Not to be a bitch Ms Star... But how many of them really turn things around? They DONT!!!! They are unfortunately stuck in a culture and system that allows them to act like they do!!!...Our welfare system lets some folks live and not become self sufficient. Ive been around awhile and have seen so much!!!! They just don't!!! Whether personal or cultural, some just get stuck in a rut!!! I can only say that I feel so badly for the children that have to grow up in these horrible neighborhoods!!! Until this world changes there will be no change!!!!....We just need to educate and quit giving people a free ride!!!!! generations of some people in this country have lived off of welfare!!! If we don't stop it then neither will they!!!
Originally Posted by autummagick
To speak of one.. .. me. Who now at the age of 29 would be dead if I continued on the destructive path I was once on. I know this topic sparks a lot of emotions and questions with many from all walks of life. Everyone has a different view. I think this is a healthy discussion and in no way mean any disrespect towards you from my posts. I am just drawn to this situation so much for some reason, It has nothing to do with the race of the young men, but just the situations. Every one was born into different circumstances and I do believe people can change for the better. The world is a messed up place,Trust me.. I know that! Althoiugh I just don't believe violence or death will solve anything.. it just creates a domino affect. What hope are we giving the next generation of children.
The only thing that drew me in to respond in the first place was all the name calling of the young man and the .. you reap what you sow comment.
Nobody crawls through the dirt and comes out clean.
I believe you are a strong minded woman.. I really do believe that.
But you do not have to put a label on those who may still have struggles to prove that.
That's all I have to say
Wishing you the best!