Will this board adapt to allow forums for Homosexual Hobby Related activities?

that's the whole issue, gay men don't want us, we are masculine in NO way. I'm sick and tired of this whole debate, fact remains, there is NO shortage of guys that want to play with a TS, pre or post op. No matter how many trolls flame and haters respond, fact remains the same we ARE wanted & DESIRED. If u don't like it, don't respond or initiate anything. One thing I may add that has been on my mind a lot with all these posts lately. The survival rate of a male to female TS is 50-60 years old(also 1 in 12 of us are murdered annually for the sheer fact of what we are), and while Im a bit far from that, life gets a bit tiring, every day in, every day out, just fighting to survive even attitude alone wise, is a constant uphill battle. We are people too, we have feelings and emotions such as with any human being. I myself am going through an uphill battle with just living. My family has disowned me, men that see me, while love the time, refuse to give reviews for fear of being ostracized for their desires. Damned if I do or damned if I don't, I just want to live & be happy in this life. For those that wish to see me as a "man" and not for what I "am" whatever floats your boat, but I can say this, please realize, that it does cause pain, it does cause depression, and myself, I wish it wasn't so. Every living and breathing moment, we are often seen for what we are not. I know everyone has a right to their own opinions, but please, be kind, it can and could cause I difference between life and death. This is not a life path chosen freely, its a matter of survival. Sure you may not agree with another human beings choice in their way of life, but what gives you the right to say we are not like any other human being and deserve to be treated as such? And from previous posts I agree, you want what you want, but even if you don't want a TS why bash it, why demean those that are? we are all human, have the same feelings, hurts, and emotions as with any other, why continue the hate? Please try to have a heart, while your are i entitled to your own opinions and views, remember some, its all we have in life. Its a daily struggle to just walk outside the house and be accepted for a human being. a kind word or two costs you nothing, and can yet, make someone's life just a little better.

love to all
kakes Originally Posted by TSKrystiKakes

TSKK,

We still have not met but I'd be more than happy to see you if i meet your criteria/screening (of course if geography to get in our favor) and write a review.

Yes, some ladies may not want to see me for that but so what. If this is their mindset, I'm probably not who they need to see anyway...

There are some that stopped seeing me because I saw an AA provider...another because I saw an Asian provider...yet another because I saw a Latina provider...I'm sure some won't because I had a great MMF/MFM session....some have not seen me because of my weight ....the list goes on...

... Yet the list of opportunities to meet and have incredible times with people that are really into exploring and having great experiences gets longer than shorter so I move forward ...and deeper into the fun that is this lifestyle/hobby...


Ill admit to having views not as open as I have now but as I experience more, it is mind blowing how "closed and narrow" I was ... There is still room to grow/learn even more....

You consistently extend yourself to help/educate and make yourself vulnerable to those of us who inquire and I believe add great value to the community -I know to me personally

Thanks to your insights , I've been able to grow.

Thank you for this !

TSKK,

We still have not met but I'd be more than happy to see you if i meet your criteria/screening (of course if geography to get in our favor) and write a review.

Yes, some ladies may not want to see me for that but so what. If this is their mindset, I'm probably not who they need to see anyway...

There are some that stopped seeing me because I saw an AA provider...another because I saw an Asian provider...yet another because I saw a Latina provider...I'm sure some won't because I had a great MMF/MFM session....some have not seen me because of my weight ....the list goes on...

... Yet the list of opportunities to meet and have incredible times with people that are really into exploring and having great experiences gets longer than shorter so I move forward ...and deeper into the fun that is this lifestyle/hobby...


Ill admit to having views not as open as I have now but as I experience more, it is mind blowing how "closed and narrow" I was ... There is still room to grow/learn even more....

You consistently extend yourself to help/educate and make yourself vulnerable to those of us who inquire and I believe add great value to the community -I know to me personally

Thanks to your insights , I've been able to grow.

Thank you for this ! Originally Posted by mm-good

Very nice! Ms Kakes really does a great job trying to educate in a kind and giving way. She keeps her cool quite well and is quite a classy lady. I have learned some very interesting things from reading her posts.

I can't help but think about a caller I heard recently on a radio show. The caller was a lesbian who had been disowned years ago by her mother. But recently the mother had really tried to reunite and make amends. The radio host asked the lesbian caller why her mother had a change of heart. The caller said that her mother had started watching ELLEN on television and had developed a different view of lesbians because she just loved Ellen so much. So the mother reevaluated the situation with her daughter.

Morale of this story: When people step into the limelight and give others a new view of something, they very well can change the lives of people they may never meet.

That's a priceless gift.

Seriously. This site is full of it, and the last thing you should do is be surprised that anyone on here is acting like a hypocritical POS.

Shit. Someone told me I was one of those "disposable little people after an hour" and likened me to a "mentally handicapped person in a UFC ring" after HE read MY post wrong and went off, and the moderator flat out supported it and told ME to pack it in. I'm not going to put a ton of faith in the rest of them being decent either.

I said it once and I'll say it again. This board does an excellent job of putting a bad taste in one's mouth. No one here needs worry about anyone unlike themselves coming on board and actually sticking around.

To the TS LADIES, because that's what you are, I truly hope that there are more places for you to advertise than boards like this. I feel like this is a group that often gets left out on both gay and straight ad platforms, and I hope it's just because I haven't stumbled across a place like that yet. None of us should have to deal with degradation and insults after what we do for others all day. Originally Posted by Charlotte Breeze

Thank you for saying it Charlotte, and very well stated.

I personally cannot believe that in this day and age I'm reading this conversation on an escort board.
A couple of the posts here made me glance at the top of the page real quick to be sure I didn't stumble onto the CSM.

As previously mentioned you probably won't ever see male escorts advertising for male clients because they have their own boards due mostly to the archaic attitudes that we see being displayed in this thread.

And with the lesson in genetics set aside................
A TS is whatever sex they represent as, mentally they are, and as physically as they are able and want to be.
If She acts, dresses and represents as a woman then, she is a SHE. And vice versa..
A post op TS has no responsibility to disclose anything unless they're entering a relationship that is a lifetime proposition.

We aren't always born in the body we know we were meant to have..otherwise plastic surgery would never have been conceived and flourishing.
Gender reassignment has been going on for many years and we still have these hangups?
Really?

Point me to where the adults hang out please.

[B]The survival rate of a male to female TS is 50-60 years old(also 1 in 12 of us are murdered annually for the sheer fact of what we are), and while Im a bit far from that, life gets a bit tiring, every day in, every day out, just fighting to survive even attitude alone wise, is a constant uphill battle. We are people too, we have feelings and emotions such as with any human being. I myself am going through an uphill battle with just living. My family has disowned me, men that see me, while love the time, refuse to give reviews for fear of being ostracized for their desires. Damned if I do or damned if I don't, I just want to live & be happy in this life. Originally Posted by TSKrystiKakes

This is a sad testament to our society! We have come a long way from the pre 60s era where AAs were murdered on a daily basis because they were of a different race. The LGBT community is constantly fighting for their HUMAN rights and in the case of transsexuals even the right to use a public restroom without fear of a physical attack. Slowly our society is finding its way out of the dark ages but in regards to the Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transvestite community we still have a long way to go!

I have nothing but myself to give. Whether it is a client or a date, or relationship, that person, individual gets 100% of me and who I am. Its never been a "job" for me, its what I love. Im not always so sweet, so educational, BUT, I think back to when I was raised and I was always taught to treat others as you would have them treat you.. My dad always said, if u meet someone with hate or misgivings, kill it with kindness, and I will continue to live and feel this way till the day I die. Ignorance if forgivable, hatred while excusable, is tolerated, by me anyway. I don't have a mean bone in my body, it takes a whole lots to anger me. Needless to say mostly because I believe human nature and I understand what its like to fear, what its like to have apprehension. But I for one would NEVER put someone down because of something they cannot change, for something that someone is. They say what doesn't kill u makes u stronger, I guess that's why Im still alive. But everyday I wake up, there are always tear stains on my computer desk from the night before. Don't want sympathy, don't want pity. I only want for every human being on this planet to be accepted and treated as such as the person they are. The world would be a much better place. And thank you all for the kind posts

^^^^^ you just keep proving me correct...thank you, KK. Xoxo