P411 is great, but I have had several ladies reject my request Because i only hobby once every 6-11 months. I have an 8 year + track record too and lifetime deal. Strange rejections but still the best thing going...
Originally Posted by johnjay
Of course, they can turn down anyone for any reason....but I still do not understand the responses I have gotten.
I have about 12-15 okays over 8 years, but 10 of them are retired now. The other 2-5 are active but were seen within the last 3-4 years and last one about 6 months ago. Still, there were a few providers that basically gave me crap on my appointment request that I am somehow not verified because I only hobby 1-3x per year and refused to schedule.
I don't get it and maybe never will....
Originally Posted by johnjay
As I said in post #35, that is why you need to keep your OKs as current as at the very least 2 every 60-90 days. If you do not see a provider BCD but for a few times a year, to be honest, you are not taking the full advantage of having a p411 account. I have close to 80 OKs, and probably at least 20 of them are retired or do not have an active p411 account currently, and some other OKs of mine are from providers who I have not seen for a session in 6+ months, most of which are still active providers on p411, but are not really a good reference for you because of not only the length of time, but also they probably do not remember you as well as they should to give the confidence to another provider she needs to pass her screening.
Maybe see a p411 provider or two that accepts guys that have p411 accounts with no/old OKs, aka newbies, before you see the provider you want to see to begin with (I think you can do a search for those types of providers). Then who knows, one of those providers may be so good BCD, that the one you really wanted to see will not even cross your mind again!