Cathrine - Vi - Valerie... I got outted :( now what do I do?

I am sorry this happened to you

The fact this is going on is terrible. The BP listing pictures of you are great, but this isn't good for you.

Please remove and shutdown your BP listings with your IRL info.

Wtf is wrong with people on this board who ever that was I hope you choke. VI I am sorry that happened to you babe.

If the hobbyist is on Eccie report to Mods . And the secret mod squad will take care of him.
If he is not an eccentric hobbyist there is nothing wrong with you calling his wife and dropping the dime and no I don't think that makes you the same as him.
Then pray to Jesus he will forgive you and move on. There is no way that he can think by outing you nothing will come back to bite him especially if he was a client. Your mom should know that her Church friend was paying to fuck her baby girl . And if she new your menu she probably would have dropped kicked him herself. His outing you should not change the fact that I'm the eyes of the church he has sinned. And if he does not come out himself to the church after outing some one else as a sinner he is the worse type of sinner. God bless pray to Jesus.

Don't out him to his family. That escalation won't help you, and it's quite possible he would retaliate. One of the more famous meltdowns in the old aspd days was a provider/hobbyist break-up that resulted in the hooker outting the john, and things just got worse from there. There is no upside, only downside.

Now, sharing his information with other providers is another matter. They definitely should know what they may be dealing with if they consider seeing the SOB.

V I know we've not met, and it looks like we probably won't, I was hoping to eventually. Matter of fact I've not met anyone in the hobby or have any reviews, yet, I have my reasons,but I feel terrible for you about this. No one deserves what you have been handed, I don't care what they do. This is just wrong on so many levels.
Tinman is throwing out some solid advice no doubt.
There is no excuse for what your father said, none, a father should never say some hurtful shit like that to his daughter, ever! THAT is what I am sorry about for you the most, I hope you can forgive that, I don't care what you do, that was wrong of him. He's your dad, its his place to love you, not judge and berate you.
OMG forgiveness from who?? God? Absolutely, screw everyone else, you owe them nothing, who are they to judge you! Who here, who walking this earth is better than another and lived a sin free life? No one. Oh I get it, we all do, people don't approve of lifestyles or choices we all make, okay fine, but what this asshat did to you is just wrong. He will answer for it, no sin is greater than another in the eyes of God.
This is between you, God and your family, eff everyone else that is "offended", who are they to lay judgement on you or anyone else! A true believer, would love you, never speak against you for anything you've done, and ask to pray with you. Forgiveness is from God and you, no one else, he knows what we do, public confession? OK fine, speak with your pastor if he's yours, or another, tell him, ask him to pray with you, change your life, thats up to you, God forgives, thats the business he's in. No true believer will, nor would they judge you, only love you and pray with you IF you want them to, and when YOU ask for it. Eff that loser. I appreciate your courage and owning up, if you stay with this, be smart, stay sharp, good luck girly, hang in there!

Tin man your right outing him could escalate things further. There has to be some motive behind what he did. This guy deserves a Jimmy Swaggert moment in front of the church. Just sayin.

Amen, Brother Azzbakwerdz! I was thinking much the same, but had already said too much.

V

This is terrible. There is no world where that guy doesn't get outed. You don't have to be the one. You've been through enough. I'm certain there are some ladies that love to help. I doubt the mods would say its wrong.

Go to church and out him in front of the congregation. Originally Posted by moonshiner

Worst advice ever.....

Worst advice ever..... Originally Posted by Kayleehotchick

Yes, don't cause yourself more trouble. Karma is an evil nasty bitch.

Did anyone ask him how it came to his attention?
Why was he looking where ever he was looking to find you?

"So Mrs. Smith, I was looking at hooker ads last weekend and just so happen to come across your daughter?"

If someone hasn't started connecting the dots, they will soon.

Deny

Deny

Deny

Make counter accusations

Deny

Backstop do your denials appear truthful.

Worst advice ever..... Originally Posted by Kayleehotchick

This exactly isn't the best place to seek advice, This thread is turning into a church with all the religious advice going on LOL, advise from johns and hookers that is smh.

I have some advise for the OP, stop posting and find a mentor away from this place or just stay and go balls out, You can't do both.

Tin man your right outing him could escalate things further. There has to be some motive behind what he did. This guy deserves a Jimmy Swaggert moment in front of the church. Just sayin. Originally Posted by swather

My question is did he"out" her to her mother , or did he alert her mother about her daughters lifestyles as a friend of the family. It is unclear if the guy actually attempted to see VI, or if he saw her ads and told her mother. We are assuming that he is it out of malice but we don't really know.

I don't get why outing him doesn't work.

Like, if I slap the shit out of one of you, I probably deserve to get slapped the shit out of back, right?

I'm confused.