Regulars

How often….? When in my homebase of BUF, I’d consider someone to be a regular if they visit at least every 6 weeks, however I have clients that visit almost weekly. When I’m in ROC (monthly) and SYR, ALB, & PGH (bi-monthly), the consideration changes to at least every other visit, although some visit me every trip! Anything over that, I’d simple consider them to be a “repeat” visitor.

Overcommunicative….? Ironically , I find that my non-regulars are the biggest offenders here. Some regulars will text frequently and if it’s simply a “good morning, just letting you know that I’m thinking about you” text, I may not respond if I’m busy and they understand my boundaries. When I get the 3am “Thinking about you” text from a client I’ve only seen once…instant block.


Provider/client monogamy…? Moot point?? I’m not monogamous to any client so I don’t expect it from them. I don’t even believe in monogamy in my personal life, I certainly wouldn’t change my views, for lack of a better word, in my “professional” life.
I have observed that almost none of my regulars use me as a reference for any local ladies, LOL, except when traveling out of state. Originally Posted by BlondeLexi

I plea the 5th

Some serious lying on the previous page.

Benefits of being a trusted regular is the bbfs cip….

Twitter girls call out reduced rates for regulars as being rude or disqualification of being a respectable regular, they say regulars tip extra and pay full rate.

"Overcommunicative….? Ironically , I find that my non-regulars are the biggest offenders here. Some regulars will text frequently and if it’s simply a “good morning, just letting you know that I’m thinking about you” text, I may not respond if I’m busy and they understand my boundaries. When I get the 3am “Thinking about you” text from a client I’ve only seen once…instant block."


I think that is a good approach Lexi. If a regular contacts you about an appointment, chances are you'll respond. If a regular randomly texts you with whatever message, you may or may not respond. That's how it goes for me. From the male perspective I think some guys are bored and lonely and that can contribute to over texting.

[QUOTE=bf0082;1062625916]Benefits of being a trusted regular is the bbfs cip….

Is it really? I prefer having a regular provider or seeing one girl at a time but personally that is something I would never want to do with any provider. I've been offered it a few times twice on first dates and once it was insinuated that it is an option with someone I had seen a few times. That was enough to spook me and I didn't want to see that person again. For the two regular providers that were described previously, it was never offered it to me and I never asked. Both good things in my view.

Speaking of BBFS, the weirdest one I ever had was a cute little thing that I was paying 120 per date for, who one day offered BBFS if I would start to only give her 80. I was confused, so she explained that if I was seeing her for only 80, I wouldn’t be seeing anyone else, so we would be safe. So what is a guy to do? Umm, not review her, lol.

Speaking of BBFS, the weirdest one I ever had was a cute little thing that I was paying 120 per date for, who one day offered BBFS if I would start to only give her 80. I was confused, so she explained that if I was seeing her for only 80, I wouldn’t be seeing anyone else, so we would be safe. So what is a guy to do? Umm, not review her, lol. Originally Posted by ReddyRKnot

Never thought about it that way. I guess I can see how that might work in her mind - it "makes sure" you're not going anywhere...

but does it really?


If you come across a lady at a bar who is looking for a one night stand, would you turn her down? Use protection? Probably not unless if she requests it, right? So you AREN'T exclusive to the provider. Her idea has holes all around and through it. Also, who is to say she isn't making that offer to a bunch of different clients? Eek?

It's just suuuuuuuuper unsafe. There is more than one STD/STI out there in which doesn't have any visible signs, including chlamydia and gonorrhea. They are easily treatable, and shit happens, but you should ALWAYS BE SAFE and put yourself first. Left untreated, those can escalate into pretty crazy illnesses.

You also don't want to have been seeing this provider for a long time without seeing any symptoms in either of you - and say, you find another girl you really dig, you sleep with her - and she texts you calling you a pig because you gave her an STI.

But you've only been with one person?!? How... ohhhh, right...
And now you look like a scumbag, and you're probably not getting a call back.


Best bet is to wrap it up! Male condoms are effective against 98% of STDs, female condoms against 95%. Better safe than sorry!

Also, birth control fails! The $40 discount is great, but what happens when you get a text asking for a couple hundred for an abortion? Is it worth it, then?

some of these girls charge alot of Green for me to be a regular, but I have 2 that dont break me.

some of these girls charge alot of Green for me to be a regular, but I have 2 that dont break me. Originally Posted by Franklin4

Affordability plays into it. Looks and personality can draw you in, but affordability and there being no other issues keeps you coming back.

So I just want to close out the chapter on my regular. And my heart is happy fo her and I am relieved as well. My regular has recently been spending time with someone who really likes her and as a result appears to moving away from the hobby. I saw her tonight and it was a kiss on the check and a couple of "I love yous" and one "have a great life." It couldn't be a better ending.

It's just suuuuuuuuper unsafe. There is more than one STD/STI out there in which doesn't have any visible signs, including chlamydia and gonorrhea. They are easily treatable, and shit happens, but you should ALWAYS BE SAFE and put yourself first. Left untreated, those can escalate into pretty crazy illnesses. Originally Posted by valkyra

Advice from 1990…. Smh,… pussy is safe again, everything is treatable, Despro prevents hiv

Advice from 1990…. Smh,… pussy is safe again, everything is treatable, Despro prevents hiv Originally Posted by bf0082

Just because something is treatable doesn't mean you should go out and catch it, lol

So I just want to close out the chapter on my regular. And my heart is happy fo her and I am relieved as well. My regular has recently been spending time with someone who really likes her and as a result appears to moving away from the hobby. I saw her tonight and it was a kiss on the check and a couple of "I love yous" and one "have a great life." It couldn't be a better ending. Originally Posted by RobZom

Welllllllllllllll…it could’ve been a happy ending

Welllllllllllllll…it could’ve been a happy ending Originally Posted by Presj22

his happy ending involves telling a provider he loves her... even after she told him that she was moving forward to a new chapter where she wants a relationship and happiness with someone else.

#boundaries!

his happy ending involves telling a provider he loves her... even after she told him that she was moving forward to a new chapter where she wants a relationship and happiness with someone else.

#boundaries! Originally Posted by valkyra

Nope, not at all. To summarize, the happy ending involves this provider moving towards a presumably better life situation.