Especially pathetic because not only are you crying to see a woman who doesn't want to see you, you're also begging her to take hundreds of dollars of your money too.and then you have handles saying they're AA and wont pay AA ladies more than 250 at the top end but are ready to fork over much more for the 'snow bunnies'. pathetic to the nth degree
Imagine giving your hard earned money to someone who doesn't even like your ethnicity...lol what a chump! Originally Posted by VeryClean
exactly. the lack of self respect is astounding to me but I dont have racial baggage to deal with either. Originally Posted by darkwaderfirst off, thanks for not saying "but then again I don't have..." I get weary of reading sentences that insert the "again", when the idea was not stated previously, thus an improper use of "again".
I did not read all the comments here because, well I didn't want to. This is a topic that has been beaten to death. Here is my view on it...not that anyone cares, but I am bored this morning.I agree. As I have said before, I don't want to see anyone who doesn't want to see me, regardless of their race.
I do not understand nor agree with NBA as a blanket statement to justify not seeing an entire race based on "bad behavior". That is insane. I have zero issue with the color of anyones skin. I do however have issue with how someone treats me. Respect is a big factor of my accepting dates in the hobby.
We all have "types" we are physically attracted to both here and in the RW. Some ladies may just NOT be attracted to black men. That does NOT make her racist. We are women and can decide who we will or will not see. Just because we get to P4P is a mute point. Our body, our rules. I am an older(48), HWP, curvy woman. No secret there. How fast would I be dogpiled if I jumped on EVERY ISO that was only looking for a 18-22 yr old white spinner....or a curvy MILF under the age of 40....or a black chocolate big booty queen to offer my sevices? You guys specify EXACTLY what you like and often degrade ladies that do not fall into your spectrum of "desirable". If a lady states no NBA, Indian, Asian, white, Mexican...move the hell on. I feel it does make you look bitter and pathetic to constantly keep kicking the dead horse. There are more ladies than not that will see you. Why would you want to see someone who is not interested? Obviously it is not about the money. It is her preference. She does not have to explain it to anyone and it is not up to anyone to try to figure out.
Just my opinion though.
~KK Originally Posted by Kendall4U
This is a very thoughtful post. Kendall. Analese and Chung had some thoughtful remarks as well. I agree with your comment about blanket discrimination based on attributing bad behavior to a whole race. It's bad screening. If you do p411, refs, and tinker with price point, you can avoid most bad actors of any race.
I do not understand nor agree with NBA as a blanket statement to justify not seeing an entire race based on "bad behavior". That is insane. I have zero issue with the color of anyones skin. I do however have issue with how someone treats me. Respect is a big factor of my accepting dates in the hobby.
~KK Originally Posted by Kendall4U