The condom broke: could he tell and he just kept going?

I have to tell you, this happened to me once. It was with a regular who had a huge crush on me, so who knows what his intentions were. It was partially my own fault, because I gave him a hand job WITH LUBE before placing the condom on him. So stupid of me!! Originally Posted by incognito isis

Now I feel retarded. I did that too. That makes them break????

Fuck.

What should I do then, grab a towel and wipe them off before putting the condom on?

Sorry if I come off as ignorant. I really had no clue.

Isis your case sounds more like a guy doing it on purpose and I don't blame you at all....

I get your point beth..... Youre a sharp woman and handled yourself well in this situatiwrothon along with my post....

since you did answer and said that you did feel a slight difference maybe he did too...

I would suggest not putting lube on prior to a condom, especially baby oil

What ISIS mentioned is right...lubing the inside of a condom definitely will lead to a slippage. I am not sure about it breaking like that tho. The surface structure (and elasticity) of the rubber has to be comprised for it to tear completely.

Here are some other ways the rubber can be compromised:

- storing your condoms in a hot place, like a glove compartment or stuffed up juicy couture purse.

- using a condom that is past its expiration date (ladies please stop buying the 10,000 bagged condoms from Sam's club. Seriously! Get a monthly supply instead.)

- ripping the condom with your teeth or fingernails while opening the wrapper (Guys r sometimes guilty of doing this in the heat of the moment. Having done this before myself, thank God, none has broken on me!)

- using the same condom more than once (Seriously....do we a refresher course on how to put a condom on. Need I saw more! If something doesn't feel right. Look at it. Or Take it off and use a new one)

My two cents.

Ya you really got to watch when opening the wrapper...

Now I feel retarded. I did that too. That makes them break????

Fuck.

What should I do then, grab a towel and wipe them off before putting the condom on?

Sorry if I come off as ignorant. I really had no clue. Originally Posted by SugarBeth

No No No it didn't break! It sliped off and went inside me. It must have slipped because I gave the guy a hand job with lube prior to putting the condom on, so the lube made everything slippery and it didn't stay on when he was inside me. So THAT was my own fault! However, whether or not the man knew it came off is another case no one will ever know. Maybe he knew? Maybe he didn't know? It was slippery because of me. But if he knew it came off, he should have stopped. He didn't. He said he didn't know but this weirdo had a crush on me, so maybe he knew but continued because it made him closer to me. At the time I was grossed out, not wanting this mans fluids in me. Even as he was blushing. But I believed he was telling the truth when he said he didn't know it was off. Now I feel violated knowing he may have been lying.

Beth, be careful of this guy. The client who came in me, well it made him fall in love with me more. I retired and blew him off. But when I returned to the biz a few months later, I decided to meet him because he begged me to do so. When we met he asked me to be his GF and he wanted OTC time. I told him if he wanted to do me any favors, the best thing any client can do is respect my privacy and remain distant. End of story.

My point is, once a client cums in you, your essence is with him. It makes it harder for them to let go of you. Weird but true.

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edit Originally Posted by notanewbie

With my permission BLAH BLAH BLAH. I don't offer creampie. If it happened, you either violated me or it was an accident. So I guess you are a violator.

Why did you edit your post?? Are you one of the guys who slip it off? You think this is a laughing matter? You think this is a joke? Your a real piece of work.

With my permission BLAH BLAH BLAH. I don't offer creampie. If it happened, you either violated me or it was an accident. So I guess you are a violator.

Why did you edit your post?? Are you one of the guys who slip it off? You think this is a laughing matter? You think this is a joke? Your a real piece of work. Originally Posted by incognito isis

why the hate sweet meat?

Did I get in the way if the "isis" show?

But if he knew it came off, he should have stopped. He didn't. He said he didn't know but this weirdo had a crush on me, so maybe he knew but continued because it made him closer to me. Originally Posted by incognito isis

My guess is that he had to know. I'm not sure how a condom could slip entirely off and not feel it.

With my permission BLAH BLAH BLAH. I don't offer creampie. If it happened, you either violated me or it was an accident. So I guess you are a violator.

Why did you edit your post?? Are you one of the guys who slip it off? You think this is a laughing matter? You think this is a joke? Your a real piece of work. Originally Posted by incognito isis

wht did his last post consist of before the edi

With my permission BLAH BLAH BLAH. I don't offer creampie. If it happened, you either violated me or it was an accident. So I guess you are a violator.

Why did you edit your post?? Are you one of the guys who slip it off? You think this is a laughing matter? You think this is a joke? Your a real piece of work. Originally Posted by incognito isis

wht did his last post consist of before the edit?

wanting to stop and being able to are 2 different things. I understand in the heat of the moment it might be hard to stop especially when your about to come. But that's still no excuse.

Skylar to answer your question: The dude said that he would love to do a cream pie in me. As if this is a light hearted matter. Sorry I take this seriously/

Things happen, but to be sure you are using a quality condom, I think this is why most providers like to -- or even insist on -- providing the condom, to assure its quality. Condoms have improved a lot over the years, and as long as you're buying good quality, the odds of accidental breakage are pretty small.

This is not something to cheap out on -- the health of two people -- and those they have fun with later -- is at stake.

Even as he was blushing. But I believed he was telling the truth when he said he didn't know it was off. Now I feel violated knowing he may have been lying. Originally Posted by incognito isis

Blushing??? That doesn't seem like the appropriate response to me.