A bit late on this thread (bored tonight) but I have to say that I agree with you. Aside from the 'management' issue, it may be a personal preference.
There has to be an assumption that his black buddy only wants to see white providers, hence the purpose of starting his thread. Does that make his buddy a racist? Is that discrimination? Is this the pot calling the kettle black here? It's a shame that the second a provider states a preference, all the race cards get played.
If a provider doesn't provide BBBJ, only CBJ and I only like BBBJ, should I start feeling discriminated against? As one can't help the color of their skin (except maybe Michael Jackson), I can't help what turns me on! There are plenty of women out there that provide BBBJ. If he is interested in a gal and she doesn't see AA men, move on, there are plenty out there who will. Who cares? In the end, life isn't fair anyways, get used to it!!
It's personal choice both ways. Some Hobbyists won't schedule with a black Provider and vice-versa. Your buddy needs to open his eyes and see the world as it is; namely people have a right to their preferences. Just because one Provider says "No" doesn't meanaanother won't say "Yes." If he wants some of the fine Dallas tail then he'll go out and get it. Unless you're Tony Romo there's not a lot of pussy that'll just drop in your lap.
Originally Posted by txcwby6