Provider deposits

So dumars you don't screen the girls you see? Since you say it's useless....maybe this is why you have fucking problems. I have never had someone steal from me, never had any issues with the police or a junkie customer. So how the fuck do y'all have these problems? Oh yeah cuz screening is a "useless exercise"

Did you stay for a threesome? Originally Posted by saustin

Hey, I like that thinking. Afterall, she was the "fucking wife". Or perhaps not...that's why you were summoned to the site.

I totally understand it is risky business...especially for the ladies. The men are at less physical risk for sure, but you never know who is going to open that door. Walking in and seeing 5 men would be quite alarming!

I got suckered once and only once. I gave up all the numbers of a $75 gift card only to be taken to a very bad part of town where I realized this couldn't be real. And some rough looking dudes were coming out of this house while (she?) was texting "Go on in!" I left about 20 feet of tire marks getting out of there.

I try to be upfront, polite, and considerate with the women I communicate with, but it hasn't gotten me much so far. Typically, no response at all. I honestly dont know why.

The key thing I don't like about deposits is that it is trackable. Especially, with a cash app. That can be traced right to you...and it proves you paid. And even if someone pays a deposit, I think ladies are still at risk. Risk remains so it doesn't solve the problem.

Reviews online here are quite valuable. If a provider is offering incall, with a new customer, how about a quick meet at the nearby Starbucks or QT? Chat for a minute. Good for both parties. Then, if both are agreeable, proceed to the incall location.

And only a FOOL wouldn't understand the risk we take every time we see someone. Women get killed all the time in this line of work. So sending a $50 deposit to show that at least you are legit isn't as big of a risk as someone's life. And we are more than just hookers. A lot of us do this to provide for our kids or we are putting ourselves through school to further our education. People who love using the words hooker or whore, just shows how uneducated you truly are. Originally Posted by Nikkilove91

how exactly does sending a deposit mean someone isn't a risk? maybe they send the deposit, show up and then kill you and take all the cash you have. maybe the "deposit" is their way of getting to you to do so. Not sure how leaving a paper trail makes you "safer". All a deposit does it mean you can suddenly not reply or show up to a area cause, guess what, you already have the cash, so why should you?
also, you all can be just as big a threat to people coming to see you, so how are they not "risking their life" to come see you for a quick fling. are you going to also pay a deposit for that "safety and security" that it seems to bring?

Ok so I can either take the deposit and show up and get $300 or if I don't show up I get $50? The real question is why y'all picking sending deposit, get scammed then wanna bitch about it. AGAIN HOW MANY JOHNS ARE DEAD IN A DITCH, CUZ IT HAPPENS TO FEMALES ALLLLLLL THE TIME. THEY JUST CAUGHT A SERIAL KILLER WHO HAVE BEEN KILLING PROSTITUTES FOR YEARS! BUT YOU BET YOUR ASS IF THESE PPL WERE WHITE BUSINESS MEN THE COUNTRY WOULD FREAK OUT. NO ONE CARES ABOUT OUR SAFETY EXCEPT US. SO IF SENDING A FUCKING $10 OR $50 DEPOSIT OFFENDS YOU. DONT FUCKING DO IT AND MOVE ON. Quit BITCHING ABOUT SOMETHING YOU CANNOT CHANGE. YALL DONT BITCH WHEN A HOTEL ASKS FOR DEPOSIT, OR GETTING AN APARTMENT OR A CAR OR IF YOU PUT SHIT ON LAYAWAY GOTTA DO A DEPOSIT. SO HOW THE FUCK YOU THINK ITS NOT OK FOR A WOMEN TO ASK FOR A DEPOSIT WHEN YOU ARE TRYING TO FUCK HER. LIKE WAKE THE FUCK UP

It's just like check writing policies a few bad people destroy the trust of lots of us

On the outside deposits and sending a valid ID are both good ideas . . .

HOWEVER, deposit scams have become what I highly suspect in many or most cases are off shore organized, criminal operations!!!

One example . . . go to either call escort or Listcrawler or both, enter “mom” as a search and watch what happens! Do the same with “divorced” and “sexy girl” and a host of others.

Within the last 60 days or so lots and lots of “Latinas” are passing through Lenexa and surrounding areas! AND many ads are listing snapchat as the only way to contact!! If these two markers don’t excite anybody’s spidey senses . . .

In this town some of us are HIGHLY reluctant to send “full name”, “employer” info, etc. Unmasked/unedited government IDs is dangerous and stupid!

As I continually preach to the newbie, read carefully, every sentence, scammers will usually ID themselves by what and how they write most of the time!!

End rant!

Why because I'm defending my reasoning of why I ask for deposit? I forgot women can't say anything without being ridiculed. I have never asked for employment verification. All I ask is a picture and deposit. If it's in the town I live in I don't accept deposit but If you think anyone is gonna drive 30 plus mins away I'm gonna get that deposit. Maybe start requesting ppl in your own area.

Thread was almost a year old and the points were made already

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