Interesting subject
I tell no one. I have been at this for 16 years back to the ASPD days and Craigslist. I have several friends who suggested I look at ECCIE but I never acknowledge that I have been on here or anywhere. I do troll them from time to time....I have been seeing Seeking arrangement ladies almost exclusively for the past 2 years. One observation is that when you run into one of them in public they are not shy about trying to get your attention. I do think it would be cool to have a friend from here to have a drink and talk about this crazy hobby and share experiences in this world. ....but then again...I don't really exist anyway.