Boyfriend and The Business. Can you have both ?

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One of my favorite book titles: If You See a Guru in the Middle of the Road, Run Him Over.

Translation: People that insist they know what you should do should be avoided at all costs. Life has no roadmap.

Good luck to you, OP. Originally Posted by JohnnyYanks

Life does have a roadmap, but people can attempt to ignore it, that happens all the time.

I do not thinck TheOriginalDannie was referring to you, but to the fucktards like me replying.

Like TheOriginalDannie did confirm that long term relationships do happen, but are rare because relationships are hard work. Basically it comes down to if you are not willing to put in the effort ... do not bother to lead each other on. Originally Posted by pyramider

She was...hence the arrows pointing directly above to my post... Anyone with half a brain and knowledge of her distain for me would realise that.

So many times I keep trying to convince myself that I can be successful in both my relationship at home and my relationships with the gentlemen hobbyist. I am not sure that its going to work? My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over two yrs. The journey walked is more than most could have concord in a 40 yr marriage. Not exaggerating , its true. However, this lifestyle has taken a real big toll on our diminishing hearts. I don't want to answer my own question , but maybe I just did. Any doctors of love out there that has a solution? Thanks Originally Posted by Mia..Love

If I was your BF I would make it work. I wouldn't want to lose a hottie like you It does sound though like you have answered your question.

Everyone I see is my GF at least thats what they think.

I try not to get involved because of the issues it can cause ... It can be really stressful on a relationship when you have to leave constantly and they know why ... Being single is better for me ... No unnesessary drama ...

Im the one who is always leaving to go see other gals.

They didn't want to give it to me, so i had to take it! HaHa! Anyone traveling to San Antonio tx anytime soon then hmu. Have a great night everyone. Bye now

so.. do you let him fuck other chicks too?

Marriages and other long term relationships do work. I was in one. Obviously great open communication and trust are essential along with making your SO your priority but it also helps if you actually get turned on by your SO being with others. I got to watch my wife make passionate love to men and women and it just made me want her more sexually. It was a total aphrodisiac.

To take an example from TV fiction: In an episode of Friends (so many years ago now) one of the characters is in the hospital having a baby. One of her femal friends is trying to flirt with the really handsome Gynocologist, and not getting any response from him. He explains thas after looking at lady parts all day, he sust wants to go home and have a beer! Originally Posted by ICU 812

Man. That sounds horrible. I wonder if that would translate over to if she's on the rag running BnG specials, but still won't give you any play (not even a fuck you HJ) that week.

So many times I keep trying to convince myself that I can be successful in both my relationship at home and my relationships with the gentlemen hobbyist. I am not sure that its going to work? My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over two yrs. The journey walked is more than most could have concord in a 40 yr marriage. Not exaggerating , its true. However, this lifestyle has taken a real big toll on our diminishing hearts. I don't want to answer my own question , but maybe I just did. Any doctors of love out there that has a solution? Thanks Originally Posted by Mia..Love

As long as I've been in this business, I've never called myself having a boyfriend. I feel like if he truly loves you then he will "cuff" you exclusively. No real man wants his woman lying around with almost every other guy that has a dollar. I would feel a certain type of way laying on my back getting drilled and sucking different "foreign" d#@^$ and then coming home to someone laying in my bed waiting on me to f&ck and suck them for free sorry. You've gotta understand that by you being in this business it gives him room to see other people unless you're okay with that. With that being said, if he truly loved you then he would do what it takes to keep you out of the business for good.

As long as I've been in this business, I've never called myself having a boyfriend. I feel like if he truly loves you then he will "cuff" you exclusively. No real man wants his woman lying around with almost every other guy that has a dollar. I would feel a certain type of way laying on my back getting drilled and sucking different "foreign" d#@^$ and then coming home to someone laying in my bed waiting on me to f&ck and suck them for free sorry. You've gotta understand that by you being in this business it gives him room to see other people unless you're okay with that. With that being said, if he truly loved you then he would do what it takes to keep you out of the business for good.

Originally Posted by Mistress Pocahontas

dont usually get to detailed in this stuff but you called it right on.
one day im going to rite a novel about this world.
your last sentence is key. im trying..........

dont usually get to detailed in this stuff but you called it right on. one day im going to rite a novel about this world. Originally Posted by eddielewis

Nice. I'm sure it will be quite the read.

And why can't the OP have a boyfriend if she wants? Maybe they just need to spend a bit more time defining the parameters of their relationship is all.

This is the US of A - you can have whatever you want. If you're willing to go get it.