Yup...I'm going there. We have periods.

wow, go away for 36 hrs and holy flowly :^)

first - waaaaaay too much personal information in here for me. [i know, dont read it, but kind of difficult to know it's TMI unless you read thru a post.] besides, i thought this board was about escorting, not women's health, women's finances, etc.

second - i'll say it again [slightly rephrased after yesterday's & today's updates]...
since some of women believe you need a new ad forum for this,
then i suggest you directly talk w/ the site's owner about adding it [i imagine a collected contribution / donation might influence his decision].

I for one am all for a seperate ad forum, allowing editing of your ads for about a week AND I may be one of the few guys who don't mind CFS while she is being seen by aunt flow. I just won't offer DATY during that week. I won't say who (she can if she wants) but I even had a great time with a provider who told me up front 'hey it is that time of the month, bj only.' I showed up with her full asking price for FS and said I don't mind if she did not not or would pay what she was offering for just the BJ. I just don't like the bitchy part some women get during that time of the month.
Now I'm not sure if I need to expect some flak for this post or a little praise from the ladies for being understanding.

HIGH 5 fishguy

As a mod let me speak to the editing ads issue. There are several issues with leaving ad threads open for a lengthy period of time. There are those that would use the opportunity to bump their posts solely to gain benefit from the "new" ad.

Additionally we get a good number of requests from the ladies to modify their ad posts for very valid reasons. I know of no mod to fail to honor such requests.

Not speaking for board ownership here, but to set up another forum for each eccie location is most likely not an easy or inexpensive proposition. I would suggest that a formal request be made to board ownership to determine their position on the matter.

On a purely personal matter. Reese, if aunt flo comes to visit during your anticipated trip to Oklahoma, many of us may hang ourselves!!

Just some food for thought.

Shark Week! Originally Posted by Cora Drake

HAHAHAHA If there is a section created for it, THIS must be the name. That is fucking hilarious... and perfect!

So what happens when we edit our ad? Do we say "L1/L2 only....O-N-L-Y!" in the edited ad? Then when they get there and try to do some FIV, do we jump back and say "Nooooooo! Don't touch me!", leading to a less than stellar review for being 'off limits' down there? Or when the gentleman starts asking why he can't "go there", are we to be honest and say we are bleeding, only to have it put in a review that we were working on our period and how dare we do such a thing?

Come on. You know there are going to be L1/L2 guys who want to cop a feel or maybe get some DATY. Do we just say, "I'm bleeding like a stuck pig" in the edited ad? In person? I think dialing down the services in the ad is a bit too subtle for some folks.

I think a separate forum would solve that issue. They know what they are getting when they look in that forum. It might be the first time providers could be honest about this shit.

Or, we can just keep faking it like hookers have done since the beginning of time. Originally Posted by Dannie

Not trying to be an ass here but, listing services are not allowed in ads. As most ads point to the showcase for pertinent information anyway, and you can edit your showcase when you want, put the limited service options there...problem solved.

While I understand the sentiment. I'm not really sure there is enough interest for a whole separate forum.

I guess some guys could let it out that they want to play "SHARK!"

As far as the discussion of the whys and wherefores of the ladies' bodies' operation, well, it's T-fu*king-MI for me, especially since I can't do anything about it besides sit on the sideline and wait for the "all clear."

Ahhh, it takes me back to the days of going to school in the early and mid 60s in unairconditioned buildings when I first caught the faint whiff of iron on a hot day in late summer right after school started..."Welcome Back, welcome back, welcome back..."

Looks to me like there'll either be a new forum, modified ads or not. I'd hate to be the mod(s) in charge of keeping the "one ad modification per 28 days" rule straight. I might be bit of a simpleton, but I would think that there would either be a way to incorporate into a regular ad a mention of a "Northern Exposure Only" option. Or, when contacted by a gent that could be offered without going to great lengths to explain why.

Not trying to be an ass here but, listing services are not allowed in ads. As most ads point to the showcase for pertinent information anyway, and you can edit your showcase when you want, put the limited service options there...problem solved. Originally Posted by JohnJohn

Probably the best response so far.

That being said, Dannie, you left off one important chunk of time in your analysis between a customer reading your ad and showing up at your door. That part would be the all important scheduling where such important information as tidal impacts on motorboating can and should be communicated.

That being said, Dannie, you left off one important chunk of time in your analysis between a customer reading your ad and showing up at your door. That part would be the all important scheduling where such important information as tidal impacts on motorboating can and should be communicated. Originally Posted by johnnylongcaulking

Again, that is pretty awkward and they never believe it anyway. *sigh* Never mind. You guys are right. We don't need a forum for it. You win! Yay!

I must say - typically - I just handle it with the clients that contact me.

They usually schedule accordingly - and Fishguy - I've been approached for what you suggest, but I'm not that brave.

I'd be more red in the face then red anywhere else. (omg, I can't believe I just said that!)

Again, that is pretty awkward and they never believe it anyway. *sigh* Never mind. You guys are right. We don't need a forum for it. You win! Yay! Originally Posted by Dannie

Nah, and if it is, it's not much of a victory. An overwhelming percentage of the ladies I have seen go to great lengths to be accommodiating and are intent on providing a satisfying experience. There have been new forums added in the past (Weekend Warriors and one or two that are Premium Access-only come to mind) and maybe another can be added to accommodate those who accommodate us guys.

In any case, it is pretty OBVIOUS why any lady's ad would be in that forum. Duh, one would expect that a full-growed man who was perusing there could handle a normal part of nature.

Tangie, I can't imagine you being red faced about anything, you delicate little flower...hee hee hee! But, I guess that there are limits.

On a purely personal matter. Reese, if aunt flo comes to visit during your anticipated trip to Oklahoma, many of us may hang ourselves!! Originally Posted by sdfluffy

Trust me.. I will make sure that bitch is out of the country before I head that way.

Then that is the place they should make the change. They should make it so you can edit your posts whenever you want. It makes no sense to me to limit your ability to modify your ads. Originally Posted by johnnylongcaulking

And that is WHY I'm SUGGESTING a new forum....

Because it does LIMIT us in many many ways.

Leave it to men who hasn't a period a day in their lives to think they know so much about having a period.

Hasn't Mick Jagger covered this issue pretty well, in public? Baby, I'll come back later next week...

"When I'm ridin' round the world
and I'm doin' this and I'm signing that
and I'm tryin' to make some girl
who tells me baby better come back later next week
'cause you see I'm on losing streak.
I can't get no, oh no no no.
Hey hey hey, that's what I say."