question for the gents

Okay, I can understand your POV. Just so you know, there are some of us guys out there for whatever reason cum quickly and are relying on a quality provider to accept that short-giving. For me, once I get relaxed, I enjoy spending quality time with the provider and not treat her like my personal sperm bank Actually, I want the provider I'm with to have just as many Os as I do-- if not more. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

I all but expect a guy to be able to go more than once babe...that's not a problem. Going quick on the first one is also not as odd as you might think. In most cases I don't make it past the 7 min. mark during the first bj, but am more than willing to keep going and going if he does not need that break after an O.

Glad you read between the lines of what I was trying to illustrate...wish others had that gift lol.

@Charles and topsgt....what or who are you comparing being terrible or drab to?

I know it's not all those reviews we ladies put up and please don't say porn. Originally Posted by M A X

I'm terrible or drab compared to other guys you've seen.

I don't know what reviews you're talking about. I don't do reviews and I don't read them.

Charles, there's no way you could know what the gents we have been with are like, because we don't post reviews on our conquests, I know occasionally a lady brags about a conquest on here, but we all don't. I imagine you're better than you are letting on. A session to a lot of the ladies actually is not all about technique, and I'm pretty sure you got a a couple of tricks up your sleeve that work for the ladies after all these years of practicing, hon.....xoxo

Charles, there's no way you could know what the gents we have been with are like, because we don't post reviews on our conquests, I know occasionally a lady brags about a conquest on here, but we all don't. I imagine you're better than you are letting on. A session to a lot of the ladies actually is not all about technique, and I'm pretty sure you got a a couple of tricks up your sleeve that work for the ladies after all these years of practicing, hon.....xoxo Originally Posted by M A X

Well, you're right about not KNOWING what the other gents are like. But I can imagine. If you can support yourself in this business, you're having much more sex than I am. And "I imagine" your experience with guys runs the gamut of poor to great. And most of the guys fall into the good or excellent category (another thread). And as for "all those years of practicing:" I've gone literally years without a roll in the hay. So the practice has been minimal at best.

OK, you win, you're a lousy lay.

For lessons on the art of sex, holler any time....

OK, you win, you're a lousy lay.

For lessons on the art of sex, holler any time.... Originally Posted by M A X

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I'm in hobby luv with PJ...

Max, you crack me up!

To the OP, I have 2 suggestions for you:
1. Choose low volume providers that don't play the 3 g game (Get in, Get off and Get the hell out). Low volume girls don't book back to back and usually don't mind going a bit over time if you have the right attitude.
2. Take a cayenne pepper- horny goat weed mixed gel cap 2 hours before your appointment... available at your local health food store. Make sure it has the "cooling agent" in it so the pepper doesn't effect your stomach or worse The cayenne pepper expands your blood vessels and the horny goat weed regulates your hormones.

You gents who find yourselves releasing a small bit at a time and would prefer to have one major O... do you pee in lil squirts often too? Maybe a colonoscopy is in order because it may be a swollen prostate or worse Tell your doc your concerns. Don't be shy. If that checks out fine then it may be a nervousness that you don't realize you have... try a sub-lingual B complex liquid under your tongue 15 minutes before your date and forget about the clock. Anxiety and adrenalin can effect your performance. I see a lot of performance anxiety in this thread. This does effect our performance too. Lets all relax, smile and have fun!

Charles, in my experience with discussions with ladies the only thing really compared is a gent's attitude towards us or guys who are overly endowed and most of us are not happy to hear that info. A bad date is a guy who treats us as if we are bought and paid for which ultimately means is beneath him and these guys are the ones that don't care if they are on your hair or will smack our ass really hard for his own amusement. He's also the guy who will lay there and expect us to "run a marathon" for his amusement. We prefer gents with class who know how to treat a lady and performance is not an issue. Do we remember the guy that was an awesome fuck. Well yes, but do we wish all guys could fuck like that... NO, we don't. It's rare that we enjoy being treated like a piece of meat and even rarer that we enjoy looking at gents like a piece of meat either. Sometimes but not often. What you don't realize is it is harder for us to remember that guys name and that messes with our heads. I have found that very few girls on here are slutty types. We truly enjoy pleasing others and are only concerned with our own performance. Especially since it is reviewed in public. Think about that Sweetheart. I believe what you think would hold more true with girls who sadly and desperately need attention, not give it. The more I watch your posts, the more it is apparent to me that you would be so much happier to realize that this level of the hobby is really a higher class of people and just relax and fit in Baby. We are not all like that Houston crowd. Out here in national forum, you will find a higher class of people that won't leave you so frustrated feeling. Glad to see you here. Enjoy and leave all that stress in Houston's forum.

CPalmson, more than half of the gents explode quickly cause they are excited emotionally as they approach the door because they know and have anticipated the encounter. You have no reason to be embarrassed Baby. Being with you is a very enjoyable experience. That is why I remember you so well. London, he is a true sweetheart. Our kinda guy!

I had a gent brag to me that he was going to outlast my snapper and then lasted about 90 seconds and had the nerve to blame me. Yes Charles, I do compare guys but not because he didn't last... his attitude before and after left a lot to be desired. I am sure that more than one lady on here will agree that if I am left wanting more, I have toys. What we remember is not your performance. What we remember is hygiene, personality and how much we smile together.

One thing that I have known for a while and holds true in this thread is that maturity decides if a gent wants to spend time with a lady or if he just wants to crack your ribs and leave. I prefer gents who enjoy themselves and me over the teenage mentality who just want to scratch the itch and brag to the boys. They make blow up dolls for that. We pride ourselves on being memorable, special to you and look forward to seeing you again. However, when I screen I make sure that we are compatible by personality so I really don't have a problem spending a lil extra time with a gent. I know I am going to enjoy you before I meet you or let you meat me

I'm in hobby luv with PJ...

Max, you crack me up!

To the OP, I have 2 suggestions for you:
1. Choose low volume providers that don't play the 3 g game (Get in, Get off and Get the hell out). Low volume girls don't book back to back and usually don't mind going a bit over time if you have the right attitude. Originally Posted by Lacey Companion

I see him a couple times a month and I'm very low volume. CG is a guy with high standards and has very good taste in providers. The problem is having has nothing to do with the girl and he has made that clear to me before. I have also suggested goat weed to him but he's scared of that stuff. Maybe I'll slip some in his soda.. lol.

Ok then do you try multi pop outside the hobby? Cause if your just trying to do this in a hour span your putting to much mental pressure on yourself. Practice makes perfect...just like anything else.. spend some quality time alone and see how many times you pop you will gradually be able to produce more and more....

*giggles* Naomi, the new date rape drug. Wouldn't that make headlines? He did say he was not on any meds I did see he is pretty happy with you, but maybe he travels or wants a lil variety. I'm just answering his questions.


You guys on meds do need to ask your doc first however, it is much safer than lil blue pills and the guys I have suggested it too seem to be much happier during and after. It's pretty healthy stuff and fights aging too. For us, it's Don Quai tea.

The mind is the main sexual organ. Growing up I remember all the jokes about guys popping and then rolling over to sleep. In my younger days, I think I bought into this and with a partner was a one go guy, and this was reinforced by the expectations of the lady. However I was always able to go more tha once by myself. Finally hooking up with a lady who had a semblence of a sexual drive really opened things up as I did not feel guilty (not really the word I was after) for asking her to keep going. Having met some wonderfully enthusiastic ladies since, mostly in the hobby, has really helped too.

For the most part I think this is a matter of mental training and possibly desensitization. Many people are so senstive afterwards they don't want to be touched and as a result fade quickly. If you are able to either desensitize yourself or conversely embrace that sensitivity then I think it becomes easier to go again by not starting out flaccid. Rather than going from a dead stop to the finish line you will already be mostly there. Letting you partner know that you want to try to keep going is important too as this is not the norm.

Do I count pops? Not really. They sometimes get counted for me. I just know that each one gets progressively more intense, and that is why I strive for more.

When i book a provider i am not trying to make a race of it..I am trying to enjoy myself and trying to let the provider enjoy a man who is in no hurry to get his self off and I try to get to know each provider I meet and do so by chatting and holding her first.
Its sort of like the movie THE SCENT OF A WOMAN ..enjoy her smell , her taste, her personality, and the feel of her skin next to yours.
If you get off great and if you dont its no big problem because you are spending time with a beautiful woman and if your in such a big hurry to get 5 pops in a session all you were thinking about was yourself and you missed out on getting to know the lady.
Most providers are very interesting women and have seen a lot of things and most will enjoy sharing their thoughts and adventures with you and you will learn a lot about the lady your with and what she likes and then from there you will both enjoy the time together even more.
I know a lot of women that have husbands that are wham bam ty mam and never stop to think about them and get their nut and go on and i do not care to be that way...slow down enjoy the woman and the time you have with her and more than likely the lady will try harder to get you off as well as herself because you took the time to get to know her.
And if your into finding out how many pops you can get tell the lady thats what you want going in and hell she can start jerking you as soon as you walk in the door and never say a word just work like a milking machine...lol

i'm a diabetic. that crap affects all of my hormones ... so i get ED drugs. however, that only insures an erection - not that any other reaction is going to occur. however, as a couple of others mentioned - i don't hobby to see how many times i can get off ...

however, i do want to get off. and i want to feel as much physical pleasure as possible during that time. that includes an orgasm, some pretty serious kissing and touching, and as much skin contact as humanly possible.

if i had several hours ... then i could go again. and it's not a matter of "out of shape" - i run a half-marathon every couple of months ... i can RUN for hours. and the 1st time, i can GO for quite a while. but 2x ... not in a one hour period. although i'd like to have someone try ...