to tip or not to tip!

I have always gave my donation as requested (her directions), or if not specified how, in an envelope marked "GIFT". I never haggle, although, I have asked about the menu prices, but I only forked over money for what was expected. I once had a lady ask for a tip before we started, I feld bad for her, based on a gut feeling, so she got an extra .2 for the date. For the ladies I see regularly, they still get their rate, but I also may give gifts, but that is based on knowing them a bit and knowing what they would like.

You are WAY overthincking this.
Use your other handle.... Originally Posted by Paulwantsya

Agreed! Done here all the time. Just have to werk on a better persona and you'll be in like Flynn....

Tip? A hooker? Surely you jest Originally Posted by AmishGangster

Sounds like you've played in Canada too....LOL!.....

Years ago got that same advice Up North from a couple ATF French dancer babes from Montreal. Both claimed us girls should be tipping you guys! Both said if the dancer, MPA or SP senses or reads you as a rube, they will milk ya for whatever they can get. Both said, "Don't be a Rube!" Took their advice and never had a problem....

A related question. How do ppl handle tips with body rub providers who state that tips are expected or required? One provider charges $40 for a half-hour and says tips start at $40. Are there more options with a significantly larger tip? What's reasonable? Originally Posted by Steve_NYS

You're not really tipping at an AMP. The massage is $40 for a half hour, or whatever it is. That's the massage. Oh, you want her to pull your goalie? That's an extra $20-40. And up from there. A tip is for great service. These are fees. I've never been to an AMP where I fucked the chick and she said, "oh no, sir. That was free. But you can tip me"

You're not really tipping at an AMP. The massage is $40 for a half hour, or whatever it is. That's the massage. Oh, you want her to pull your goalie? That's an extra $20-40. And up from there. A tip is for great service. These are fees. I've never been to an AMP where I fucked the chick and she said, "oh no, sir. That was free. But you can tip me" Originally Posted by doctorsteve

Agreed. There are tips and there are "tips," which, as you point out, are actually fees.

I was thinking more of Selina's in Rochester. Her ads state that tipping starts at $40. Now, that is a fee that gets a guy certain services. But how much to "tip," if it's not specified?

I think if the girl is an independent, she's most likely keeping the bulk of her money. Some goes to room and traveling, but she's not paying anyone else. I think maybe you tip an agency girl since she's not getting the whole nut. I don't do agencies though, so I don't know.

I think if the girl is an independent, she's most likely keeping the bulk of her money. Some goes to room and traveling, but she's not paying anyone else. I think maybe you tip an agency girl since she's not getting the whole nut. I don't do agencies though, so I don't know. Originally Posted by doctorsteve

Thanks, doctorsteve. I imagine if the tip isn't enough, there will be a point when she says, "For an additional $x, I'd be happy to give you..." It would just be nice if they were more upfront about the rates. That's what I like about the ECCIE providers--you know the rates well in advance.

I think if the girl is an independent, she's most likely keeping the bulk of her money. Some goes to room and traveling, but she's not paying anyone else. I think maybe you tip an agency girl since she's not getting the whole nut. I don't do agencies though, so I don't know. Originally Posted by doctorsteve

I have heard others use that reasoning before as well, but I would disagree. It is not the client who should feel responsible for the business arrangement that the girl chooses. If she chooses to have an agency take care of her overhead , then she is opting to sacrifice part of her fee. That is her deal and not yours. If a girl charges you 200, and either keeps it all when Indy , or gives 100 to her pimp or agency, It's still the same 200 out of your pocket. Tip based on service and not her business arrangement.

One provider charges $40 for a half-hour and says tips start at $40. Originally Posted by Steve_NYS

Tell her to get out of the ghetto, Originally Posted by Carlos Danger

I was thinking more of Selina's in Rochester. Her ads state that tipping starts at $40. Originally Posted by Steve_NYS

How much dose she tip on Applebee's riblets?

Safe to assume that most of us that hobby are in a better financial position than the provider's we frequent, that said,I always tip, usually prior to receiving services.Truth known however, I do not pursue high priced provider's, I guess it just leaves me with a warm feeling of knowing I am helping a struggling young thing survive when i tip, so does this make me a low end whore monger?

LC u need a trip to the feelin guilty thread whew

You're not really tipping at an AMP. The massage is $40 for a half hour, or whatever it is. That's the massage. Oh, you want her to pull your goalie? That's an extra $20-40. And up from there. A tip is for great service. These are fees. I've never been to an AMP where I fucked the chick and she said, "oh no, sir. That was free. Originally Posted by doctorsteve

Yup. These 'optional' AMP fees have been that way since ASPD days namely, 20-40/HE, 80/CBJ & $/CFS.
In Erie County of late only HE is avail if yer lucky, nothing more. Although some creative Asians are hitting ya for an extra 20 if they go topless and allow boobie play/sucking to go with that HE.

LC u need a trip to the feelin guilty thread whew Originally Posted by Carlos Danger

Ya think?

Safe to assume that most of us that hobby are in a better financial position than the provider's we frequent, that said,I always tip, usually prior to receiving services.Truth known however, I do not pursue high priced provider's, I guess it just leaves me with a warm feeling of knowing I am helping a struggling young thing survive when i tip, so does this make me a low end whore monger? Originally Posted by lickidyclit

say what, err never mind, struggling & young is so not me