What on earth???

Can we just drop this bullshit. Take it to the powder room. This thread should never have been started. Originally Posted by clusterlizard

Just like this one should have been started in the men's only area.
Sometimes drama makes the board go round and sometimes it's tiresome to riffle through all the valid threads to find the ones that are worth reading.


http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=780665

It doesn't help you to be safe for this to be on the public board. In the provider's area, yes. Originally Posted by clusterlizard

I never said anybody had to post her name on the public board but why should the op post this info but you guys expect us to be like "oh to bad for her" um no I want to know so I can be safe myself

Well honey that's why we have the powder room.

I never said anybody had to post her name on the public board but why should the op post this info but you guys expect us to be like "oh to bad for her" um no I want to know so I can be safe myself Originally Posted by b@ileythepistol

Huh? An alert was posted in the provider's area. This thread is just drawing unwanted attention to the provider (STILL). With that, I'm out. I'm no longer contributing to keeping this thread alive.

I never said anybody had to post her name on the public board but why should the op post this info but you guys expect us to be like "oh to bad for her" um no I want to know so I can be safe myself Originally Posted by b@ileythepistol

The alert was NOT posted in no area for us KC woman until yesterday, this happened about a week ago or less, one of us could have ended up seeing him and got hurt . Had this thread never got started we probably would have been left in the dark about it then who knows what or who would have been next.

Huh? An alert was posted in the provider's area. This thread is just drawing unwanted attention to the provider (STILL). With that, I'm out. I'm no longer contributing to keeping this thread alive. Originally Posted by clusterlizard

And you would know what was posted in a women's area because?? I saw nothing of a attack of this nature.... Sometimes if a women tells a client a story in a date you should just keep it between the two and not told to eccie in the way he interpreted it

When any tragedy happens most people express sympathy for the injured party and try to show some support. That was the entire purpose of this thread. But because I didn't want to publicly identify the victim, I became a bad person for believing that we should cherish all providers. Later the provider that was attacked became somehow to blame for any future problems because an alert was not forthcoming quickly enough to satisfy some very vocal providers.

This doesn't make any sense. For the injured party to be outed and then attacked is beyond any justification. Too many of you that added to this thread are either crazy or the most uncaring people around. If in a time of tragedy the only thing that people can worry about is their own safety without any sense or desire to comfort or provide relief then there is something really wrong.

Attack me all you want for starting a compassionate thread. Attack me for not publicly identifying the injured party. I frankly don't care. If you read all of my posts, their intent was clear. But to out and publicly attack the beaten provider is inexcusably. I feel sorry for you state of mind.

The fact that this thread went on for 5 pages of repeating the same shit amazes me.

Ladies, if a guy robs you.....if he harms you in anyway.....threatens you.....stalks you.....NCNS you......shorts you.....rapes you.......again harms you in anyway, make an alert in the KC infoshare AND the main ladies powder room because ladies do travel to KC.

I don't give a rats ass where the guy is from, make an alert on here. Then go onto ProviderBuzz and DNS his ass. Your alert could save a lady from being hurt.

Guys......let the alerts come from the ladies. When you post an "alert" in CoEd and don't name names or give any creditable info, its not an alert. Sometimes the story your told isn't always the truth.

This site is about finding people who are safe and its about trying to keep your ass safe. Withholding info about a person who causes harm in anyway isn't a good way of helping out your local hobby community.

When any tragedy happens most people express sympathy for the injured party and try to show some support. That was the entire purpose of this thread. But because I didn't want to publicly identify the victim, I became a bad person for believing that we should cherish all providers. Later the provider that was attacked became somehow to blame for any future problems because an alert was not forthcoming quickly enough to satisfy some very vocal providers.

This doesn't make any sense. For the injured party to be outed and then attacked is beyond any justification. Too many of you that added to this thread are either crazy or the most uncaring people around. If in a time of tragedy the only thing that people can worry about is their own safety without any sense or desire to comfort or provide relief then there is something really wrong.

Attack me all you want for starting a compassionate thread. Attack me for not publicly identifying the injured party. I frankly don't care. If you read all of my posts, their intent was clear. But to out and publicly attack the beaten provider is inexcusably. I feel sorry for you state of mind. Originally Posted by searchthelimits

I really don't mean to give you any grief, really ....but

Perhaps another option is to express your feelings privately. Your anger and your concern more privately directed or expressed.

It really didn't take a lot to figure who you were talking about...did you even think to mention this thread to her, prior to posting it???

And right or wrong, didn't you take the time to think how this thread would play out. The focus then becoming who the provider is, will she say something,
did she alert the ladies, etc, etc.

And I really know you didn't mean to cause any more issues to the provider....but come on. When we post something, when they say you own it....
it means knowing how many different ways the football drops. Not saying that's right, just saying it is.

And remember the last thread you started....and how all that particular provider said was to move things along. With that in mind, maybe this thread,
good intentional, but still not such a good idea??

But perhaps your discretion is something to work on


Hey Ms E.....I'm keeping an eye on ya, lol

When any tragedy happens most people express sympathy for the injured party and try to show some support. That was the entire purpose of this thread. But because I didn't want to publicly identify the victim, I became a bad person for believing that we should cherish all providers. Later the provider that was attacked became somehow to blame for any future problems because an alert was not forthcoming quickly enough to satisfy some very vocal providers.

This doesn't make any sense. For the injured party to be outed and then attacked is beyond any justification. Too many of you that added to this thread are either crazy or the most uncaring people around. If in a time of tragedy the only thing that people can worry about is their own safety without any sense or desire to comfort or provide relief then there is something really wrong.

Attack me all you want for starting a compassionate thread. Attack me for not publicly identifying the injured party. I frankly don't care. If you read all of my posts, their intent was clear. But to out and publicly attack the beaten provider is inexcusably. I feel sorry for you state of mind. Originally Posted by searchthelimits

Very well said; search expresses my thoughts and feelings regarding this thread and some of you as well.

Another word in my mind that accurately describes some of you and your actions is....pathetic!

We all just want to be safe when things like this situation happens it freaks everybody out because safety is number one always on both sides of the fence. I admire his feelings for this provider he obviously wants to see remain safe but us not knowing who is the attacker is scary. I'm never one to beat around the bush fellas I don't mean any harm I'm just a blunt person.

This thread has run its course, the information is out there and everyone can make their own decisions on what to do with it.