Single Guys - Why Hobby????

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Whats this thread about again? Originally Posted by lilsmurf

Thank you You need to come and see it bent over again in doggy.

I'm single but if I enter a long term relationship, I stop hobbying. I have gone years and years between the hobby so I utilize the hobby to fill in the gaps for me.

Developing a relationship is hard work and you have to interview a lot of candidates to find the right one. Single civilian women have their own multitude of hang-ups and issues.

Because I can is the number one answer. The thrill of having erotic, raw, pornographic-style sex with someone you just met 15 minutes ago is quite a thrill.

I have no problem attracting nice-looking women, but usually their issues come to the surface pretty quickly. I have developed a series of questions that give me the answers I am looking for along with studying their reactions and pantomimes and usually, they don't even know they are taking a test.

I am very selective in the providers I seek out and have no desire to be high volume. I search for quality over quantity and I rarely write reviews on the "gems" I uncover.... only if they request it. I am ultimately looking for low volume/ high quality as well. I could hobby 3 times a week if I wanted to, but that would take the thrill out of it for me.

Please you may carry on now. JK, love yall

I just had a "real" date tonight. Dinner and a movie. It was fun. $30 plus tip for dinner, $20 for movie tickets, $15 for popcorn and a couple of fountain drinks. So something like $70-$75 for the evening. It was a date, with a lady I just met, so I did not even try for sex, I wanted to be a gentleman and all for a first date. Anyway, dating ain't cheap, and you have to wine and dine them a little bit before trying for sex. So basically, if you just wanna get laid, the Hobby does make sense in the short term.

Why do single guys hobby? Are you too lazy to get free Pu$$y? I know why marry guys hobby, we like to pay twice for it... Originally Posted by johnrubmehard

Try picking something up at the bar and paying it to go away in the morning and NOT schedule enough time for four tires to be replaced if she knows what you drive and you'll have your answer.

Because we can!Because we can!

You don't pay for the sex, you pay them to leave.

Another advantage to hobbying when you're single is no sneaking around and no guilt. Single guys can hobby when they want. They don't have to sneak away on their lunch hour or make up bullshit cover stories to their SO. Single guys don't have to worry about getting caught, the drama that will follow, the divorce, losing half their stuff, never seeing their kids, etc. Frankly I don't know how the married guys can even get it up with all that you have to lose.

I work extremely odd hours and have for some time. I don't have the time for a "dating life", so I do this instead. I can schedule an hour for my human contact and then go back to my mundane life. Maybe some day when I work a 9-5 job, I will get off of my lazy ass and get some free pussy

Dinner and a movie. It was fun. $30 plus tip for dinner, $20 for movie tickets, $15 for popcorn and a couple of fountain drinks. So something like $70-$75 for the evening. It was a date, with a lady I just met, so I did not even try for sex, I wanted to be a gentleman and all for a first date. Anyway, dating ain't cheap, and you have to wine and dine them a little bit before trying for sex. So basically, if you just wanna get laid, the Hobby does make sense in the short term. Originally Posted by Several cool guys

And I happen to be a sex addict as well

For the same reasons married men do. Freedom to pick his candy. Not wanting to date. Less of a hassle than a girl friend too.

Plus she has reviews and a menu to choose from.
If you could check her (girlfriend) out like you can us you would know if she is worth even your $5.00 scene.
Are you married or single?

I am single and like having the freedom to do what I want, when I want. It is nice to pick and choose, but most importantly do it because

I CAN!

I have to go with "Variety" and the "Thrill of the Hunt", probably the same reason married men do it as well. When I was single "Convenience" played a role as well. I worked hard and it was nice to drop into an AMP and get treated like a King at a moments notice. I loved the attention, the body to body table showers, massages and the sex you could almost never get your girlfriend or wife todo. I was not the best or worst guy at picking up women, but I wasn't the type to juggle 3 or 4 .. or get them to all give me a shower together. Putting aside the cost of civ sex or hobby sex, it is nice to just be pampered without any commitments or return expectations.

Plus for me, my start in the hobby was during a great time on ASPD and the AMPs, Jackie the Queen, Yoko with the dragon tatoo running Jackpot, socials at Pugs Library ... it was an addicting community Don't give me the get a real life story, because that was real .. a real fun time .

Now that I'm married, I took a break for a long time, but I still crave sex with hot women and the reasons are the same "Convenience" , "Variety" and the "Thrill of the Hunt" and I still need my time to be selfish and just get pampered without having to talk or do anything I don't want. I can't imagine getting my wife to spend 2hrs doing the things someone like Lindsey Lacey does for me or more honestly it is much easier/cheaper to pay Lindsey

-ltr

Divorced after being married for over 20 yrs, kids are grown, this is pretty much where I am, as well. Most women that I am attracted to now seem to be going thru their "cougar" phase and I'm not what's selling. Originally Posted by esteve

Damn, dude, we could be twins! Me, too and because I can afford to be with a young beauty who might not look twice at me otherwise. The thrill of meeting a lovely stranger and immediately falling into each others arms is a definite turn on as well. After a 20 year marriage, there's also the lack of commitment that's appealing.
BTW, Ms. Evans, you rock!!

I'm single and had never gotten pussy for free. I like the hobby cuz I can show do my thing leave and there is no drama.

I'm single and had never gotten pussy for free. I like the hobby cuz I can show do my thing leave and there is no drama.

Plus for me, my start in the hobby was during a great time on ASPD and the AMPs, Jackie the Queen, Yoko with the dragon tatoo running Jackpot, socials at Pugs Library ... it was an addicting community Don't give me the get a real life story, because that was real .. a real fun time . Originally Posted by mtdew

I had to smile at your comment. That was a great time period at the amps. I wonder if the scene & times have changed or we have.

Her name was Yoyo if I remember correctly. Only girl I ever lied to about the question "Have we met before?" It took 15 or 20 minutes to get past that - she knew better. I did like spending time with her though.

Have fun and play safe.

SL

I don't get it (well I do for some of you), has the world changed, or is it just me? I have not been single for many years. I never did the take a girl out a few times before trying thing. I would try every chance I had. If she was not into me or open about sex, I would move on. I always wanted a relationship with two basic themes, I want to have sex with her, and she wants to have sex with me. If she wanted to play good girl a little while (but with openness for sex) I could wait, but not long. I didn't try to promise I was a great respectful gentleman that was willing to take care of them financially and emotionally without expecting anything in return... If you do, you desirve to get your tires cut, or whatever drama. Sometime my relationships lasted for hours, sometimes for months, 2X marriage (this one 21 yrs). I can't even remember them all, I have tried. It was all with less drama than I hear about here. I found willing women that knew what I was about. I dated my wife's friend that is how we met... That was the best of times.

Some of the guy's here (IMO) have screwed their self for any chance of a real relationship, (but it is their choice, and I understand that). If you routinely have sex with gorgeous young women, and become repulsed by women that are repulsed by you, you have no other choice but to P4P.

I love beautiful perfect women, but I am realistic. I can't have (insert your favorite super model), and I'm OK with that. I would rather be with a woman that I was compatible with. I like the curve that the providers give. I don't mind being the second or seventh choice they would consider in the bar for a hook up. I also wouldn't want to be the guy she was grossed out about, or would never consider. I was never the best looking guy, but who is?

I could care less what any of you guys do, but this is my .02.

I'm in relationships off and on, just got out of one recently. For me when I'm single the hobby is a way to have fun with the women I want to see when I don't have the time to go russle up some "free tail", I'm not a skinny guy, so this can take some work with a baby face. Of course when I'm single I have a habit of building up a Harem of free tail to fall back on.

Personally I don't mind taking a woman out, springing for the date in total, having a good night and then not getting any at the end of the night as long as I had a good time. But when I'm horny, or just would like the touch of a beautiful woman and my "harem" is busy or I'm out of town in the Dallas area I don't suffer I turn to the hobby, there is no doubt that I am paying for it, and I don't have to worry about if I'm going to get laid (unless you're looking on BP, LOL).

The only thing I usually have a problem with is keeping in the hobby often enough to keep a list of providers that remember me well enough to give a reference