Providers who havent gotten any reviews lately (risky)

Not necessarily. There are more men that don't review than actually review. There are people that pay for premium access just to read.

As far as the review system goes, just because you get a yes doesn't really mean you get a yes from everyone. Every guy's No isn't a No for everyone. We don't have the ability to read ROS, so there's nothing to track, or improve upon.

As far as success is concerned, it's gauged in many ways. All that matters is that you feel successful. Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

Thats like saying just because An album sold a billion copies it wasnt a hit. I will agree that all men dont review, because i'm sure not even all of 10% of ALL escorts and clientel are on eccie (and that percentage is probably high). I always say i bet the highest paid escort, and the highest paying john are probably not on the internet at all, and have probably never even seen a review. And if there is nothing to be happy about a shit load of reviews why do several ladies have on their website, 100+ glowing reviews?

Its because its like look i'm the shit! Just like a restaurant and several business websites have pages just for their clients to leave reviews "oh he did a great job, timely and very professional" (plumber) "the caters we on time and got everything set up perfectly, if you want the job done right, call the Cater Masters" ya know. Everyone now-a-days is reading reviews before they try stuff out. I know i read the reviews before i buy stuff online.

By that understanding you are right. But this isn't the music industry.

No one is reinventing the wheel when it comes to this industry. There is a reason why the longer ladies have been in this industry, the less dependent and hung up they become on reviews.

When you grasp the concept of companionship BEYOND this board, you'll understand why.

Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson - By that understanding you are right. But this isn't the music industry.

No one is reinventing the wheel when it comes to this industry. There is a reason why the longer ladies have been in this industry, the less dependent and hung up they become on reviews.

When you grasp the concept of companionship BEYOND this board, you'll understand why.

Ms. Jameson, I think I love you.

On another note. Ms Mya, it does not help to contact hobbiests in chat pm and tell them to go comment on one of your reviews just so it can stay at the top of the list for all to see and stay current.

Von Spieler you're my new crush!

Von Spieler you're my new crush! Originally Posted by Kendall4U

You oughta do somethin' 'bout that, Von Spieler. You'll be glad you did.

By that understanding you are right. But this isn't the music industry.

No one is reinventing the wheel when it comes to this industry. There is a reason why the longer ladies have been in this industry, the less dependent and hung up they become on reviews.

When you grasp the concept of companionship BEYOND this board, you'll understand why. Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

Ms. Jameson, I was going to respond to this thread but you have covered everything so eloquently and with such grace that I can only thank you. Well done!

Ms. Jameson, I think I love you.

On another note. Ms Mya, it does not help to contact hobbiests in chat pm and tell them to go comment on one of your reviews just so it can stay at the top of the list for all to see and stay current. Originally Posted by Von Spieler

Am I supposed to feel exposed? And what does this have to do with my post?

By that understanding you are right. But this isn't the music industry.

No one is reinventing the wheel when it comes to this industry. There is a reason why the longer ladies have been in this industry, the less dependent and hung up they become on reviews.

When you grasp the concept of companionship BEYOND this board, you'll understand why. Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

Trust me you don't have to school me on what "this" is, I may have discovered review boards only 6 months ago, but i have been a part-time courtesan for over 5 years for sure. I am now full-time and looking to become known, i'm not trying to stay a secrete...

I am approaching "this" as a business, i conduct myself with standards you would find accomodating at any other business, on time, clean & safe enviornment, genuine care for the client, putting whatever is on my mind on hold to give my utmost attention and consolidation during the session... Oh i get "it". I do not see how someone could get dependent on reviews... Honestly i havent had one guy tell me he chose me because of my reviews... Maybe because of my website ... haha j/k

I come from sites like sd4m, aff, arragement finders, so i am more so used to having to go on a dinner date and prove i am a sophisticated well put together girl before i just go at it, There are no reviews in that land, just pure Charm , but thats when i was part time, i'm full time now and i'm am ecstatic to have found where the serious "hobbyist" stomping grounds are now. Where their letting the other guy know... "Heyyy this one's a good time" making the fishing a little easier for the next guy.

I totally get it, There are providers who are UnderTheRadar and there are Providers who are OnTopOfTheRadar

Some women are in this just part - time like i used to be, then there are girls who are full - time and looking for as much coverage as they can get and You're totally right, Coverage definetly doesn't come from reviews alone.

I would have followed up sooner, unfortunately, I transformed into Martha Stuart last week, making my 1st High School Homecoming Mum.
The last few days, I've been shooting back Nyquil and other meds, since this LOVELY change in the Texas Weather has caused my Sinus'/Allergies to act up.

*My responsibilities are priority and more important than any discussion here, however I did want to clarify a few things.

Oooohhh yay here we go...


#1. If you read my post, you will see that I did not name any certain Hobbyist.

#2. When I log in, I always see the Main Page where the Reviews are listed on the left side.
As I was writing my posted opinion, that number came to mind being as the last number of Reviews seen.
So I wrote it as an example.

(It use to be Surge who had the most Reviews, now it is not and seems as though its a race...if ya ask me)

#3. I'd like to let "Daaaaman" know I seriously wasn't calling him out. I have No Problem with him. I've never even met him. I do actually get a kick out of reading his posts and like his sig line "Fuck Ya SLUTS UNITE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

#4. To those Providers and Hobbyists who said its obvious of whom I was talking about, allow me to correct you...

Since you only know of me, it's OBVIOUS to me that you don't know I am blunt and to the point. Sometimes, I can be pretty raw, feelings get hurt and things are misunderstood.
I will always speak my mind as I am entitled to my opinion.

My post was my opinion.
An opinion that has been shared and discussed, whether agreed or disliked, among many of my Hobby friends.

come on Berkleigh. guys with 227 reviews need some love too

FUCK YA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!
SLUTS UNITED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!! Originally Posted by daaaaaman

I see you get lots of love! LOL

I saw another Provider who said they wouldn't see Daaaaman!!!! because he had too many reviews and has seen too many women. That is her prerogative as it is Berkleigh's to see who they wish. I find that stance somewhat hypocritical though because you think he has seen more women than Providers see Hobbyists? Originally Posted by George Spelvin

George, I agree with you, although I don't see it as being hypocritical.

The reality is that I know, based on my age, the year I became sexually active, the partners I've had before the "Hobby" and now during, up until Today, is more than Daaaaamans' Review Count.
This fact is true for EVERYONE.

I never said I would not see him.
I said, I'd prefer not to see someone with so many reviews.
In fact, I don't think he has ever contacted me or I've screened him.

Being as though I am Low-Volume now, yes I am a little more selective on who I choose to spend my time with.
I won't list all of my reasons here, but if you care to know, PM me.

I couldn't agree with your more George Spelvin.

I might write a lot of reviews but I always treat every provider with respect. I rarely cancel, I have before but rarerly, I show up on time and clean, have the correct donation and never over stay my time. I try to make the session about us as I think those are the best sessions. I like to get way into it in a fun and playful way. Now maybe sometimes I get out of hand on chat but that is because I am just laughing to hard.

Everyone can see who they want to see and I respect that. If someone does not want to see me then they shouldn't. I have been turn down a half dozen times. I also have 460 okays on p411, to each his own. If you look at my posts throughout ECCIE I never disrespect anyone. I am not sure why someone would not see a person with 227 reviews but again their choice, obviously in the previous post it is me that is being talked about. The reviews are information for everyone and they help me out a lot. What I do is give information for how I saw the session and opinions do vary. Since I have started writing reviews I can tell you that for sure I get great service. Providers are almost always on their "A" game when they see me. Before I posted the reviews this was not always the case. Usually my reviews will also help the lady so to me it is a win win situation.

I believe reviews are good for ECCIE as this is a review board. If any provider does not want to see me then don't. For those of you that do I will treat you will respect and we will have a fun time

FUCK YA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!
SLUTS UNITED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!! Originally Posted by daaaaaman

I agree that "Good" Reviews are appropriate, however, I've also known many who post "Fake" or spice up activities that never occurred.
Things start to get silly and out-of-hand.

Some may find it a good read, but it's not fun when your contacted about it or asked for services you don't provide.
Thats happens alot.

A lot of Hobbyists depend on those "Quality" Reviews as well as Providers for business.
Like I said before, to some, this is a game and it's known they like to have their EGO stroked in this Fantasy World. I am not implying your Reviews are such either.

But I can admit, my session and activities is and will be different from the next.
I am not mechanical and enjoy variety with each individual.
I wish that those who judge solely based on Reviews would take that into consideration.

Here is my take as a newbie.


NOW how ya gonna screen that? So I digress. What difference does it make. Ohhh and "I ask guys NOT to review"...OK so how many more 100's of NOT reviews have been NOT done.

I am thinking potentially over 227.

But I am a quiet bystander that is a newbie and have no idea what any of this means.
I therefore plead the 5th and know nothing.

Anything I say here is purely speculation.

FUCK ON DAAAAMAN!
FUCK YA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!! Originally Posted by Just'AintNuttin

If I am not mistaken, If you advertise here, you are not allowed to have a
"No - Review Policy".

The reason I stated I recently prefer NOT to be Reviewed was due to me dating a Hobbyist. Our relationship was Public and we planned to get married in June, but that did not happen.
He had BCD access the whole time we were together, so anything said, he viewed.
Being as he has known me for several years (personally), he did accept this and made the choice to be with me. It's only natural for me to protect what I could as I did not want him to know certain things about a session because I cared for his feelings.

There are several on here who hook-up, date or engage in some sort of relationship so I know I speak for many.

What is it exactly that you think 227 reviews implies that you refuse to see him? How many is too many? Just because he writes a reviews of EVERY girl he sees and the other guys dont, but they could have seen more for all you know. He is a great client and I am so glad that didnt let all the reviews deter me from seeing him.

On Mya's original topic:
Too many reviews in a short time can be a bad thing as well. I cant tell you how many times ive heard "im waiting for the dust to settle" before they will set an appt. Hype is good but not too much. Originally Posted by AshleyStarrXoXo

Ashley -
Again, I never said I would not particularly see him.
I said I would prefer not to see someone with so many Reviews or Okay's.
And that is my choice, like it or not.

I am glad you think he is a great client.
Really.
I have never seen him BCD, therefore I can't say because I haven't met him.


The Main Reason I prefer to not see a Hobbyist with hundreds of Reviews or Ok's is because I prefer to not be another notch on someones belt...

Therefore, I like more of an intimate experience where we both have a connection and He already is/becomes a regular client.
I am considered either an "ATF" or "girlfriend" to some as well as I've had a few arrangements in the past.
...And that is how I plan to keep it...


When I screen:

-I read over the email or PM.
If they are disrespectful, speak like they are texting (incomplete words) or don't provide the simple information I ask, then I usually always decline.
-I read their Profile.
-I look at their Handle Name.
-I look at their Location to see if its correct on what I was given in the screening process. I also look to see if some reviewed are in his location. (fake)
-When I read the Reviews he has, I check who they have seen and the quality of how the review is written. (ex: Incomplete)
-I look at the Providers they have Reviewed, how long these Ladies have been registered as well as where they advertise. (Backpage,p411)
-Lastly, I look at their posts, if any to see what to see what the contribute to the community.
-Many don't have a posting history or Reviews because this Board has become so negative, they don't want the drama of having their ass chewed over their own opinion.
-If all they have are Provider References, I send off for the request to verify him.

I don't have a set number number on how many, I just base it off the many I just listed.
I would like to think my screening is though and detailed for my protection as well as whom I share my Incall with or my Doubles Partners.

I agree that it is totally hypocritical for a provider to presume to say she won't see a hobbyist for having too many reviews. Come on...I know I f***** more than 227 guys last year. What makes it ok for them yet distasteful enough to say it in a public forum about a hobbyist? Personally, I would prefer Daaaaman's company over quite a few of my sessions with more utr hobbyists. He is a true gentleman and an enjoyable client with a great sense of humor. She doesn't know what she is missing. Originally Posted by mercianna

^^ LMFAO ... I refuse to even comment on this! ^^

its sad cuz everyone knows who berkleigh is talking about so what he has that many reviews atleast u kno hes legit i may have never met him in person but i have talked to him in chat and he is a very nice man in my opinion with a great sense of humor and berkleigh r u tryna say u wont see him because of all the woman he has seen?? cuz if thats the case us as providers have seen plenty of men thats very hyprocritical of u maybe u should think that over Originally Posted by Melinda Treats

What is really sad is your lack of punctuation!
Please correct that and come at me again.

Ok first of all to the OP... I have been in the hobby now for 10 yrs off and on. When I first started that was my main goal to get reviews mainly to get my name out there and to help build a reputation. Reviews are always a great thing. It first lets you know that the gent enjoyed your time and that you are worth letting other gents know about you. I for one, still love to get reviews, but I am one of those ladies that feel that it isn't mandatory for me since I have built my reputation.

Now to the other matter at hand... Might piss some off but OH WELL!!! For a provider to say that she wont see a gent because he has "TOO MANY REVIEWS" is so hypocritical. Like really. How many gents do you see a day, a week, a month? Daaaaman may be a man whore but he is one of the most RESPECTABLE gentlemen i have seen. I know that he doesnt repeat often but we have seen each other numerous times and each time he was enjoyable and a gentleman.

I for one would never say that I wont see a guy because he has too many reviews. That lets me know that I have numerous ladies that will tell me their honest opinion of the gent, which is great for screening. If i could ever bring myself to say that i would honestly expect NO ONE to come see me because I am a PROVIDER and that is what i do, see numerous gents. IMHO i feel that this current statement that is actually off topic from the OP topic, but i feel that this was said maybe because the gent with too many reviews and too many p411 okays has yet to review you.

MY .02 cents Originally Posted by SexyAnastasia

My .02 cents Sexy Anastasia-

KUDOS on your 10 years of hoe'in girlfriend...
I've been around 7 and don't think we have ever met...

Your comment about "Mr.Too-Many Reviews" not YET reviewing me was CLASSIC.
It's SAD you think that.
But I laughed.

I agree with you about having consistent quality Reviews to maintain your reputation, however I don't find it necessary to be weekly or even monthly.

I feel that if he wants to Review you, he should ask.
I feel its unattractive to advertise in the Title of an Ad how many Reviews you have. IMO
I also prefer the word "well-reviewed".

As far as how many "gents" I see daily, weekly monthly?
That's none of your business.
I have been Low Volume for a while.
I have also had 4 short-term and 1 long term arrangement/travel companion with someone whom I consider to be a very good friend.
Oh and I've dated a Moderator for a long while a few years back.

I can't elaborate on how much my Reviews affected some of those I was in an arrangement with or dated.


If by chance I ever needed that "REVIEW"...I can promise it would be written by someone else, who's status is quite well known and respected, just like Daaaaaman's, except this guy is EPIC.

I don't need the Reviews.
Trust me.

Really tired of repeating myself, but for the record, I never mentioned anything about Daaaaaman.
Never called him out, never said he was disrespectful, a man-whore or a midget with yellow polka-dots...NADA!

Am I sorry my post misconstrued and insinuated to be him?
NOPE!
It was about no one in particular.
I was making a statement and should have rounded off the fucking number.

I have said many times through out this rebuttal that I don't know him therefore I don't have a problem with him.

I will apologize to him here and via PM as I know I can be quite the BITCH but I would not deliberately hurt someones feelings, pass judgement or discriminate against, other than the reasons I listed for my screening.

The drama that exceeds here totally repulses me.
It's out of character for me not to log in daily, but thankfully My Life outside this bullshit is positively entertaining and keeps me busy.

I have no problem with Daaaaaman what-so-ever.
What I have a problem with is ignorant assumptions.
Calling me hypocritical doesn't phase me in the least, as I have been married with children, so I have been called a hell of a lot worse!

Everyone have a Fabulous Weekend!

Nice.......

Originally Posted by Kendall4u - Von Spieler you're my new crush!

Woo Hoo..A New ATF!! I wish I had seen that 3 days ago when you posted it. I'd have already been to your place and dissapointed you in ways only I know how.

Originally Posted by Eccienewbie - You oughta do somethin' 'bout that, Von Spieler. You'll be glad you did.

Already making those arrangements.

First off berkleigh u must have been very offended by what i said cuz all u could do wuz talk about my punctuation this aint school i aint worried bout typin for ur pleasure i was expressing how i felt and u want people to feel bad u have been takin medicine and stuff for ur allergies boohoo this aint no pity party i was frustrated cuz it sure seemed like u were aiming ur comment at daaaaaman and because he had providers and hobbyists defending him u tried and redeem urself cuz you knew what u said was wrong n hypocritical

thats a long post lol

I am a low volume provider with 8 consecutive positive reviews. I prefer to begin a session with a great massage because it's what I am comfortable with and the clients who want a massage tend to be the personality types I get along with best. I had turned down known board hobbyists because I didn't trust them. A very well known hobbyist on my local board contacted me, I took the appt. because all of his reviews were positive and he was very nice. I enjoyed our appt. very much, I liked him and he treated me very nicely. I assumed he would give me a great review, but that wasn't why I enjoyed the encounter, I truly liked him as a person and told him so.

He never gave me a review. He surprised me a few weeks later by making another appt. I thought the appt. went well, he seemed to enjoy himself as much as the previous appointment but he did seem a bit distant. I never mentioned anything, and of course, no review. Then, probably less than a week later I see he posted a positive review for another provider. So, as for me I will not accept an appt. from a major hobbyist. Fortunately, I did not get a negative review for I did not deserve one. I just learned that I am not hobbyist material and that's fine with me. I have a good reputation and I enjoy my clientelle regardless. I feel fortunate to be self employed and grateful for the good men who visit me, whether I receive a good review or not. As for said hobbyist, at least he is ethical and doesn't unfairly trash providers like some posters here. I still liked him as a person and was glad he returned to me once more. Just my two cents.