Reflect on that... I'm serious. If you actually believe the things you say, then you should be able/willing to do a little instrospection on your smug piousness.
Originally Posted by Bobave
So I hit a nerve? This discussion, oddly, seems to
really bother you. My original posts had zero intention of being smug. But interpreting such discussion as smug, and getting overtly defensive, is a common reaction when people are challenged to look within themselves. I can assure you, my posts were sincere and with the best of intentions.
I do challenge myself to be a better person. But challenging yourself alone does not make you a good or better person. It's all a process.
If you personally want to continue deflecting instead of introspecting, that's your prerogative. That kind of deflecting is actually a sign of mental and moral weakness. You may come to realize that or you may not. Whether you do or don't, makes no difference in my life.
It is clear you are not interested in the discussion Liz presented. So just go on and have a good day