Your point is very valid, and you have every right to feel and operate however you see fit. However, the way you present yourself, and the crudeness is what I feel others have taken offense too.
I am very honest, to the point where lieing to a gentleman about his dick size and role playing is not my forte. In fact, when asked to talk dirty, I clam up and explain that I don't do that!
Now, your remark on how you might be one of the few on this site without an extreme fear of honesty in this regard, I have to call bull shit! Some of us have been playing for a really long time, and we are comfortable with the fact that merely being a part of this hobby is a risk. We are also very comfortable on what we choose to do and our own reasons why we do it. It has nothing to do whether or not we are 'honest'.
You play the way you choose and we will respect you. Please respect us too.
Originally Posted by Tiffany Cums
If crude is being used here as defined: unrefined and natural, or raw. Then yes, I can agree with that, but I have a feeling you meant vulgar, in which case I will have to disagree. I rarely see women being that way here, actually. The men yes, but not the women. I have an idea of why that is, which leads me to my next point.
As sex workers lies are a part of our toolbox, it's not a bad thing to admit that. Yes we may be honest about SOME things, but we are very rarely honest about the most important things, and for good reason. I can understand why you may be loathe to admit that, but it's true and you know it. We create identities we expect other people to believe are "us" and we use those to make money, how is that not lying? I highly doubt Tiffany Cums is your actual name, just like Olympia isn't mine.
It's a beautiful glamour, but it's still a lie.
And I think you misunderstood my remark, so I'll explain it. I meant an extreme amount of fear around disclosing my real name. Will you still say lots of you guys are ok with that? Judging by the aliases people use on both sides I'm going to say no. And that's perfectly alright, we come up with those for a reason, right?
I definitely respect how other people play, but since I didn't actually insult anyone, or say anything ugly to anyone, I'm unsure of why you said that part.