OUTCALL OR INCALL WHICH ONE?

Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa aaaaaa I knew you could not resist!! LMAO so much for ignore.

I hope you know I am giving you crap. I have no ill will towards anyone except maybe one person, and that's another story. Yes I know the word trick..the word hooker too. It's ok you can say them here lol. Not all of us sugarcoat everything as if it makes us better ya know. I don't turn tricks on weekends and holidays babe...have a family and all to spend time with. Damn there I go again not catering to my customers by leaving my family to go make money lmao!


Seriously, have a Happy Turkey Day.

Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa aaaaaa I knew you could not resist!! LMAO so much for ignore.

I hope you know I am giving you crap. I have no ill will towards anyone except maybe one person, and that's another story. Yes I know the word trick..the word hooker too. It's ok you can say them here lol. Not all of us sugarcoat everything as if it makes us better ya know. I don't turn tricks on weekends and holidays babe...have a family and all to spend time with. Damn there I go again not catering to my customers by leaving my family to go make money lmao!


Seriously, have a Happy Turkey Day. Originally Posted by London Rayne

How can one have true self respect if they use terms that are demeaning to another. I refuse to use those terms as they really reflect on me and are hurtful and demeaning to another. I know the reality but yes I do refuse to lower myself and others to that. What you do with your family is no business of mine or anyone elses as it's no business of yours on what I do with mine. I do wish you nice holiday and hope that you realize that no matter what you do in life in how you do it that's important.

It is clearly mapped out what I will and will not do...

. . .all they have to do is not see me. . .

. . .I don't do outcalls. . .

. . .and I don't swallow. . . Originally Posted by London Rayne

Such a cute backside. . .what a shame.



Next?

LMAO!

Why have the bother at all. Why have to research the hotel or know if she is high volume or not. Simply see girls that do outcalls and all that goes away. Since we are the ones footing the venture I think we should do what is easiest and safest for us. Originally Posted by burkalini

....really?

Please don't say things like I have a gun in my personal residence. I am totally offended by that. It's not true!!!!. I love and respect women and would never do anything to harm anyone. It seems your your getting so calloused in the business that you don't really care what the needs of your clients are. I have seen this b4. I think we did a thread on burnout. So go ahead and assume the worst of everyone. I have had over eighty OUTCALL sessions and only had positive feedback from the providers. SO please go ahead and have fun in your over six story high class hotel. I apologize for getting a little riled up but your assumptions got me a little miffed. Originally Posted by burkalini

Burk....please try to look at this from our perspective. A lot of guys may not want to hurt us, yourself included, but a lot of guys do. We have to assume the worst to protect ourselves. Is it really so bad to always be prepared? Should I refrain from carrying pepper spray because it's wrong of me to make an assumption that there is a possibility of something happening? Do you not want the providers you care about to be prepared? I don't know about the other ladies, but making the guys earn my trust has served me quite well.

LMAO! Originally Posted by London Rayne

I thought you would like that.

....really?



Burk....please try to look at this from our perspective. A lot of guys may not want to hurt us, yourself included, but a lot of guys do. We have to assume the worst to protect ourselves. Is it really so bad to always be prepared? Should I refrain from carrying pepper spray because it's wrong of me to make an assumption that there is a possibility of something happening? Do you not want the providers you care about to be prepared? I don't know about the other ladies, but making the guys earn my trust has served me quite well. Originally Posted by China Doll

I agree that a lady should be careful. I am always careful myself even though it's at my residence. The trust thing is both ways. It's earned. I stated I always treat everone with respect and demand the same. I just felt the other provider on this thread had none of that especially with her description of who she thought we are and how high her individual value was.

When I'm at home, I prefer outcalls. It saves me the expense of getting a hotel room. I do a maximum of 3 appointments a day and a lot of times, I only do one or two. If a guy cancels at the last minute, then I'm out the money for the hotel room. Also, for the guys who try to take advantage and stay over their time, it's easier for me to leave their outcall gracefully than to hint to them that they need to leave my incall (assuming they don't have a gun or any weapons on them and are not dangerous.)

When I'm touring, I prefer incall because I already paid for the hotel room and cab fare can get costly and time-consuming.

But I do it a different way.

My ATF, (the only Lady I see), has a incall. But, I do not like using it. What I do is simply get a room at the same location, (just like a real guest), for the night, and she comes over and visits me.

Sure, it cost more, but I like it that way, and she does as well.

Very sweet of you to go out of your way to consider her safety. I am sure she treats you like a King for being so compassionate.

It's guys like you that make the hobby more than just a business.

Maybe you should start thinking about your studies and your future. You're taking a lot risk and is it really worth screwing your life up?

It's guys like you that make the hobby more than just a business. Originally Posted by London Rayne

I call BULLSHIT!!! on this statement. The hobby will always be, first and foremost, a business.

I call BULLSHIT!!! on this statement. The hobby will always be, first and foremost, a business. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Charles, forgive me, but I think you misinterpreted her statement. She didn't say that guys like him make the hobby something other than a business. She said that guys like him make the hobby more than just a business.

Maybe you should start thinking about your studies and your future. You're taking a lot risk and is it really worth screwing your life up? Originally Posted by hetta26

That's why I don't over expose myself and take even more risks hon. Nothing you do is 100 percent in this business, but it is what it is. I can only minimize those risks the best way I know how, while seeing guys who seek what I offer.

Every one of us knows our own risks...it has been disussed more times than I can count. 'I am doing what I want to do to get through school for the last time, and raise a child...you should do the same. FYI if not for my future, I would have never made the decision to work as a provider to begin with lol. Hmm 2 clients a week OR 50 hours a week at maybe $20 bucks an hour.....which would you pick if you were trying to complete another degree and spend time with your family without being totally worn out all the time? Oh wait you are here, so that answers that.

In case you didn't notice, me "NOT" taking risks is what the bit*hing was all about lol. Thanks for proving my point that I should NOT take any more of them.

Charles now come on. There are times when you are with someone and you do appreciate them as a person...not just a client. I am sure you have felt that way at least once. No I would never run around town screwing strangers for free, but that does not mean I can't appreciate the few that do pay me. I have NO complaints about the guys I see, other than the occasional insignificant thing that I can overlook. I guess my point was that it's the guys who give a crap that make this more than a business...better.

They had a clean the room every 3 days policy, and they were allowed to violate the sign. I complained and told them I would never stay there again! It was a famous Nashville hotel. Originally Posted by London Rayne

Something similar happened to me in Gettysburg a few months back. I put the do not disturb sign up in order to make up for the sleep I lost the night before from party fucks down the hall.

Next morning when I retrieve the bill slipped under my door there was a nasty note from the hotel manager stating it was their policy to clean every day and that I only added to the cleaning staff's tasks by allowing it to go an extra day. At least the cleaning staff didn't enter the room anyway. Good thing cause I guess there would have been much cussing from my part, and I may have even given them a nice flash of my naked self, LOL

So, I made 10 times the mess before I checked out, then called the manager a SOB in front of other customers as I left.