I had a guy actually yell at me before because he said I wasn't getting into it. He had previously bragged to me about how he was the "Kong of oral Se " yes he used those exact words. And when he was down there, it was OK but nothing amazing and he had the nerve to yell, "GET INTO IT!!! YOU'RE NOT GETTING INTO IT!!" I just laughed. Do a better job then you asshole...
Originally Posted by Slim.
Every provider as well as hobbyist are different when it comes to definitions of the acronyms in this hobby and what they define as pleasing. But, make no mistake about it, you as a provider are getting paid for your services, and in that realm, if he thinks his way is the best, but not how you feel works for you, encourage him to try this or that instead of laying there like a bump on a log and wasting his time and effort by not getting into it.
By no means should a guy TELL a provider how to do her job or how she should feel, but at the same time, since he is the one paying for your service, and this is an intimate encounter, then if you let him know what turns you on, and in a way that does not sound demanding or abrupt, then it is a win/win for you and the guy also wins as he made you feel good and that makes him feel good he is a man. I let providers know what I like mainly via my p411 profile and in turn, a provider reads it and lets me know that they either do not like or feel comfortable with it or everything looks great and when are we going to get together. IMO, that is better for me so I do not waste the provider's or my time if we are not compatible and the fact that the provider does not have to read my mind to figure what works for me.