Dreams do come true... all one has to do is allow it to happen. If fear runs my world, then never will a dream be fullfilled. If I am fearful of being hurt, her cheating, my wondering, or anything else, the dream will fail. If I decide to work at the relationship I believe there is nothing that cannot be overcome. It takes honesty, open mindedness , and the ability to realize I nor she is a perfect creature. As long as I keep the avenues of communication open and I am honest with myself and her.... Yes dreams do come true. Follow your heart and you may expereince GREAT Joy!! Follow your fears and you are doomed to misery, simple.
Originally Posted by Outdoorsman
Outdoorsman, your right you can not let your irrational fears dictate your actions.
But at the same time, dreaming is fine and dandy. But at some point, we all need to stop dreaming and wake the heck up and make our dreams happen by our own actions. As well as a healthy dose of reality, being sometimes things are a lot tougher than having all those good vibes, and simply can't be change, but instead adapted to or released
I'm not saying you advocate just dreaming...not at all. But I had to throw my 2 cents in there, just to add on to your thoughts