Over Nighters, whats your thoughts.

My all time fav (insert sarcasm here) are the ones that start with:

"She was not my type, but it was late, i was horny and she was available"

or

"She was not the girl in the picture, 30 lb overweight with missing teeth but I was there and horny"

or

"I've seen some rip off reviews on this girl, but decided to see if I have better luck"


or

"her incall was really dirty and there was a man lurking by the door, but I drove for 20 minutes so I decided to brave it"

Lina Originally Posted by Sensual Lina

Some guys just don't understand how increadibly dumb they make themselves look.

I agree, Old-T. It blows my mind when I see a lady complaining about an extended arrangement that bored her to death or express negative feelings that convey her disdain for how the encounter went. A lot of ladies leave all the research and recon up to the client and wonder why they end up with a review (not necessarily negative, but, sometimes they are) that they end up passing off as a "YMMV" incident. Researching a lady can only tell so much about her. As inviting as my website is, it barely scratches the surface of who I really am. My blog is way more personally informing, yet it only cracks the shell of the "egg" that encloses me. When I receive a request for my time , my response is always written in a way that lets the gentleman know that I am very open to communicating and learning more about one another. IMHO, it's never too early to get the chemistry going. It makes for a better experience overall, whether it be an hour or two, overnight, or a full weekend. Great chemistry is essential in order to have a great time, no matter how long the encounter will last.

Originally Posted by Lovelyelle_01

Elle,

Excellent advice to all.

The thing that usually catches my attention about a lady are her posts.

The things that then generally decides if I'll see her are her web site & how she responds to my introductory e-mail.

I couldn't agree with you more.

When you feel completely comfortable with someone, all nighters are a great thing.

Everybody seems to ask the Ladies the question about all nighters, but I will answer on behalf of men, or at least myself. If I did not feel completely safe and comfortable with the Lady I spend all nighters with, I would not do it.

Well it looks like I am getting in a little late in the game..But I love Overnites, they can be fun, if with the right person, someone you click with, Ive tried it with someone Ive never met before and it was ok..but with a person you have spent time with they can be alot of fun..Im actually getting ready for one tomorrow..and he is someone who does overnites often and he loves it, and has a blast..and I wear him out..

I am a huge fan of the "all nighters"

Some great advice all ready given...so won't repeat.

But I will throw this out....and it helps work around the whole "sleeping time angle"

Go ahead and do the 12 hour fun trip...but start it at say noon to midnight. Once the clock hits midnight...she happily goes home, and you can crash and have wonderful dreams!

If a client wants to see you for an over nighter, do you require so much time out, and so much time in? Or would you be happy with all the time being in.

I don't offer anything I don't enjoy and extended visits are a large part of my business. Simply put, I love overnights ! I have no time requirements or extra charges that depend on how we spend our time. In, out, dancing, sleeping, eating, movies - you name it. Hell, if you take me to a good dinner, I'll even let you film part of our time together

That being said, if the overnight is with someone you've never met I would strongly suggest you start with dinner to build chemistry so the rest of the time is not awkward or forced.

I love overnights ! I have no time requirements or extra charges that depend on how we spend our time. Originally Posted by Missy Mariposa

Your website says you upcharge 400 dollars if the client chooses to stay in the hotel or order room service only. Its cool if that's what you charge, but it is an extra charge.......

When I see different rate structure that center on how frisky I am it causes pause for me, and make me think its something or a type of engagement she wouldn't be committed to in the first place. Maybe the extra fee makes my preference tolerable perhaps.......

Your website says you upcharge 400 dollars if the client chooses to stay in the hotel or order room service only. Its cool if that's what you charge, but it is an extra charge.......

That's for visits *OVER* 12 hours. An overnight is a 12 hour visit at the listed donation on the website.

Maybe the extra fee makes my preference tolerable perhaps.......

The extra fee (in my case, on visits that are longer than 12 hours where we do nothing but stay in the room) is because I'm going to need at least a day or two off after a 16 hour sexathon. That's lost income, so it's an extra fee.

At least I'm honest beforehand though. I wanna get my freak on! If I wake up with CHUB and me and that lady are cuddling and sleeping, I'm not gonna get good sleep or any if I'm horny...and she won't either with that hard pulsating rod uncomfortably laying on her back while we spoon-sleep. I don't want to feel self conscious for waking her up.......but could she blame me. Why pay an overnight rate, and then place myself on pussy punishment and have to wait until the next morning so she can rest. Not my version of a fun overnight

I agree with you. That being said, it's certainly something you want to inform someone of up front as every lady has different policies. That type of request would be something I'd be more than happy to comply with, if I was aware of it before the visit took place. But if you booked the visit, we went to bed for the night, and THEN you tried to wake me up 2 hours later? No. There's spontaneity and then there's forgetting I'm a human being.

I am a huge fan of the "all nighters"

Some great advice all ready given...so won't repeat.

But I will throw this out....and it helps work around the whole "sleeping time angle"

Go ahead and do the 12 hour fun trip...but start it at say noon to midnight. Once the clock hits midnight...she happily goes home, and you can crash and have wonderful dreams! Originally Posted by vkmaster

Well, this is WHY I added Clock Free Dinner date packages - we get to do everything that an overnight would involve except I get to snore at the comfort of my home

Lina

^^^Same. A literal overnight is great, but not everyone's cup of tea. I've had great fun doing noon-midnight visits.

16 hour visits do well for this too. I show up at 9am, we have a great day together, and I go home at night.

do the 12 hour fun trip...but start it at say noon to midnight. Originally Posted by vkmaster

I don't like this. This means I have to wake up early that morning to accommodate this. No fun there and if its an outcall to a hotel....most hotels won't let you check in until 3pm and rarely are some at noon without being charged for an extra day. Plus I will have to spring for both lunch and a dinner date during my booked time. I just wouldn't book that early. Maybe for a 24 hour booking, but not an overnight. That's a daytime playdate. No morning wood after...unless you take an extended nap, and who really sleeps that early............

I would prefer a noon to midnight. Meet for lunch and find something to do, maybe a movie or something. Go to the hotel and have some fun and freshen up and go for dinner and drinks in the evening. Then wrap it up back at the room.

1 of 2 dealbreakers to overnights with me is if the clients snores, lol. Then, yes I will definitely need about at 3-4 hrs of time out (while he's sleeping) so I can actually get some rest and be ready for the next day!

Other than that, I'm all for overnights with the right client. Time out isn't really necessary for as I wouldn't want to be stuck to an overnight obligation with someone that I need a timeout from.

I always get a good chuckle from overnight requests from first time clients...silly

most hotels won't let you check in until 3pm and rarely are some at noon without being charged for an extra day.
I travel a lot, often needing to check in early. I have hardly ever had a problem with check-ins as early as noon. Even up to 9 AM if I talk with them in advance about it. It doesn't always work, but I've had few problems.

Plus I will have to spring for both lunch and a dinner date during my booked time.
You spend for a 12 hr or so rate, but paying for one additional lunch (I'm assuming you'd eat one anyway) is a deal breaker?? Ouch. Originally Posted by gimme_that

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I've never done an all nighter..but it's not for lack of desire. My ATF and I have never been able to arrange it. We've talked about it, but that's as far as it ever went.