I personally do not want them in my home. I'm not a threat and if you feel that you would for some reason be in danger then I ask you don't visit me.
After a provider was brutally murdered this past week by a hobbyist who had a guy at his place.. I can totally understand why many ladies are against it. There are plenty of ways to defend yourself that are less lethal. You have a right to carry on your person but dont have a right to bring it in everywhere.