What makes a provider a great provider?

Don't post a bunch of bullshit in Co-Ed. You have everything to lose and nothing to gain by doing it.

I Have To Say High Five To All The Gents Who Answered ... I'd Have To Agree With All Of You Originally Posted by AmberDoll

I think she is going to teach me a thing or two and i will love every minute of it!!!

Great post Versace....thought provoking and very informative as well!!!

Actually love to have sex.
GFE and/or PSE are a must. (no CBJ)
MSOG and multiple O yourself are nice.
If you don't like or are not into old, fat, bald, beard, etc. say so.
Be horny for appointment not tired from the last one.
Don't schedule more than you can please or enjoy.
Enjoy making sure the guy has a great time.
Be as good looking as you are.
Flexibility is a plus.
But, the number 1 thing is being cheap for me.

The same thing what makes a wife or a girfriend excellent - whatever that is.

The same thing what makes a wife or a girfriend excellent - whatever that is. Originally Posted by Adgjmptw1

Three rules for a great wife or girlfriend:

1. Don't bitch too much
2. Don't get fat
3. Give lots of blowjobs

This sounds like a joke, but when I look back at the best girlfriends I've had over the years, they all have these three things in common.

Of course, the good wife/girlfriend who follows these rules is going to expect her guy not to become a fat, lazy slob, and to take care of her in the bedroom, too. So it goes both ways.

Three rules for a great wife or girlfriend:

1. Don't bitch too much
2. Don't get fat
3. Give lots of blowjobs

This sounds like a joke, but when I look back at the best girlfriends I've had over the years, they all have these three things in common.

Of course, the good wife/girlfriend who follows these rules is going to expect her guy not to become a fat, lazy slob, and to take care of her in the bedroom, too. So it goes both ways. Originally Posted by blowpop

The good ones start out that way, but it all grinds to a halt after a while. The really good one never stop.

Just be considerate. A man wants to feel pretty and loved you know...

Wait what?

Sooo what happens when you are true to yourself, into your appointments, great TCB and BCD, marketing well and you stop booking appointments?

Sooo what happens when you are true to yourself, into your appointments, great TCB and BCD, marketing well and you stop booking appointments? Originally Posted by exoticentyce

If you do it right, you'll get repeats. If you're talking about having a regular that just stopped scheduling, than someone has found a way to do it better than you... (Of course, money isn't an infinite thing for all hobbyists so keep that in mind too...)

There was only one girl in San Antonio that I would repeat with because she embodied all of the good that has been mentioned thus far. I was kinda sad I had to move to Houston... =)

She's the one provider where, everytime I look back on my experience with her, I can't help but smile. Be that provider... =)



PS: Who the hell is this other "conway" (ConwayJ88)??? -pshhh...

The best providers make one feel as though he is in an intense, passionate, sexually charged relationship. It is much more than simply telling the client to get comfortable before moving into some form of physical intimacy.

This is not easy to do. It requires care and attention to detail. It requires good conversation, flirting and seduction. Use tools like eye contact, sensual touch, body exploration, kissing (yes, kissing that may include DFK). If you can replicate this repeatedly, you will be in high demand for a very long time.

Rick

Everything Rickster17 said plus making you feel she enjoys your company just as you enjoy hers. Put that together and that spells REPEAT BUSINESS!

R

The advice in this thread has been very good. If a provider can (and within the limits of her being able to feel comfortable in a role), try to find out how she should look to best meet what the hobbyist hopes to see and experience. Some hobbyists (me, for example) like the casual, sexy, girl-next-door look, with not much make-up. Many hobbyists want the opposite--for the provider to wear sophisitcated clothes with impeccable make-up, and change into fancy nightware. I am always amazed at how different a woman can look depending on clothes, hair, make-up--and even depending on her mood at the moment. One of these looks will help to create the mutual vibes leading to a more romantic and better session. Consider displaying some of this variety in your photo gallery--it will also help the hobbyist who wants to ask you to dress like you did in "that picture".

I'll jump into this one.

DON'Ts:
1. Don't ever call or text me unless I give you the okay. Usually if I contact you, then it's okay to contact back in like manner. If not, I will tell you. Violate this once and you will never hear from me again. PERIOD!
2. Someone mentioned light fragrance ... nope! At least not for me. Clean, yes! Perfume of any level will linger after I leave. Please don't.
3. I do not need any drama. I get enough of that at home for free. (Actually it's not free, but you get the drift).

DO's:
1. Please be the girl in the picture ... PLEASE! And not the same girl but 5-6 years ago. Update you pics at least once a year.
2. So what if you are not a Barbie Doll. Be honest in your photos. We can handle it. I have booked with larger to smaller women, it all depends on the mood. But I hate it when I think I am booking with a thinner woman only to find out that she has cleverly concealed her oversized mid-section. Again, I can handle it and many prefer a BBW, so just be upfront. BTW, my ATF in Dallas could have afforded to lose about 30lbs. but she was upfront, which got my attention to begin with. For nearly 8 yrs when I was in Dallas I called her. She has since retired.
3. Please remember why I am there. :-)
4. Please be punctual.

We pay for anominity. Do not send solicitation texts!!!!!!. This is the quickest way to take you off my list.

I'll jump into this one.

DON'Ts:
1. Don't ever call or text me unless I give you the okay. Usually if I contact you, then it's okay to contact back in like manner. If not, I will tell you. Violate this once and you will never hear from me again. PERIOD!
2. Someone mentioned light fragrance ... nope! At least not for me. Clean, yes! Perfume of any level will linger after I leave. Please don't.
3. I do not need any drama. I get enough of that at home for free. (Actually it's not free, but you get the drift).

DO's:
1. Please be the girl in the picture ... PLEASE! And not the same girl but 5-6 years ago. Update you pics at least once a year.
2. So what if you are not a Barbie Doll. Be honest in your photos. We can handle it. I have booked with larger to smaller women, it all depends on the mood. But I hate it when I think I am booking with a thinner woman only to find out that she has cleverly concealed her oversized mid-section. Again, I can handle it and many prefer a BBW, so just be upfront. BTW, my ATF in Dallas could have afforded to lose about 30lbs. but she was upfront, which got my attention to begin with. For nearly 8 yrs when I was in Dallas I called her. She has since retired.
3. Please remember why I am there. :-)
4. Please be punctual. Originally Posted by onei

I agree with all the DON'T's above. The DO's in 1 and 4 have been important to me, also. I have a different pattern in who I've seen and not seen as to number 2 of the DO list, and I've been lucky never to run into the number 3 problem.