should I keep my mouth shut or should I say something?

I'd stay out of it. You may be blamed for all that goes wrong.

OPINION: As a hobbyist or provider, you have an obligation to the code of conduct which is NO OUTING no matter what unless a serious crime was committed (i.e. human trafficking, rape, murder, assault). BTW escorting is not a serious crime in my book.

I would absolutely go fuck the living shit out of her- seriously.. then say and do nothing.
My guess is you will be tapping that for a long time to come.. and whatever happens between your friend and her is their business

I've gone through this exact thing except the guy was my client and the girl was my best friend in the real world. I decided to stick with the provider code of protecting the identity of my clients under any circumstance. I held that till they broke up and she caught him. I am very glad I didn't say anything. Originally Posted by LovingKayla

kayla, inquisitive me has a few followups, if you care to reply.

were they just dating or did they marry?
so what happened when they broke up - did you let her or him know?
if you let her know, did you catch hell for not telling her?

just curious...

Would you want some self righteous provider to come tell your fiance / wife you were a john?

I had a slightly similar situation except my friends were both women I worked with. The friend that was engaged was betrothed to a guy that was hitting on my other friend that I was also trying to fuck.
I talked to my engaged friend and after several questions and some discussion she told me she thought her fiance was the perfect man, "the one".
I decided to reveal his constant hitting on of my future fuck buddy, she was hurt, a little angry at me, but she didn't marry him and we are friends again. I think I did her a great favor....BTW things worked out with my fuck buddy as well, that was some really good pussy!!!!! Shit, I still call her ass every now and then.

From an old dude, keep it to yourself. The odds are 90/10 against you and 60/40 for your buddy who will figure it out in time, if true!!!!.

So I was looking at some of the review on here the other day and discovered that my one of my good friends fiancee is a provider. They are getting married next year. I honestly don't think that he knows anything?? If he knew, and continued to go out with her, then I would be totally fine with it. But i honestly don't think he has a clue. I dont know what to do. Any advice? should I just keep my mouth closed? Thats what I was planning on doing but I dont want my buddy to get hurt. Originally Posted by el_nino_1

Just remember karma is a bitch

A sensitive situation can easily get miscommunicated.

You are risking your friendship, their marriage, and potential friendship with the provider/bride to be.

You are potentially also risking outing a pimp as someone had pointed out earlier in the thread.....

Might risk getting capped OP, ijs