their idea of that is prior to setting up the date to insure we are on the same page and can have a good time or choose a better fit for your needs.


Back to the point: In my two years as an independent provider I've found that guys with high numbers of oks tend(not always) to not be interested in much more than their acronym checklist and maybe if they are feeling generous a gift or tip of some kind, which is great if all you're really looking for is money but it seems to drag what could be a temporary but intense genuine connection down to the lowest common denominator and that's not good for anyone IMO. "hit it and quit it" guys that like variety don't bother me or anything just prefer a little more intimacy with the guys I get intimate with. I'm not looking for a real life BF here and yes I realize this isn't match.com but I don't want it to feel like a flea market or swap meet either.

I've turned down guys for having more ok's than I felt comfy with(he had almost 100 ok's Condoms aren't 100% effective and there are some things like HPV that can spread regardless. More partners = more risk. Yes, as a provider I've had more partners(most likely) than the average client but given the choice between a guy with 5 solid ok's from reputable providers and his twin who is the same in every way except he has ok's from a 100 providers I will choose the guy who has seen less providers. I like breaking them in I guess. LOL. I have seen a guy who had over 100 something ok's and he was very polite and not a bad date at all but he seemed to have a strict routine- almost as if at that point he was a professional client.

As always: WALDT and whether or not you realize it every human here(and in civie life) is ymmv to an extent. Originally Posted by Reya Sunshine

I completely see your side Reya. Never looked at it this way. Ty Ty baby.

I prob wouldn't see a guy w 100 oks. Not because of std's, but because I HAVE seen someone who cared about racking up the oks only, so our time together wasn't very intimate, passionate, considerate etc it was us going thru the steps. Or simply directing me left and right. ( and not because of me) unfortunately when someone wants an ok, but they're not very kind in the bedroom, they won't get it. Now of course, if I did see someone who had plenty of plays but made it very clear he cared about the session itself, I wouldnt hesitate. Like she said, everyone is ymmv. Whether you care to admit it or not.

Obviously if he used me as a ref I'd vouch, but I wouldn't leave anything out. Lol.

I completely see your side Reya. Never looked at it this way. Ty Ty baby.

I prob wouldn't see a guy w 100 oks. Not because of std's, but because I HAVE seen someone who cared about racking up the oks only, so our time together wasn't very intimate, passionate, considerate etc it was us going thru the steps. Or simply directing me left and right. ( and not because of me)unfortunately when someone wants an ok, but they're not very kind in the bedroom, they won't get it. Now of course, if I did see someone who had plenty of plays but made it very clear he cared about the session itself, I wouldnt hesitate. Like she said, everyone is ymmv. Whether you care to admit it or not.

Obviously if he used me as a ref I'd vouch, but I wouldn't leave anything out. Lol. Originally Posted by ExoticEzra

I'm not sure I get how a guy would enter a session to get an OK? To me that is just a courtesy, much like a gratuity, that only comes about if things were good for both people involved.

It does seem weird to spend money for the ok so you can go spend money. Maybe he just has lots of money and wants to rack up the providers. I've known guys who just wanted to bang as many ladies as possible when I was in h.s. and college and the army. Don't think the experience really mattered to them as much as bragging rights or the bang bang. Of course those were all civie lady's so the cost wasn't there. It could be like building up your credit rating early on. End game might be a lady who requires you have certain amount of ok's so they are just trying to get to that point so they can have the session they really want.

An ok for us is like a positive review for a provider. If the session went well I think it's a courtesy for both to do their part if the other wants it. Some ladies don't necessarily need or want more reviews and the same goes for some gents.

I'm not sure I get how a guy would enter a session to get an OK? To me that is just a courtesy, much like a gratuity, that only comes about if things were good for both people involved. Originally Posted by rockerrick

I completely see your side Reya. Never looked at it this way. Ty Ty baby.

I prob wouldn't see a guy w 100 oks. Not because of std's, but because I HAVE seen someone who cared about racking up the oks only, so our time together wasn't very intimate, passionate, considerate etc it was us going thru the steps. Or simply directing me left and right. ( and not because of me) unfortunately when someone wants an ok, but they're not very kind in the bedroom, they won't get it. Now of course, if I did see someone who had plenty of plays but made it very clear he cared about the session itself, I wouldnt hesitate. Like she said, everyone is ymmv. Whether you care to admit it or not.

Obviously if he used me as a ref I'd vouch, but I wouldn't leave anything out. Lol. Originally Posted by ExoticEzra

If the guy isn't being an ass, why does it matter if he cares about the session? I don't have 100 P411 ok's but I have played in this P4P world half of my life (im 36). I go to have a good time but a session is just that, a session. I guess GFE providers are into giving this illusion of passion that it carries over into their posts or is it marketing. Not taking a shot at you Ezra, just making a comment based on your agreement with Reya (who to me needs a sugar daddy more than anything)

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I'm not sure I get how a guy would enter a session to get an OK? To me that is just a courtesy, much like a gratuity, that only comes about if things were good for both people involved. Originally Posted by rockerrick

...... And things weren't. That's my point. And yes I'm sorry you're not familiar w it, but I've inferred plenty who wanted to rack up oks.

Homer 13, exactly.

Ok sixxbach. Okay.


But I prefer to see guys who don't view it as just a fuck. Yes, I DO WANT them to care. Now when I was 18, I didn't. But shit changes. BIG TIME.


Contradiction: if he didn't care about the session, why on earth is he there? Also, carelessness equals inconsideration. Which brings you back to what I had said initially.


I did agree with what she initially said, however I do not follow her prior POV's regarding her character.

Ok sixxbach. Okay.


But I prefer to see guys who don't view it as just a fuck. Yes, I DO WANT them to care. Now when I was 18, I didn't. But shit changes. BIG TIME. Originally Posted by ExoticEzra

Well what happens is that guys tend to cross boundaries when to them a session is more than a fuck. Besides, most of us are married, have gf's, etc. In all reality a session with a provider should be just a fuck and nothing else. That would save unwanted drama for all involved IMO

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