Have you ever fallen for a Provider?

I do....every time a client enters the door smelling and looking good....gives the right donation....gives everything he got in the shower/bed/floor.....and then leaves!!!!

micah lee, reese foster to name a few i had to step back from for a while. nothing serious. you have to catch yourself quick when those thoughts pop into your head and realize that in most cases it is not real. just real fun! and go on about your day. but to say it doesn't happen to a lot of us is just crazy. your spending hours of intimate time with a beautiful woman who if she is a great provider spends most of those hours making us feel like a KING. almost anything we ask when ask the right way. does the fun stuff we like in the bedroom and LIKES it?

lets just say that if we had these experiences in the real world (not hobby land) we would spend more time there and not here?

I fall in love almost every time; but I thought that was the idea. Kudos to the ladies of Dallas that have gotten a piece of my heart, you deserve it. Make me feel like a king for our time together, then send me on my merry way to enjoy the memory.

yep

i fell for a provider's son

3yrs later...

Back in 2007, an agency in Sao Paulo sent a few Brazilian ladies to tour major US cities. Two of them, Marcela and Bruna, passed through Dallas, and I was lucky enough to see each of them. Marcela was the more beautiful of the two, but Bruna was the one that broke my heart. The funny, or perhaps pathetic, part of this story was that it all transpired in only a few days. Bruna was in Dallas from a Thursday morning through a Sunday night. I saw her for two hours on the Thursday morning and for one hour on the Sunday night.

There were two facts that helped me to fall for her. First, I knew that she was only in town for a few days and that I would almost certainly never see her again. Hence, I could relax, let my guard down, and like Gratiano, "Let me play the fool". Second, Bruna spoke very little English, and I spoke none of her languages - Portugese, Italian, and some Spanish.

Her poor command of English, and the fact that she was travelling alone, made Bruna seem vulnerable, and that elicited a sympathetic response from me. Lust I can control; sympathy is dangerous. Her willingness to struggle to communicate with me in English further endeared her to me.

Because of the language barrier, her and I had to rely on non-verbal communication, which included a lot of touching, a lot of caressing, and also a lot of eye contact - which some providers find creepy. I found all of this to be an intoxicating combination. From Bruna, I learned that the parts of a GFE that I enjoy most do not rhyme with "truck". They also do not require an erection, but they usually result in one.

In the end, she picked up $300 in tips and split $1.2K with her agency. I gained a couple of fond hobby memories and an excuse for some serious alcohol consumption. It was fun to play the fool for a few days.

One of Bruna's advertisements from 2007 is still available on the web:
http://www.cuties-chicago.com/escort...ago_escort.htm

The attached image is from another of her 2007 advertisements.

More recently, Angelina Adams took to me the edge, but I peered down into the abysss and said to myself: "That would be stupid!".

talk about the girl from ipanema...

wrt her cuties-chicago photos...
aaaaaaaaaaaaa-hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!

glad you had such a maravilhosa time w/ bruna. [maravilhosa = deliteful in portuguese]


The Girl from Ipanema, by Antonio Carlos Jobim [Ipanema is one of the beaches in rio]
Tall and tan and young and lovely,
The girl from Ipanema goes walking,
And when she passes each one she passes goes "a-a-ah!"

When she walks
she's like a samba that,
Swings so cool and sways so gentle,
That when she passes each one she passes goes "a-a-ah!"

Oh, but I watch her so sadly,
How can I tell her I love her?
Yes, I would give my heart gladly
But each day when she walks to the sea,
She looks straight ahead not at me

Tall and tan and young and lovely,
The girl from Ipanema goes walking, And when she passes
I smile, but she doesn't see, She just doesn't see, No she doesn't see.

in a past life I did

The Girl from Ipanema, by Antonio Carlos Jobim Originally Posted by pmdelites

I like Gabriela Anders's recording of that song.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9knmC7jRsT4

Infatuated, yeah maybe. In love? Absolutely not. I'm a little unusual in this hobby in the sense that I am only 28 and see young attractive girls for free in between my hobby days. I like the hobby because it is no strings attached, unemotional lust. Pure fantasy. No offense to the wonderful providers out there, but if it takes money to get you in bed, you are the last possible person I would look at as an option for a SO. And I'm sure most providers feel the same way. But I usually save love for women who are into me for me, not the dead presidents in my wallet. Just my opinion.

Infatuated, yeah maybe. In love? Absolutely not. I'm a little unusual in this hobby in the sense that I am only 28 and see young attractive girls for free in between my hobby days. I like the hobby because it is no strings attached, unemotional lust. Pure fantasy. No offense to the wonderful providers out there, but if it takes money to get you in bed, you are the last possible person I would look at as an option for a SO. I usually save that for women who are into me for me, not the dead presidents in my wallet. Just my opinion. Originally Posted by CajunBred

Ha Ha Ha.....sounds like you just said you'd rather have a dishonest relationship to me.

Scenario of you and date:
Dinner bill...25 -100 (depends on how cheap you are) I bet she doesn't reach for her wallet
Out to the club - 75 - 150 ( depending on your choice and genre) Bet she doesn't reach for her wallet
Maybe she sleeps with you after the party (you spent between 100 and 250 on a maybe get laid date)

I suppose it's possible you could meet a woman who thinks you're wonderful without you ever spending a dime, but it's not likely and let us know how that works for you. Unless you meet a woman who makes more than you and offers to pay at least her way, if not yours too, please know it takes the male spending money to "woo" most women. Sorry about the dose of reality, babe. It is what it is.

Ha Ha Ha.....sounds like you just said you'd rather have a dishonest relationship to me.

Scenario of you and date:
Dinner bill...25 -100 (depends on how cheap you are) I bet she doesn't reach for her wallet
Out to the club - 75 - 150 ( depending on your choice and genre) Bet she doesn't reach for her wallet
Maybe she sleeps with you after the party (you spent between 100 and 250 on a maybe get laid date)

I suppose it's possible you could meet a woman who thinks you're wonderful without you ever spending a dime, but it's not likely and let us know how that works for you. Unless you meet a woman who makes more than you and offers to pay at least her way, if not yours too, please know it takes the male spending money to "woo" most women. Sorry about the dose of reality, babe. It is what it is. Originally Posted by M A X

All women cost money to some extent. Trust me, this isn't breaking news that you are sharing. The difference is that a provider wants money and then basically wants you gone unless you have more money for another hour or whatever. If you take your actual girl oyt, yeah you may pay some money once in a while, but she spends the night with you. What do you providers charge for that shit, like two grand haha. And how often do couples go to dinner and the club? Once every month or once every couple of months? Add in dozens of free sex sessions....even Stevie Wonder can see where the true value lies in that.

All women cost money to some extent. Trust me, this isn't breaking news that you are sharing. The difference is that a provider wants money and then basically wants you gone unless you have more money for another hour or whatever. If you take your actual girl oyt, yeah you may pay some money once in a while, but she spends the night with you. What do you providers charge for that shit, like two grand haha. And how often do couples go to dinner and the club? Once every month or once every couple of months? Add in dozens of free sex sessions....even Stevie Wonder can see where the true value lies in that. Originally Posted by CajunBred

And you've managed to meet so many women who are "free", that now you hobby?

Sex is rarely "free" for men. I didn't make the rules about relationships or men vs women and sex, but at least I understand them.

And you've managed to meet so many women who are "free", that now you hobby?

Sex is rarely "free" for men. I didn't make the rules about relationships or men vs women and sex, but at least I understand them. Originally Posted by M A X

As I stated in a previous post, I hobby because of the no strings attached concept. Simple as that. I'm not paying you for sex. I'm paying you not to call me, nag me, etc. It's a nice thing to know you can get the best of both worlds, but you are definitley paying more for that luxury. That's the whole point of it.

As I stated in a previous post, I hobby because of the no strings attached concept. Simple as that. I'm not paying you for sex. I'm paying you not to call me, nag me, etc. It's a nice thing to know you can get the best of both worlds, but you are definitley paying more for that luxury. That's the whole point of it. Originally Posted by CajunBred

Oh....so, non-providers are for strings attached. I gotcha. Ya pay (in some form or fashion) to be with one type of woman for the strings attached, and pay for providers to not have those strings. Makes sense.