And it's probably better to just post this in the ladies infoshare area.
Originally Posted by FireKitten
Every now and again, it's good that some of the gents get to see what it is that ladies find offensive. Think of it as a learning tool for some who simply don't "get it". You would think it was common sense to 1. not to even ask 2. refrain from immediately devaluing the lady as if she was doing something wrong 3. Lie about the situation
It's as if the gent is under the impression that posted rates include bare back services. If a lady does not succumb to his expectation of this, then she deserves to be devalued immediately for her choice to play safe, and if she then does not succumb, she must be punished. If that's an OKay thing to do and needs to be hidden out of plain sight, then maybe she should post where the gents won't see it.