Ginger, I think you and some others who've posted in this thread don't seem to understand this is not the right place nor the right time to give (unsolicited) advice. Originally Posted by ShysterJon
Ginger, I think you and some others who've posted in this thread don't seem to understand this is not the right place nor the right time to give (unsolicited) advice. Originally Posted by ShysterJon
Brianna,Ginger,
consider contacting an adoption agency in the dallas ft worth area.
They provide living expenses, and a little extra for you to make it through your pregnancy. PLUS....I'm confused as to why you think you can support a child....when you are begging for money now? Not to be insensitive...but babe...let's look at reality.
There are many wonderful families who are waiting to adopt that cannot naturally have children of their own. Think of the kid man! Give it a chance to have a wonderful life....and you can get yourself out of trouble!
Just a very sincere suggestion. I once knew a girl that followed this path....and she said it was the most rewarding experience of her life.
Good luck sweetie,
GingerB Originally Posted by GingerB
Brianna,
consider contacting an adoption agency in the dallas ft worth area.
They provide living expenses, and a little extra for you to make it through your pregnancy. PLUS....I'm confused as to why you think you can support a child....when you are begging for money now? Not to be insensitive...but babe...let's look at reality.
There are many wonderful families who are waiting to adopt that cannot naturally have children of their own. Think of the kid man! Give it a chance to have a wonderful life....and you can get yourself out of trouble!
Just a very sincere suggestion. I once knew a girl that followed this path....and she said it was the most rewarding experience of her life.
Good luck sweetie,
GingerB Originally Posted by GingerB
Brianna,I am not pregnant, but I am a mother and I was offended as well, by this unsolicited advice. Raising children is a blessing and I am sure that everyone's parents did not always have it easy. So I am guessing that every time things get tough we should consider giving our children away? I think not! You do not know her life or her struggles so to ASSUME that she should adopt out her child because she needs extra work right now, is absurd and a tad bit self-righteous.
consider contacting an adoption agency in the dallas ft worth area.
They provide living expenses, and a little extra for you to make it through your pregnancy. PLUS....I'm confused as to why you think you can support a child....when you are begging for money now? Not to be insensitive...but babe...let's look at reality.
There are many wonderful families who are waiting to adopt that cannot naturally have children of their own. Think of the kid man! Give it a chance to have a wonderful life....and you can get yourself out of trouble!
Just a very sincere suggestion. I once knew a girl that followed this path....and she said it was the most rewarding experience of her life.
Good luck sweetie,
GingerB Originally Posted by GingerB
Thanks to all who support what I am saying...Dont judge me unless you have met me. I am a very respectable provider in this community and do take offense when people who dont know me judge me.Brianna,
Brianna Originally Posted by playtimewithbrianna
Ginger, I am not begging for money.. I am just asking for Gents to visit me this weekend b4 I go to court. Originally Posted by playtimewithbriannaThat would be called an advertisement. Those belong in the dallas/ft. worth/weekend ad sections. The co-ed section is not for asking men to come see them this weekend.
I am not pregnant, but I am a mother and I was offended as well, by this unsolicited advice. Raising children is a blessing and I am sure that everyone's parents did not always have it easy. So I am guessing that every time things get tough we should consider giving our children away? I think not! You do not know her life or her struggles so to ASSUME that she should adopt out her child because she needs extra work right now, is absurd and a tad bit self-righteous.+ 1 and Amen! Sometimes, the EASY choice would be to give up a child for adoption. The more difficult choice would be to see things through, and provide a good life for your children. No one said it would be easy.
Brianna,
I will apologize for the people in the community who find it prudent to kick someone while they are down. Please keep your head up and I hope that you were able to get what you needed to stay out of trouble.
Reese Originally Posted by reese foster
I think Ginger was offering good long-term advice. If Brianna is asking for help in an open forum, she is opening the floor for any assistance options. Originally Posted by rn_sweetieExcept for the teeny tiny issue that it does nothing to address the problem presented.
Ok, I wasn't going to post on this thread but enough is enough!+1 Looie ... I haven't met Brianna, but I think we should do unto others as we want to be done unto us ...
Brianna is obviously feeling desperate right now and turned to what could be the people that she knows the best and asked for help.
So instead of certain people coming in here and blasting away at her which shows a total lack of any class at all , try to understand this is a person in need.
You may be in a bad situation your self some time with no where to turn.
I know that the way she worded her request may have sounded like she was asking for something for nothing.
Check her ads and other posts for the past week. She has made it very obvious she is willing to work for the money.
She has been offering specials and everything else she can think of to EARN the money.
If she had put this part in her request she made today you all would be calling it an ad and bitching at her about posting an ad in coeds.
I have met Brianna a couple times and she is a sweet lady and certainly doesn't deserve to be ripped apart because she made a request to those people she thinks she knows.
If you want to help her do so. If you don't thats understandable but you don't need to post on this thread and show how small a heart you have. Originally Posted by looiecypher