"Others" meaning women? Wow. I mean, I'm such a lazy woman, it took me FOREVER to figure out your clever code there. Just because you say "us guys" and then "others" instead of actually using the word "women" doesn't mask your misogyny.I get more enamoured of you with every post...very nice.
Now you ARE being presumptuous. Just because I don't talk about my retirement fund doesn't mean I don't have one. I have a suspicion that my retirement fund is better funded than most my age. I was willing to intellectually engage with you on this subject until that last post, which was just rude, and purposefully so. I'm so sorry if a woman not bowing to your almighty wisdom and doing as you command offends you so much that you must insinuate that we are all fools, but you should really ask yourself why my abundance of leisure time bothers you so much. We appreciate your concern, but I think those of us whom you are targeting are doing just fine. We are not the ones in Co-Ed begging for handouts for our kids/car/bail/etc. all the time. If you want to offer THOSE ladies advice, feel free to do so, as they might actually need it. And the day you see me go begging, feel free to tell me you told me so. Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport
I guess I'm just confused by random gents on this board giving their advice to us ladies on how to run our businesses. You have never run this business. You know very little about the costs (time, monetary, physical, and mental) of our doing business. Originally Posted by CarolineDavenportProbably not entirely accurate...ijs
As there were no guys and only two women with avatars on the prior page, you certainly don't pull any punches. Originally Posted by citizen44
I'm aware of what I wrote. Punches got thrown at me all last week because I couldn't respond, she can have a sense of humor now Originally Posted by Alyssa XOXOAlyssa IDGAF what you have to say.
I guess I'm just confused by random gents on this board giving their advice to us ladies on how to run our businesses. You have never run this business. You know very little about the costs (time, monetary, physical, and mental) of our doing business. I don't go into a restaurant/store I've never eaten/shopped at and start unloading unsolicited advice at them on how to run their business. It is rude, and frankly not that helpful. Believe me when I say that anyone who WOULD listen to your advice, has already thought their business model through much more than you have. If she hasn't, she's probably not capable of recognizing and implementing good (or bad) advice anyway. I guess I consider it presumptuous of you to think we need the advice of someone who is not in the industry. It's kind of the same thing as thinking you know how to run a car manufacturing business just because you drive a car.Caroline I think you said that beautifully. One little point to the gentlemen who are confused about what I (can only speak for myself) mean by low volume. I'm not comparing myself to civilian vanilla women. I use it not to put down or slut shame other providers. It means its my personal choice. That if you call me short notice you have an extremely small chance to play with me. I have other obligations that take first place. Just to clarify.
You seem to think that "low volume" is not a legitimate business format. I understand that to you, 4 appointments is better than 1. But you're not aware that, for instance, I have a very sensitive body. I usually need at least a few hours between partners to lose the heightened sensitivity from the friction. I simply CANNOT do appointment after appointment. It causes all sorts of "female problems" that are not pleasant for anyone. My business model keeps me healthy and happy and doesn't hurt my body. Your advice to consider a higher volume would be hazardous for me, not to mention doesn't sound fun to me. How much sex can a person really enjoy in a day? I'm sure that answer is different for everyone, but I know my answer, and I cater to it. You seem to assume that those of us who work less often do so because we just want to be lazy. That is not always the case, and I would argue it is rarely the case. You've probably never considered the "sensitive vajayjay that doesn't want a UTI" reason before because why would you? You're not a woman.
I'm not trying to be hostile. I know the written format is not the best for expressing tone. I'm not angry. A bit confused, and slightly offended, but not angry. Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport