NBA has nothing to do with safety....it is a PREFERENCE.
Originally Posted by WTF
Actually, many of the ladies who have the policy state it is an issue of SAFETY. Maybe they are making an excuse and for them, it really is about preference -- I don't know, I'm not a mind reader. I can only speak to what women actually SAY.
I never said women should HAVE to see anyone. It's obviously their choice. All I'm saying is that the ones who have NBA policies for safety could probably find a more reasonable way of playing safer, like, I dunno, checking REFERENCES.
But since you brought up the issue of preference, I always find it amusing that so many women seem not to prefer AA men. Black men and men under 30 seem to be the most frequent groups that ladies won't see due to a "personal preference". "I'm just not attracted to black men", these ladies may claim, yet somehow they have no problem with balding, pudgy, pasty white guys who are old enough to be their grandfather? I'm sorry -- I find that a little hard to swallow. If a lady wants to treat her business like a dating service, picking only the guys she's most attracted to and shunning all others that's totally her prerogative. Her body, her choice. I have never and will never say anything to the contrary. But yeah, I find it pretty silly that a girl won't let a respectful, educated, attractive, polite black man with cash in the door when I know what other men are out there in the hobby pool.
I have had a great time with men of all races, ages, cultures, etc. Screening is a more effective way to weed out the jerks than simple restrictions on race or age. That's all I'm trying to say.