butt plugs????

Interesting topic Elizabeth. I have tried the sounds and I liked em, the violation of another taboo orfice thing. As far as CBT, I am a fan of that too and find it difficult to find a provider that will take it to the level I desire altho I believe Lindsy Lacey might be the one. She has lots of intersting toys including estim equipment Next visit I get to go to the mythical Red Room. Ball tugging is always good fun, but most ladies are reluctant to attack the boys with the relish needed. I like to tie a cord using a slipknot around my nutsac and have my partner tug on it while we doggie, that way she sometimes forgets herself and pulls harder than she would otherwise. Chewing on the boys is another turn on and even a little tooth action on the head and shaft can rachet it up a notch or two. An adventerous lover can be an amazing thing. The more mature the provider the more likely you are to find that spirit. Just MHO. One mans torture can be anothers ectasy.

Let's be clear... there is a difference between a butt plug and a dildo, the former being designed to go into the ass and the latter being more generally useful. Most of the butt plugs I've seen are short and fat with a relatively skinny "neck" near the base. (Picture the ace from the "Ace of Spades" card). This design enables pleasurable stretching of the anus without deep penetration.

That being said, almost any toy can be pleasurable up the ass. For men, vibrators I nice because they stimulate the prostate when used correctly.

All that being said, my favorite is two or three wiggling fingers, connected to a sexy woman who is making out with me while she massages my prostate. If you want to hear more, PM me.

Not sure how I'm going to get any work done the rest of the day while thinking about that.

mmmmmm naughty but nice---you my friend are my kinda guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

DallasRain - I think the plug is a great weapon for your arsenal. I think is one of those sensations that keeps your attention focused. I think it's one of many great toys worth using in an abandonment scene. clamps on the nips, a gag, a blindfold, the butt plug, and a chilly location.

Also, a plug will serve to prevent the hard work you did of stretching out your victims ass going back to normal resistance.

Love figging... with a willing pet who gets off on my occasional sexual sadism. She also "likes" Icy Hot on her fun parts. Well... I like it anyway.

There was a 1.5 hour lecture on figging at Beyond Vanilla last weekend. Very interesting... almost as interesting as the "Demystifying Mindfucts" and "Kinky toys already in your hotel room" discussions.

This thread has me intrigued. Have had a couple of strap-on sessions which were enjoyable...this should be a piece of cake after that. My erection after reading this says, "get something set-up soon!" LOL.

lol--Knowshisstuff---I am going to get a few difft kinds/sizes this weekend!

Having a lady work on me with toys of ever increasing size to see just how stretched they can get me.... getting stiff just thinking about it!

Today seems like a good day for early afternoon playtime. All this talk has given me the urge.

wooohoooo Sky--and its is "humpday"..lol!

Can I suggest a slightly kinky alternative? Try a piece of ginger, you can get them as slim as you want to. Peel it, and shape one end for penetration and the other end as a handle. Some people cut horizontal slits in the root and soak it in cold water for more intense sensation. I never tried that, but just a peeled ginger produces a pleasurable burning sensation, kind of like the lube that warms when you blow on it. If it is too much, the sensation goes away as soon as you remove the ginger. By the way, the best lube for this is water and patience, as others block the juices. Wow, I didn't know I was this kinky, but really, it's good.

Ditto---RELAXATION is # 1!!!!

I know you cannot read this thread while eating whataburger, damn.